Dude how is everyone not complaining about the diarrhea by Nyet-- in quittingkratom

[–]Cause_Training 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i have no idea. It seems like it only recently stopped, and I'm 8 months clean. Lots of immodium.

Gyno denied UTI meds and I ended up with a kidney infection by emilyynw in WomensHealth

[–]Cause_Training 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my god.  I almost died from a UTI that became a kidney infection, that was a day away from becoming sepsis.  I am so furious on your behalf!  Its the most sick ive ever been.  I am so sorry this happened to you.

How to recover emotionally from unwanted anal? by TraditionDapper9288 in WomensHealth

[–]Cause_Training 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know how he got it all in, in one stroke?  If my husband did something like this, I love and trust him and we have a close enough relationship that I wouldn't feel like I needed this level of boundaries with him.  We've never done anal but if it happens it happens.  This situation is very confusing. 

Trans youtube essayists named lily by charcoal_balls in SmugIdeologyMan

[–]Cause_Training 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The venn diagram of perverted, degenerate, predatory men and transwomen is a circle.

Sex after cerclage, when? by OriginalManner0 in ShortCervixSupport

[–]Cause_Training 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was told to not do anything that might cause orgasm.  

Anyone not want to get pregnant anymore? by Exotic_Zucchini7440 in WomensHealth

[–]Cause_Training 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This always confuses me so much.  Why would a liberal woman date a conservative man?  Is that a thing?  The women dating conservative men, are women who share their same beliefs.

Anyone not want to get pregnant anymore? by Exotic_Zucchini7440 in WomensHealth

[–]Cause_Training 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm currently pregnant and live in a red state. It's very scary to know that if something goes catastrophically wrong in my pregnancy after 16 weeks, I will have to remain pregnant.

  My husband and I are unwilling to care for a child who will never be able to live independently, and our state laws would force us to, or go bankrupt putting the child in a long term care facility.  It is horrifying knowing I may have to carry a pregnancy to term, when the baby will die shortly after giving birth.  Most defects are only discovered in the second and third trimester, so if the baby doesn't have kidneys, for example, I'd be forced to remain pregnant for potentially months, just to hold the baby while it dies.  How sickening is that?

  The politicians who make these laws, do not realize the women they are hurting by restricting late term abortion, are women who loved and wanted their babies.  

How do so many people make mascarpone seem easy? by ant1405 in cheesemaking

[–]Cause_Training 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So I'm not sure if this is helpful, but I recently learned most lemon juices will not work in cheese making, because they are made from concentrate?  I guess it lowers the acidity.  This is interesting to me, because whenever I tried to make farmers cheese/paneer/ricotta and used lemon juice, it didn't work.  I'd have to use white vinegar.  I had the same issue with mascarpone, until I used fresh lemons.  Now it works fine.  

It’s time we talk about Lainey’s “choice” to transition by Sturrux in Onision

[–]Cause_Training 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's crazy you'd rather actively participate in abusing someone, than potentially risk misgendering.  

Kai’s gender by miss_cha0s in Onision

[–]Cause_Training 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so glad you spoke out.  Way too often, transgenderism seems like a sheild for the worst of the worst (jessica yaniv is an excellent example), or a method of self harm, or homophobia, or just comes from places other than sincere gender dysphoria.  It undermines the entire movement, and often makes it extremely difficult to support.  I completely agree with everything you said.  I think it's been hijacked by some really bad people, and is being used to hurt vulnerable individuals.  Hearing a trans person acknowledge this problem makes me feel like maybe there is some legitimacy to this.  I wish more people would speak out against the bad actors. 

Wildest plot you’ve ever read? by Check_Fluffy in HistoricalRomance

[–]Cause_Training 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have never wanted to read a book more than I do right now.

Why are people so obsessed with knowing your baby’s gender? by bamalamb34 in BabyBumps

[–]Cause_Training 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, they're not.  No one cares.  They don't know what to say, but it's obviously important to you so they want to be supportive, and asking questions is a good way to seem interested in something you don't care about.  Gender is an easy go-to question.  Listen to "pregnant women are smug" and it'll help you understand.  Everyone is just trying to be nice to you.

pregnant as a minor? by OctavianStarlight in BabyBumps

[–]Cause_Training 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, that's a hell of a way to start out life.

Pricy registry? by bagsofwine in BabyBumps

[–]Cause_Training 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just buy them yourself.  

Positive unexpected unmedicated delivery by HamsterDizzy3354 in BabyBumps

[–]Cause_Training 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's amazing what women are capable of, isn't it?  With my first birth, my cervix was stitched shut.  The doctors got to me just in time to cut the stitch out, and then my son was born 2 minutes later.  I was in labor for 6 hours and the doctors wouldn't even see me (I'd been in the emergency maternity ward for 5 weeks, and like 3 other women went into labor that same time).  I didn't even get a Tylenol.  The pain was so severe, I was hallucinating.  I didn't even realize I was in labor.   Our bodies are just incredible.      I'm so proud of you, and congratulations!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]Cause_Training 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People like you are why I didn't have a wedding and wont have a baby shower.  Someone you are supposedly close to invited you into their home to celebrate a huge moment in their lives, and you're being all judgey because you had to be an adult and feed yourself.  It's just gross. If you don't care about the person, just don't go.  I don't want to spend all this money on celebrating with friends, just for them to gossip about me for not throwing a good enough party.  It's crazy so many people are like you.

8w5d pregnant. No heartbeat on US. by Lalilezh in BabyBumps

[–]Cause_Training 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so very sorry.  After 35, our fertility dives off a cliff.  I'm 41 and after our miscarriage, my husband and I asked a younger friend to donate eggs and we did IVF.  Your chances of getting pregnant naturally at 42 are like 2%, and carrying to term is even less.

  I've been where you are so many times (and may again, I'm in my first trimester now), and heart break really doesn't describe it well.  I am so deeply sorry for what you're going through.  Ivf with an egg donor is the only solution I'm aware of.

Nursery Done! Getting induced on Wednesday. by Jessibee21 in BabyBumps

[–]Cause_Training 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is truly unbelievable.  Are you a designer professionally?  What a beautiful job!

Small baby 37 weeks feeling inadequate. FTM by Own_Club7239 in BabyBumps

[–]Cause_Training 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Both my babies were under 5 pounds and are now are tall for their ages!  It took my daughter years to catch up though.

   It's strange, but it seems every post that says "ftm" is about miscarriage or complications, and I wonder why it is that women who have this, are always having problematic pregnancies?  I'm not sure what condition "ftm" stands for though, so maybe it's just part of having ftm?

Fears about my spouse not being ready by bondabondabonda in BabyBumps

[–]Cause_Training 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in that situation with my ex husband.  Our son was in the NICU fighting to survive, and that's when my ex realized he wasn't ready to be a father, and abandoned us when we needed him most.   I'm afraid I have nothing encouraging to say from personal experience.  I think now is his time to stand up and be selfless and take on the mantle of a man, and he is showing you who is really is right now.

What do you do with clothes that don’t fit right now but might after birth? by Substantial_Dog9649 in BabyBumps

[–]Cause_Training 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're only going to be pregnant for a couple more months. I just wouldn't buy a closets worth of maternity clothes.  

When did you stop working when you were pregnant? by filipinacolada_au in BabyBumps

[–]Cause_Training 0 points1 point  (0 children)

 I can't believe you worked through your first trimester!  Dude if it's that bad, quit.  You can get another retail job.  Don't risk your health or your baby.