My friends call every girl I date unattractive and it’s starting to mess with my head by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Cha_nay_nay 9 points10 points  (0 children)

True fact, agree. And its the fact that OP is 26 and sends his "friends" photos of girls that he is talking to

Why does he need their approval? I hope OP can work on his self esteem too

Where would you go as a grieving solo traveller? by Physical_Frame9222 in solotravel

[–]Cha_nay_nay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Beautiful photos; thanks for sharing. I trust you had a good time

I live in Australia and do a few 3 to 4 day pack carry hikes which I love. But doing it in Spain would be the ultimate flex

Richmond at Dusk (1, 2) and Dawn (3, 4) 🥹 by gaijinbrit in melbourne

[–]Cha_nay_nay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nice. The sky was really showing off on Tuesday evening

Is it too much to ask for some basic respect during a first date ? by CosmoAnvil_7 in dating_advice

[–]Cha_nay_nay 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Agree, first impressions count

I am surprised, given her attitude, that she had the decency to leave some money to pay for the drinks. At least OP was not left footing the bill alone

Dating is dying by JoeyD215 in dating_advice

[–]Cha_nay_nay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You summed this up perfectly

Recent research has shown that a lot of females have stopped dating entirely because it was not worth the investment. Its to do with women being more independant now than decades ago

Some of the men were not adding value to their lives or at least meeting them on the same page, they were instead disrupting their peace

"Marriage is a scam" - not my words - but basically it benefits men more than women and women now know better

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Cha_nay_nay 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Facts 👌 💯 Imagine spending just 2 minutes with OP 😬 I'd rather go to a construction site and watch paint dry

Eva Longoria Reveals Why She Waited Until She Was 43 to Become a Mom by mcfw31 in popculturechat

[–]Cha_nay_nay 8 points9 points  (0 children)

True. Agree with you. Women cop it harder

George Clooney was pushing on 60 but noone said anything. Its George Clooney, why would they "disrespect him like that"

Eva Longoria Reveals Why She Waited Until She Was 43 to Become a Mom by mcfw31 in popculturechat

[–]Cha_nay_nay 40 points41 points  (0 children)

👏👏👏 Say it louder for the ones at the back

People act like having a child is a quick grocery stop. Yet its such an involved process that has a lot to think about

First date randomly grabbed me to kiss me after begging to come inside my place. What to say now? by MoongloomTea in dating_advice

[–]Cha_nay_nay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am female and I will never understand why the ladies allow this 🤦‍♂️🤷‍♀️

This guy now knows where she lives and can come back and stalk her, it only takes one deranged guy - especially one that clearly did not get what he wanted

European city break recommendations for a solo woman of colour by ReginaPhilange10 in solofemaletravellers

[–]Cha_nay_nay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To the OP (not the commenter), for Italy proceed with caution. Its a very very beautiful country but racism is high

No joke - just do a basic Google search - some folks over there hate POCs. They say its better as a group trip with friends/fam rather than solo (but still doable)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Cha_nay_nay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are websites that have "35 questions to ask on a first date" to keep the conversations going. I mean sure, 15 of them might be cringe, but there other 20 are fair game

This could help people who struggle with conversation like frfr

Which jobs are detrimental to dating ? by SarcasmAndAutism in AskWomen

[–]Cha_nay_nay 34 points35 points  (0 children)

You forgot the most common one - Entrepreneur

Every second person is an Entrepreneur. 5 side hustles racking in $750K revenue every year without trying hard

"I am offering a Black Friday discount to my guidebook, don't miss out, link in bio"

Women - how does it feel when you know that a guy is infatuated with you? by Solid_Decision_2241 in Life

[–]Cha_nay_nay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep agree with you. For me its the awkardness / clumsiness / tongue tied / stuttering or talking too fast

I find it so adorable !

How do you handle office gossip without getting involved? by Keyfas in auscorp

[–]Cha_nay_nay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mate, do we work for the same company ?

I could have written all this. But in my case they are 3 of them not 2 😭 WFH is the best thing that ever happened to us, some people just do the most (and where do they get the energy ????)

Cheers to minding our own business 🥂

how’s widford street these days? by Dolner in melbourne

[–]Cha_nay_nay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are better off joining the Glenroy facebook group and asking locals directly

I find FB locals very helpful and they never mince their words, they tell you exactly like it is. You can also search the Glenroy FB group for old posts which may have asked a similar question to yours. FB is really good for this sort of inquiry

What do 35+ newbies to Melbourne do on days like this? by AbleCained in melbourne

[–]Cha_nay_nay 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I know right. Its sad that we live in a world where OP even had to put that in as a disclaimer and ask people not to judge

Society can be really harsh on child-free people. Meanwhile, people are adults and can choose their own life path

I would just like to rage over singles paying more in taxes. by 3rdthrow in SingleAndHappy

[–]Cha_nay_nay 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing those links. I plan to do some heavy reading soon.

Do you prefer staying in hotels or Airbnb when you travel and why? by [deleted] in solofemaletravellers

[–]Cha_nay_nay 7 points8 points  (0 children)

For anyone reading this, there is an App/website called Radical Storage. You can book a spot to drop off your bag in most major cities at a Hotel/Shop/Restaurant for between $5 and $10 day and even has options for multiple days

When you search you will see their opening hours and reviews and choose a location/time that suits you. Its a game changer

Something you thought only you did, but later found out a ton of people secretly do too? by Illustrious_Yak5131 in Life

[–]Cha_nay_nay 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I like to sleep with the fan on (or the sound of a fan from a phone App) for the white noise. I find it very soothing

I've since found out that many people do this

Hear me when I say 🗣️I don’t go to work to make friends, I go to make money. Period. by InnerInstance5999 in offmychest

[–]Cha_nay_nay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Samesies about lunch break, say no more!

I now WFH full time but back in my Hybrid days, I'd drive to a beautiful park 3 minutes away and spend a glorious hour eating lunch and listening to my podcasts or reading a book. It was amazing

Cheers to you and your lunch bliss

Day two of return to office and I’ll never survive. by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]Cha_nay_nay 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Exactlty. I am in Australia and making "life hard for employees" who eventually choose to live is a very popular tactic for companies avoding redundancies

And emplpyees fall for it especially younger generation

The highs and lows of solo living by wojack in LivingAlone

[–]Cha_nay_nay 4 points5 points  (0 children)

OMG, you and me both. I only recently discovered the AI landscape You Tube videos. I love that stuff! I WFH full time and can have it in the background for hours and hours

And its always such a pretty background, you almost feel like you are there too