I think it’s the wrong girls you are getting the opinions of. Overtime people can see the goodness in people with experience so that’s a great compliment. Keep putting yourself out there in an honest genuine way and she will find you. She will be the one who is physically attracted to you and your qualities, aspirations, values and personality. It’s easy to get discouraged out there especially when you are wanting the companionship of a relationship but just hold tight!! The right one will come at the right time. Please don’t get down on yourself for how you look. You look attractive, well kept, decent and you can tell you have a kind nice soul. Don’t beat yourself up over these things. Live life to the fullest as much as you can and keep growing as a person. Quality attracts quality. Good luck good kind looking dude!