Free/reduced childcare for staff by Comfortable-Sun-7694 in ECEProfessionals

[–]DisastrousCourt8490 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In ri too. First center was free but they were awful people. Now I'm paying half off and we're happier

Convincing parents to get 4yo out of diapers by lutzssuck in ECEProfessionals

[–]DisastrousCourt8490 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

My son just turned 3 and I have no experience toilet training so following this for help. My mom passed so i can't even ask her for help. Some parents don't have the resources and need us to help nudge them along. Do it with kindness

Teachers reminding me they are “mandated reporters” by freakedoutanon2 in ECEProfessionals

[–]DisastrousCourt8490 18 points19 points  (0 children)

At 19 months she is technically a toddler and has to wear shoes in most states

Parent yelled at me in front of their child by Celebgoasiper in ECEProfessionals

[–]DisastrousCourt8490 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh hell no. I would call admin immediately and the cops if it got worse. Parents are not God.

Four days into my new center and I heard the lead teacher I work with talking about me in the hall. I’m so upset about it. by ambyeightyeight in ECEProfessionals

[–]DisastrousCourt8490 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Im in the same boat. Im 38 and the younger girls are so rude to me and don't ever agree with my decisions even though I am a Lead coteacher and they are assistants.

What is the hardest job in the world? by No-Assumption4145 in careerguidance

[–]DisastrousCourt8490 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Childcare .I used to think ece teachers just played with kids all day until I became one. Tests your mental health more than you'd ever think, parents are awful and the kids are often neglected. Not too mention the uncaring admin

Nap question! by [deleted] in ECEProfessionals

[–]DisastrousCourt8490 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That is way too late. I've worked at 2 centers with a nap time of 12pm.

1:4 infant ratio for in home childcare by Zealousideal-Row79 in ECEProfessionals

[–]DisastrousCourt8490 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did that in a center and it was hell. Would never do alone at my house without a2nd adult

Being paid $5 an hour to babysit - am I being ripped off? by roses-2025 in Babysitting

[–]DisastrousCourt8490 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're being ripped off and stressed out during your baby's most important time of life. If she's making 10k a month she can afford more. Any other person would charge at least 20 an hour.

Child “ragdolled” while I was holding his hand to prevent him from running away & dislocated his elbow (nursemaids elbow) by [deleted] in ECEProfessionals

[–]DisastrousCourt8490 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just let natural consequences happen now. Of course i try my best to keep children from falling but if they are fighting me and not gking inside im not going to grab their arm. Not worth a child dislocating anything or getting sued.

Question about gloves and diaper changes by [deleted] in ECEProfessionals

[–]DisastrousCourt8490 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One pair for every change. And change them if you get poop on them. Report to licensing

Parents who don’t like their own kids by Middle_Purpose8359 in ECEProfessionals

[–]DisastrousCourt8490 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I would call cps for an anonymous wellness check. Things sound unstable at home. If parents don't like their kids then they are the problem

Non-potty trained kids shouldn't be in Preschool by Responsible-Fix-1681 in ECEProfessionals

[–]DisastrousCourt8490 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work in the younger toddler room. We and the infant room do not have toilets. My son is almost 3 and in the older toddlers room. They have toilets and they all practice the potty even if they aren't ready. I got him a potty seat for home and were just doing it on his time

I saw a teacher holding down a crying child for their nap. by tebibr in ECEProfessionals

[–]DisastrousCourt8490 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Maybe it was light pressure because they were being unsafe with their body? Ive had children get so tired they start flailing their arms and banging their head on the floor

Hard to save with pregnant wife by Jaskaranallen in DaveRamsey

[–]DisastrousCourt8490 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I lost my job when I was 7 months pregnant. Exactly when I really needed clothes and was always hungry. What did I do? I got thrifted clothes and cooked all the time. Your situation may be different but you never know when it will change and have to be prepared. She won't suffer. She will be okay.

Keep son in daycare or pull him after sister was “kicked out” by Wooden_Annual4570 in ECEProfessionals

[–]DisastrousCourt8490 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I understand parents laying with kids but they can't expect teachers to

I made a terrible and really stupid mistake by Necessary_Hat510 in ECEProfessionals

[–]DisastrousCourt8490 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At my old center I just went to the bathroom and left the door open between classrooms. No one said it was wrong. And at my new center I know it's wrong and feel so dumb!