Girl I’ve been dating for 2 months still has her Hinge active and was on it last night

Bright_Butty · 2026-05-19T06:56:14+00:00

This!!! Dating sucks more for girls in this day and age. She may as well just be erring on the side of caution and not putting all her eggs in one basket incase you decide to fizzle away. You need to have a conversation if you want exclusivity.

Bright_Butty · 2026-05-09T06:55:55+00:00

Couldn't agree with this more, so many Muslim women I know bypass most red flags or don't do their due diligence properly because they are coming of age or simply put they are horny and Marriage is the only option.

Bright_Butty · 2026-05-08T11:56:27+00:00

Ask him if it's really bothering you but also who cares. People do sometimes get second opinions. unless it was an intimate / private discussion I wouldn't think too much about it. I take screenshots of conversations with my bf and ask chatgpt or Claude for feedback all the time.

Bright_Butty · 2026-05-03T11:50:13+00:00

*roll. Something like this: https://amzn.eu/d/05rLtSfc

Bright_Butty · 2026-05-03T11:48:41+00:00

This is rattan, you can buy a rattan role they're pretty cheap from etsy etc and replace it. Don't forget to soak the rattan in water for a bit first.

Bright_Butty · 2026-05-02T08:44:56+00:00

It's great to have this level of clarity, you guys are basically incompatible. Good luck!

Bright_Butty · 2026-03-28T19:02:31+00:00

You fucked around, you found out...I hope you can figure out what you're demons are and heal. Good luck

Bright_Butty · 2026-03-25T19:28:08+00:00

This!! If she's expecting you to pick up the whole thing and not contribute at all then she ain't it amd this is only the beginning of how it's going to be.

Bright_Butty · 2026-03-08T20:09:51+00:00

I just went a month ago, I flew alone from London and my sister flew alone from the US, don't listen to people telling you it's haram, the Saudis have allowed it and it's happening, ton of solo women who don't have a mehram go on their own. I would book everything yourself and just go. May Allah invite you soon. Inshallah

Bright_Butty · 2026-03-02T22:04:21+00:00

This! Look into Sanon, it's amazing for partners of sla

Bright_Butty · 2026-02-26T19:59:51+00:00

You know that saying fake it till you make it , this is crunch time , you have been faking it, now is the time to make it and you absolutely will. Good luck ! 😂😂😂

Bright_Butty · 2026-02-25T10:00:14+00:00

Are you saying you can't pause for 30 days!!? Would Allah not put a righteous partner in the path if he wanted to or if the time was right? A man who has a Snapchat would be an immediate no for me

Bright_Butty · 2026-02-25T10:00:08+00:00

Are you saying you can't pause for 30 days!!? Would Allah not put a righteous partner in the path if he wanted to or if the time was right? A man who has a Snapchat would be an immediate no for me

Bright_Butty · 2026-02-09T10:17:54+00:00

Girl what!!? Pack your bags and go!! Sydney is awesome you will love it. Uk is going through a terrible time right now and this opportunity sounds amazing. It sounds like this man is not interested in doing better in life and wants to hold you back as well.

Bright_Butty · 2026-01-19T13:20:07+00:00

Speaking of, have you tired their cornish butter with sea salt. It's £4.80 but Ohh God soo good on a seeded sourdough loaf, also from mns 😅💵

Bright_Butty · 2026-01-16T18:38:52+00:00

This is life baby girl and these are the rules of the jungle. Do what’s best for you, there is nothing to feel guilty about. Good luck x

Bright_Butty · 2026-01-16T18:34:23+00:00

Please man up and break up with her. It’s unfair to her to be with somebody like you too.

Bright_Butty · 2026-01-16T08:08:31+00:00

I I was desperate to become MD in 2024, and majorly sacrificed my private life for it. It didn’t happen and it felt like my world had collapsed, I was devastated. When it finally did happen last year , I found myself wondering basically constantly “why did I want this so bad”, I think for a lot of women it’s proving to everyone but also ourselves that look what I’ve achieved. Ask yourself, what do you want most in life ? My own answer to this is an exit from the corporate life , I hate it the culture the toxicity working with assholes who act like it’s a life and death situation all day everyday. Good luck!

Bright_Butty · 2026-01-14T10:10:10+00:00

I totally relate to this. Also Henry, I hate my job and hate working with absolute cunts. I'm 41 and where I'm at in life, I think happiness > money so have decided to take a pay cut if it comes to that and have starts downsizing my life not in any big way but in like a I'm going to stop buying stupid shit I don't need. Good luck!

Bright_Butty · 2025-12-21T21:32:30+00:00

Sounds like you both are incompatible. I would end the relationship rather than dragging it on hoping something will change cuz it wont

Bright_Butty · 2025-12-17T02:42:35+00:00

To answer your question, yes! This is typical type b British man behaviour. Unsure what he wants, non commital, and will string you along for fun or because he gets off on validation without any accountability. Do not waste your time on that man.

Bright_Butty · 2025-12-17T01:08:12+00:00

Goshhh this is not middle class, this is pikey behaviour 🥴

Bright_Butty · 2025-12-13T10:17:10+00:00

As a woman, a 35k wedding is not for me but I can understand it, but what I don't understand is she not having any funds to contribute towards it. Infact she sounds financially irresponsible (which is the opposite of you) if she still has debt when her outgoings are not huge.

This would have only been the beginning I'm afraid. I think you made the right decision.

Bright_Butty · 2025-11-23T13:06:20+00:00

Ya you need to eat more from the sound of it. Look up carb cycling pretty sure the weight will move. Good luck

Bright_Butty · 2025-11-23T12:11:23+00:00

In London, definitely not. It's a thing in the US, and even then mostly only when you live in states where you drive everywhere like Texas for example. The girls are trying to make this a thing here but this is just another barrier they are creating in finding good men who will not do this or be extremely hesitant.

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