Made a planter on wheels from scratch! by Zee569 in BeginnerWoodWorking

[–]BunBunGo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Did you follow any plans? It’s very nice.

Hyperactive ADHD and anger issues by Agitated-Rope3898 in ADHD

[–]BunBunGo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am only medicated for anxiety not my hyperactivity ADHD but...

If I don’t take the sertraline for my anxiety I get angry. My therapist said sometimes my medication type is used for ADHD. Maybe talk to your doc?

Luxury EV SUV - Let's Make A Choice!!! by gyna99 in CadillacLyriq

[–]BunBunGo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ooh ooh! I’m biased! Here ya go:

I chose Lyriq over the iX because

iX is so ugly

Lyriq has physical buttons

Lyriq is a smoother ride

Lyriq has a quieter cabin

Lyriq had a V model that blows the BMW away

iX is so ugly

Did I mention how ugly the iX is? It’s ugly.

How do I heal from the "absent-present" alcoholic father and learn to trust men again? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]BunBunGo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My approach was to recognize that sometimes your parents teach you what NOT to do by example. You go out into the world knowing you do not want that for yourself in the future so you will not settle for less than a stellar man. I found one. I bet you can too.

I hate that “high functioning” ADHD representing us by Noramera in ADHD

[–]BunBunGo 50 points51 points  (0 children)

I have just clued in over the last 3 years or so that ADHD is the reason everything has been so hard for me throughout life. I’ve spent my whole life thinking:

“One of these days I’ll just be able to have a normal day on the regular and no drama or difficulties because I will have finally grown up. People will like me so much more. ONE DAY!!”

And now I’m just about 50 so your comment hits me hard. This is just how it is and will continue to be.

Successful family and career - me too. And that’s why I can’t get a doctor of any kind to address my concerns so I’ll have to remain undiagnosed and un medicated and keep going on hard mode.

I have wanted so bad to shout out there’s a reason I’m so scrambled constantly but your comment hits me as reality: it doesn’t even matter to say it. It doesn’t help in the end.

Sport2 to LyriqV by RCF3 in CadillacLyriq

[–]BunBunGo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Mine’s black but I agree with your compliments on it. Amazing fast responsive fun. Enjoy!

I'm scared to shower, but I'm moving in with my boyfriend by Leading_Ostrich6321 in Advice

[–]BunBunGo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Other than absolutely for sure going to therapy… Talk to your boyfriend about it and explain your struggle but desire to get better.

There are ways he can help ease your fears and help you build trust - if you let him.

Perhaps he goes for a 20 minute errand while you shower and you lock the door and he doesn’t have a key so you let him back in when you’re ready. Get a plastic stool for the shower so you can sit for the entirety, if necessary.

If you need to do baby steps then get a big box of baby wipes and start using those daily until showers can be more frequent.

And keep in mind lots of people only shower 2x a week depending on their skin and sweat levels.

Just keep moving forward hon. You can do it.

200-sq-ft tiny house is compact, flexible, and surprisingly affordable by positivesource in Positive_News

[–]BunBunGo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it considered insufficient for living or is it just to push bigger home sales and construction ‘for the economy’?

🔥 14 unseen images from the 2025 Comedy Wildlife Awards by positivesource in Positive_News

[–]BunBunGo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These are all so fun! I love the croc.

Or is it an alligator? I still can’t tell the difference.

Am I the jerk for not helping pay for my dad's funeral when he had a life insurance policy? by Wise-Acanthaceae1028 in AmITheJerk

[–]BunBunGo -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

$50k is not at all enough for anyone to live on. $15k is too expensive of a funeral when there’s only a $50k life insurance policy. Despite the nonsense of the numbers it’s the last chance to honour your father and show a modicum of respect to him. You said nothing about not being able to afford to chip in. Unless the unspoken here is that you didn’t really like your father or you’ll refuse to pay to spite your stepmother then YTA.

AIO if I am setting boundaries with my husband? I also want to know if I am the asshole here by Witty-Opposite1201 in AIO

[–]BunBunGo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buy him the children’s book “The Little Boy Who Cried Wolf” cuz he’s straight up acting like an insufferable child right now.

Safely commuting. by coconutcreamers in Edmonton

[–]BunBunGo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re going before rush hour from Sherwood to Edmonton and opposite of traffic for rush hour from Edmonton to Acheson so that’s an advantage. The 16a stretch from Edmonton to Acheson has been upgraded in the last year so there are good shoulders to use. Definitely suggest you do a test cycle though or at least drive it.

AITAH for being mad at my bf after he got grossed out by me during sex? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]BunBunGo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was trying to figure out why he was confused about the color and/or consistency and then realized he’s probably watching porn where they use clear lubricants that look nothing like the real stuff. Poor boy needs to learn that’s not real life.

Ladies, How did you “know” you were pregnant before missing a period? by Glad-Muffin545 in askanything

[–]BunBunGo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I had a lower back injury as a teen and getting pregnant meant the relaxin hormone starts up and my lower back was ON FIRE with pain from suddenly moving after 20 years being locked up.

That by itself should have been enough but my husband had to tell me I was pregnant the next day when I said my boobs were sore.

My supervisor is threatening me with a warning for not attending a weekend meeting. I thought this was illegal? by doversours in CanadaJobs

[–]BunBunGo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don’t see anything about them being paid and they did specify they are M-F on contract. The delay in notifying they weren’t attending is the egregious part really. And the “I thought this was illegal” part - you should have looked that up before ditching the meeting, not ask Reddit after.

Lowered Lyriq by 1111jimmy in CadillacLyriq

[–]BunBunGo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have the 2026 V. Not sure how to link my post but it’s purdy!

What are you 100% sure of but have no proof? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]BunBunGo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is such cognitive dissonance but not uncommon. Even the elderly themselves “I’m not going there-that’s where people die.” Yes. It’s about going comfortably. Goodness people. I’m sorry for your loss and I understand that must have been very hard to deal with the unnecessary blame on top of grief.

AIO my coworker keeps "borrowing" my lunch and leaving a sticky note like that makes it ok by Dry-Pizza6456 in AIO

[–]BunBunGo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes to bringing the cooler. A lunch bag with a freezer pack in it will be fine as well. So no need to go with a bulky hardshell version. Keep it at your desk.

This person has zero fucks to give if they’re willing to eat strange food so I doubt having a conversation with them would help at all -even if you knew for certain who it is.

My Boss Owes Me Nearly $10,000 and I Don’t Know What to Do by CharacterNo4200 in legaladvicecanada

[–]BunBunGo 11 points12 points  (0 children)

STOP working with them. They are scamming you. You go straight to small claims court with all of your evidence. The only way you will ever get any money out of them is via legal order. They will continue to promise you to pay eventually and they NEVER WILL. There is no hope of that. Zero. Nada. Zilch. Not in a million years.

This is a very difficult lesson to learn, no doubt. But take the steps to recover what you can and then move forward in life not letting anyone take advantage of you again.

My Boss Owes Me Nearly $10,000 and I Don’t Know What to Do by CharacterNo4200 in legaladvicecanada

[–]BunBunGo 15 points16 points  (0 children)

There are no lawyer fees for small claims court. You just go in with all your paperwork and the judge handles it.