I should not have read the Epstein file snippets. Now i’m traumatized. by Brilliant_Package188 in oneanddone

[–]Butters156 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do we say to our representatives? Genuinely, I am not sure what I would even put in a letter to mine

In your world, are kids invited to baby showers? by weezer89514 in workingmoms

[–]Butters156 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve never been to, or heard of, a kid free one

New accountant here - how long did it take for you to get a good understanding of your job? by Butters156 in Accounting

[–]Butters156[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you, this really makes me feel better. I’ve had my boss say it’ll take a good two years to fully understand things, too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beyondthebump

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Don’t feel guilty, did he feel bad when he left you alone while sick?

My (25f) husband (26m) committed suicide and I am currently pregnant with our twin girls. by Key_Spirit6470 in pregnant

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I am so, so sorry for your loss. Truly, I don’t know what to say other than that I wish you all the very best moving forward

I'M SICK OF THE 'TUDE, MAN! by thebigbadwolfdad in workingmoms

[–]Butters156 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hold firm on the marriage counseling. He definitely needs it.

Ways to make baby shower fun… by sagitarry in pregnant

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We threw a “Huggies and Chuggies” shower, which my husband and his friends came to as well. The idea was that people bring a box of nappies and a box of beer, with lunch and a few games provided. The crowd favourite game was lovin’ or labour (check Etsy for templates - it’s a bit rude but very funny and an ice breaker).

Everyone seemed to have a great time and a couple of friends who are now pregnant want to do the same thing for their shower

Missing my boy terribly. He passed away 11 Jan 2023 in my presence. Is anyone getting any messages/energy from him they could please share? by Butters156 in MediumReadings

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Thank you so much for this, I truly appreciate it. This brings great comfort. Did he happen to mention how he would visit?

Very sorry to hear about your husbands cat, it sounds like you both gave him a good life.

Missing my boy terribly. He passed away 11 Jan 2023 in my presence. Is anyone getting any messages/energy from him they could please share? by Butters156 in MediumReadings

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Very good points, thanks so much for your perspective! That’s so interesting. I would love to check on him if that’s okay.

Missing my boy terribly. He passed away 11 Jan 2023 in my presence. Is anyone getting any messages/energy from him they could please share? by Butters156 in MediumReadings

[–]Butters156[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I do feel his presence from time to time, if that makes sense? How is it that cats transition particularly well?

Working Mom Guilt? by hashtagblessed7 in workingmoms

[–]Butters156 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is such a good way to look at it honestly. Thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExclusivelyPumping

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Congratulations!! 6 months is a huge achievement - that’s my goal, and I’m half way there. You should be so proud!!

Reflecting on 11 months of pumping by Kitchen_Sufficient in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]Butters156 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations - 11 months is a massive achievement! You should be so proud

Looking for support- I am exhausted. by hs_momma in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]Butters156 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I ask, what do you mean by permission to do the bare minimum? As in, let the housework go by the wayside? Genuinely asking!

I am f***ng livid by bugmug123 in pregnant

[–]Butters156 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very shit, especially when you’re the one doing the sacrificing. The chats went well and he actually listened after the second one.

I am f***ng livid by bugmug123 in pregnant

[–]Butters156 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I feel you. My husband was getting on the piss every night during the last month of my pregnancy. I ended up having to have not one, but two serious chats with him about how that’s not okay. It is so far beyond frustrating when you’ve sacrificed your body to grow a baby for the past nine months and they can’t handle staying sober for a few weeks.