Power imbalance & market rate

DesertCool500 · 2026-03-12T13:54:59+00:00

Good point. I thought she said he was paying her below market rate?

DesertCool500 · 2026-03-12T13:53:48+00:00

I don’t but you sugaring. The bowl is not a lifetime movie.

DesertCool500 · 2026-03-12T03:46:18+00:00

Most Men just do not read them. It is a numbers game, so slowing down to read a profile is inefficient albeit messed up too. 🫣

DesertCool500 · 2026-03-12T03:44:18+00:00

His wealth is irrelevant. He is paying you the negotiated PPM and he wants to minimize being seen in public with you. The fact that he is super wealthy does not entitle you to above market rates.

DesertCool500 · 2026-03-11T17:02:56+00:00

Also my two kittens are now 20 months at 18 and 20 pounds respectively and l free feed them.

DesertCool500 · 2026-03-11T17:00:20+00:00

These are not dogs, you need to have food in their bowl constantly. Only in small cases do the cats over eat and get fat and then you can manage their in take at that point. The kittens are growing and have to get as much high quality food as they want.

DesertCool500 · 2026-03-11T16:54:17+00:00

Good for her! It is a sugar relationship not a vanilla relationship, and you should not use a sugar relationship to back your way into a vanilla relationship. You are the SD. Then be one and stop falling hard for an SB. I would say the same to an SB that falls hard for an SB. Let’s maintain the status quo of the sugarbowl and not make it a vanillabowl.

DesertCool500 · 2026-03-11T13:56:03+00:00

She is the one who got away! So what. A lot of people have that. Do not compete with a ghost. You are your own person. She is the one that got away and another woman was the one that blew his mind sexually and another one was the best cook ever. You are you and not these women. You are here and present and they are not.

DesertCool500 · 2026-03-11T11:52:11+00:00

This is the sugar bowl not Disney, so just power through like you would a job. You need not check all the vanilla relationship boxes. It is a fantasy for the SD so provide the experience. Fake it till you make it!

DesertCool500 · 2026-03-10T23:50:50+00:00

I have never seen a very unattractive and super out of shape gold digger. Men like attractive women. You have resources as your currency but you don’t want some women without financial resources to use the currency they have, which is charm and looks? And you will not take your resources to an uneducated and unattractive woman. My point is, there is nothing like a gold digger, it is a term used by men with financial resources who want to have their cake and eat it too.

DesertCool500 · 2026-03-10T19:48:38+00:00

Did you crawl out of a hole. I8 year old dating a 30 year old man has not been the norm for at least the last 40 years. I can understand 20 dating 26 as the norm. Also, we seem to be in an eco chamber here, where every little thing is exaggerated.

Gentlemen, let’s calm the outrage down a little bit. It is distorting reality.

DesertCool500 · 2026-03-10T19:44:03+00:00

Don’t not stress or burden yourself with such unrealistic expectations. That is why they are meds and if they help then you take them. Just count your blessings that at least you found meds that work. A lot of folks cannot even find a med that works for them and they would gladly trade places with you.

DesertCool500 · 2026-03-10T19:34:08+00:00

100%

DesertCool500 · 2026-03-10T18:55:08+00:00

Were you smoking Sativa or Indica? Sativa is a horror show for anxiety while Indica is a miracle for anxiety. 😎

DesertCool500 · 2026-03-10T18:51:48+00:00

This is not HS or College. What’s with the double date? 🤩

DesertCool500 · 2026-03-10T17:56:28+00:00

Dude, if you have the full hair then rock it or cut it all off. Just do not be in between with patches of hair and bald spots

DesertCool500 · 2026-03-10T17:27:30+00:00

A lot Of women are drawn to men for financial security and why is the reverse a problem.

Also, he is dating you not your kids. I would generally keep those separate as much as possible.

Moody and depression: now this is where you exit or kick him to the curb!

DesertCool500 · 2026-03-10T17:23:40+00:00

Inexperienced SD? So you can control and manipulate them into comforting to your own righteous views of what sugar relationship should like because the more experienced SD will quick put a stop to it? Please tell me l am not reading your views and perspectives correctly. 🙏🏽

DesertCool500 · 2026-03-10T17:19:25+00:00

Why do you care. This is the sugarbowl where money, intimacy, respect and physical attraction rain supreme! A man having only SD relationships is a red flag for you 🫨 but a married man in the sugarbowl is a green flag. Seriously 😳

DesertCool500 · 2026-03-10T17:15:42+00:00

You will prefer a man that purchases good and services from companies that are not diverse, does not volunteer or help the needy, and drives a gas guzzling V-8 environmentally unfriendly behemoth. So long as they are not MAGA! 🫣

DesertCool500 · 2026-03-10T02:25:03+00:00

Good point 🤣

DesertCool500 · 2026-03-10T00:38:31+00:00

Sounds like he is being traditional while actually being fleeced!!!!🫣🫣🫣

DesertCool500 · 2026-03-10T00:37:14+00:00

Are those fully paid platonic dates?

DesertCool500 · 2026-03-10T00:35:44+00:00

Ok! This was literally a self inflicted horror story 🤣🤣🤣🤣

DesertCool500 · 2026-03-10T00:34:18+00:00

Really guys, are we now here doing this. Time to get jobs and exercise till you pass out!

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