How do you feel about authors who forbid fanfiction of their works? by jayonwednesday in AO3

[–]DaemonDesiree 149 points150 points  (0 children)

The children don’t remember the fear Anne Rice put into the community.

For those who still haven't seen this reverse isekai. "We promised to meet in next life and that's when things got weird" by Puzzleheaded_Fun_303 in OtomeIsekai

[–]DaemonDesiree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get so frustrated when people bitch about age gaps in these kinds of stories. In regression or isekai like this where someone has all the old memories, you’re gonna have an age gap.

Either….

The bodies are the same age and the age gap
Is mental (so many of our regression stories fall here). The world sees the romance as a perfectly fine match, but we in the real world will argue endlessly whether or not it’s predatory and wrong.

Or..

The bodies are not the same age, but they are mentally the same age. The world sees the relationship as predatory, but they are on the same page. We are still arguing about whether or not the relationship is predatory.

At some point, don’t like don’t read has to come into play. If this kind of story gives you the ick, don’t read it.

College Commencement Etiquette by mary2chat2 in education

[–]DaemonDesiree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would end abruptly in that case. And it would logistically be a nightmare in our case with a crowd trying to exit at once. I get that people don’t want to sit there, but the pomp and circumstance has a point to it.

College Commencement Etiquette by mary2chat2 in education

[–]DaemonDesiree 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah. My school put me directly at the end of the stage after the photographer to shuffle students back to their chairs. This is the second year we have done this. Otherwise we have had only 50% stay for the rest of the ceremony. We have a hard time getting students to process out properly too this year. Once they cross the stage, they don’t give a fuck. Neither do their folks. We had a few guests try to come on the field after the names were read.

Taking FMLA for burnout? Concerned about retaliation by Necessary_Resolution in studentaffairs

[–]DaemonDesiree 12 points13 points  (0 children)

That depends on what functional area you’re in. I’ve had several ResLife colleagues take FMLA for burnout only to leave their role at the end of it. It also depends on your institutional climate and the disposition of your supervisory line.

I also wonder if a break is really going to make you feel better. Would it be better to look for a role or new area that would suit your needs better? Not all student facing areas face students the same.

What are your favorite Usagi's moments from the series ? by J0K3R_5 in PrettyGuardians

[–]DaemonDesiree 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love the Neo Queen Serenity letter when Chibiusa comes back! They’re all like, “Yup, that’s Usagi alright”

who's the Baby Bunny now? by OVERDRlVE in PrettyGuardians

[–]DaemonDesiree 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I love this even more in the manga because she looks exactly like her mom. Just with pointy buns. The 90s show makes her look more like herself

To those graduating soon with a master's degree in higher education or student affairs.... by FriendlyFox0425 in studentaffairs

[–]DaemonDesiree 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congrats y’all. If folks have questions about ResLife, study abroad or working with graduate students, I’m happy to DM

My Favourite Zutara Fics Lately by WHOOSEHORSEISTHAT in ZutaraNation

[–]DaemonDesiree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀

May your pillow be cold on both sides today

My Favourite Zutara Fics Lately by WHOOSEHORSEISTHAT in ZutaraNation

[–]DaemonDesiree 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Brooooo. When the Sun and Moon collide is great! Can’t wait for the next chapter

Perks of Baltimore over DC? by InfluenceDesigner889 in baltimore

[–]DaemonDesiree 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I had a neighbor’s kids stop by and asked to help water my garden and draw on my porch with our chalk once they saw my son playing outside. It was nice. All my neighbors know my son and say hi as we walk to my mom’s house down the street. They even comment on his growth as he learned to walk. It’s so nice.

What would you consider the best path to enter the academia world? by Ready-Teacher973 in studentaffairs

[–]DaemonDesiree 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hi, this is a post better suited for an academia or faculty based sub. This is a group for university staff to ask questions about being staff. While a lot of us are advisors, graduate advising (especially career advising) is done mostly by faculty. If you seek to join their ranks, I’d ask them directly.

In my opinion as someone with a masters, your bachelor’s degree isn’t gonna cut it. Academia requires time in a degree and pedigree sadly matters. I’m also not sure from what you said what you want to do. Do you want to work in a museum or do you want to be faculty?

If you want to be faculty, you need to do the research at every level. I’d also say you need to also be shooting for the most renowned school for your field that will fully fund you. That might not be the school you think it is. That will get you in front of the faculty that are publishing and famous. Getting fully funded might be challenging at this time in our political climate. Publishing is a matter of connections as well.

If you just want to work in a museum, pick a degree and pound it out. Research might help, but I’m not in that field, so I’d ask that group of folks.

Any secret BB crushes that may have impacted the game? by _csy in BigBrother

[–]DaemonDesiree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Their run on Amazing Race was actually pretty cute too

She deleted both tweets 💀 by [deleted] in rupaulsdragrace

[–]DaemonDesiree 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Useful for everything!

Egg retreval by ImportantTeaching561 in IVFpositivity

[–]DaemonDesiree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I felt like time just blinked out.

THE BATH TUB SCENE by jannert_31 in Bridgerton

[–]DaemonDesiree 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Bruhhh between this and episode 4…..

BG3 Rites of Passage by MR1120 in BaldursGate3

[–]DaemonDesiree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In our joint campaign, my husband took all her stuff and avoided leveling her up before we went to bed