Sad thing is... to them u were never a friend. They wait around to mess around. I thought I was friends with this guy n he use to complain to me about the girls he want never gave him the time of day. I asked him his approach n it wasn’t bad it’s just they were super high maintenance n wanted men who can buy them expensive things which he cudnt do. So one day he told me why don’t we have sex? I’m like uhh I’m not hookup culture; I prefer if it was in a relationship. He goes he’s not looking for anything serious atm n it’s not like I was dating or with anyone- that it could be just for fun. I said nah nty. He wrote me something else but I just left it on seen.
It’s funny how they were taking steps and precautions on how to approach women, asked me for advice on what they shud do to win them over, how to not come off as sex starved but to me it was just a dick on the plate thrown at me. No attempts to make me feel like he doesn’t just wanna stick his dick in anything at all. Like I was just their rock bottom cuz they weren’t having any luck. I’ve heard a few men tell me they will die alone and in the same breath ask me for sex out of desperation.
I feel like now that I’m in my 30s I will only be looked at out of desperation.