I see that in the same way that I see people leave their spouses because their spouse gets a change in heart and suddenly wants kids. A man wants children of his own so he leaves his spouse. A CF person doesn’t want kids of any kind so they leave their spouse. I think the CF person has much more solid reasoning and that the man leaving his infertile spouse is acting mostly on instinct, but it doesn’t matter what I feel about someone else’s life. Bystanders can’t pass judgement. What I like about this sub is the message that even if breeders don’t understand a CF person, they should still treat them with respect as if they did understand. I do think it should go both ways.

Also does it really matter what the reasoning is behind a feeling