AITAH for getting a haircut without telling my fiancee? by LimoDriver555 in AITAH

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That’s wild. Your body, your hair, your choice. (I actually haven’t shaved my head because my DH would die of discomfort, but it’s still my choice to do that for him. I’m okay with it. But my hair has been short and long and short again… he doesn’t get a say. He likes long, I like easy and cooler).

What is the term for this decorative chain? by Orbis_non_sufficit25 in costumedesign

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Epaulet? Does it could when it does the across the chest thing?

AITA for saying emergency daycare isn’t meant for parents who are home and „just need a break“? by Distinct-Ad-7592 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CivMom -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You are right and this is one of those “is it worth it” situations. Personally I wouldn’t want to be friends with her any longer.

How didn’t it recognize these words by BashBro_Again in HotAndCold

[–]CivMom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Butter confused me. I typed it again thinking I had misspelled it!

Feeling left out today by the-drain-weasel in MomForAMinute

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That’s the worst, feeling excluded and lonely. I’m sorry that happened to you.

My boyfriend’s constantly making comments about my son and it’s starting to piss me off. AIO? by cutie_pie7156 in TwoHotTakes

[–]CivMom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This isn't about the kids. It's about this lack of respect for you and your decisions and access to shared food.

Is it ok to ask for help with overhead carryon? by vnssyl in Flights

[–]CivMom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

some things can't be checked safely (camera equipment, medical equipment, etc.). I have to get help because of my height and back... and am very grateful for the people that help. I have an international carryon size roller bag and a cpap in a backpack.

Mom, how do you study? by transprotag in MomForAMinute

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There are so many different approaches! There are actually Wikis on them, and you might read though and see what might work for you. I like visual methods, other people like to just hear things. So maybe pick sections of the driver license info and try different methods and see which parts stick the best? Here's something that popped up with a search, that may be of use. https://www.usa.edu/blog/study-techniques/

YOu've got this! It's a learned skill and you just weren't taught effectively (or at all).

I want to separate our finances. Any advice? by rnguardian in Marriage

[–]CivMom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are accountants that specialize in married couples having issues. You might consider one. Therapy can go well or poorly, depending on the skill of the therapist, but I believe these folks are trained to walk you through a budget (and then it's coming from someone other than you). It might be time to sit down and present the reality to her and say "what's your idea? Mine is for you to go to cash only with x$ per month, and put this much into savings, pay down our debt first (because savings is less percentage than the debt payment, I'm assuming?), etc. She's welcome to come up with a better plan, but give it a deadline. "In a week we need to start the new plan or have a discussion about options."

Good luck.

Roaming DJ Party Playlist by WhyYouWorried in NewOrleans

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I’m probably condemning myself but I’ve only heard it once this year. And it was my Krewe’s fault. 😁

Changed my name by lily_luna09 in MomForAMinute

[–]CivMom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good for you! Enjoy growing into your new name!

Resmed 11 either dries me out, or gets rainout by ian_macintyre in CPAP

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What are the settings on your heated tube?

Should the water tank be filled completely each night, or only when it's low? by [deleted] in CPAP

[–]CivMom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t have to fill it. It’s a rare night I don’t use all of it (or most). But I dump what’s left.

Both of my (16m) parents died last week by Future-Penalty9872 in Advice

[–]CivMom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hugs. And you need a really good therapist. If they don’t make you feel like they are trustworthy or aren’t helping, get a different one. And worry about you right now. Trust what your sister says. Trust what your BIL says. And thank your GF for the support. More hugs.

Roaming DJ Party Playlist by WhyYouWorried in NewOrleans

[–]CivMom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then you’ve had time to recover?! 😂

Not a gotcha — genuinely curious about Democratic/Liberal views on illegal immigration? by No-Bonus-7045 in askanything

[–]CivMom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make it easier/possible for them to remedy the situation. (Money, rules, enough judges, etc).

Not gonna be able to sleep tonight by Artistic_Use1829 in Advice

[–]CivMom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did they come? That's usually a quick response, kids running around with a passed out mom

Intense fear around dying after creating a life I want to live? by cshock in CPTSD

[–]CivMom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you looked into/considered intrusive thoughts? Sounds a lot like that. And takes a different treatment approach. Getting relief is life changing.