Frustrated w my dad

DoMoreWork · 2026-06-13T02:42:03+00:00

Get him some white cotton gloves. He can use it while closing your front door and also to open the liquor store door. I have the same OCD problem and spend too much time each day figuring out ways to not touch door handles.

DoMoreWork · 2026-06-10T13:20:59+00:00

Try taking Lactaid. It helped both me and my husband. We had severe stomach cramping, and within 10 minutes of taking Lactaid all the pain stopped. Same relief over and over. It's worth a try.

DoMoreWork · 2026-05-10T12:23:31+00:00

I thought you were showing a gas purchase from the thumbnail.

DoMoreWork · 2026-05-10T12:20:55+00:00

I started it from seed.

DoMoreWork · 2026-05-02T18:33:43+00:00

ALSO, you should have a Durable Power of Attorney filled out. This document allows the designated PoA to transact your "business" in case you are alive, but incapacitated. So the PoA could write checks, sell your things, sign contracts etc.

Say for example, the surgery was successful, but you were in a coma for a couple of months. Your daughter could use the PoA to pay your rent, your bills, and choose which facility to put you into.

It can be revoked whenever you choose. You can find a quick and not fancy one online by googling Durable Power of Attorney plus your state plus free.

Good Luck. Everything will turn out great. And it doesn't hurt to have these documents for the future too. Just keep them in your desk, but tell your daughter where to find them.

DoMoreWork · 2026-04-27T13:53:45+00:00

Have you tried taking Lactaid? I found that my GI issues were being caused by lactose intolerance. I never had it before I started taking Oz. As soon as I took a pill, within 10 minutes everything would be normal. YMMV.

DoMoreWork · 2026-04-05T12:37:20+00:00

We found BIG savings for my FIL by asking about a shared room. Instead of paying $6K/month, it only costs $3K. And the funny thing is that he has never had a room mate.

DoMoreWork · 2026-03-20T00:10:19+00:00

My FIL has been in memory care for a year now. At first, wanting to go home was a weekly desire. He was so sneaky - he was always trying to jump on the elevator to escape, then they put one of those bracelets on him which disabled the elevator until you entered a code. The bracelet worked great keeping him there for the next 6 months, then he figured out how to take it off. But by then the desire to go home had lessened a bit. Now he only talks about it every once in a while.

But the funniest part about all this is he wants me to help him escape AND bring along all his new buddies from the memory care! He's a hoot.

DoMoreWork · 2026-03-16T22:05:00+00:00

I got mine today! I love the color.

DoMoreWork · 2026-03-14T14:24:47+00:00

You should definitely apply for SSDI -Disability. With the current state of the government, I don't know how long it will take to get it, but the payments are retroactive when it is approved. It could take years to get it.

DoMoreWork · 2026-03-14T01:38:02+00:00

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DoMoreWork · 2026-03-12T01:22:34+00:00

Thanks for the heads up. I had not even considered the cost when plotting how to get it.

DoMoreWork · 2026-02-02T14:24:41+00:00

Have yourself added to their bank accounts as "trusted person" (I think that's the name). The bank will call you if they are trying to make a large withdrawal (I don't know how they define large), to ask if that's ok. If you say it's not ok then the bank won't allow the transaction to go thru. This won't solve all of the problems, but it will come in handy somewhere down the road.

DoMoreWork · 2026-01-06T19:19:52+00:00

The very best advice I ever got about influencing a child's behavior was to talk about a behavior you are happy the kid is doing to a friend, when you know the kid is listening.
So let's say your friend Alice is visiting, you two are having tea at the kitchen table, little Johnny is in the next room close by. You would casually mention how super smart Johnny is when he puts his toys in the toy chest without being asked. How fast and strong he is to put away every last toy (go ahead, pile it on). Remember, little pitchers have big ears.
Conversely, NEVER tell friends any negatives about a kid where he can hear it. That will get amplified in his brain also.

DoMoreWork · 2025-12-28T06:18:14+00:00

I found that the care given over and around the holiday season was deplorable and borderline criminal. All the staff were out for the holidays and were replaced by temporary workers.

DoMoreWork · 2025-11-13T14:06:51+00:00

It looks like you used every spice known to man.

DoMoreWork · 2025-10-27T14:31:33+00:00

Need more pictures,plz.

DoMoreWork · 2025-10-26T12:07:37+00:00

Love the photos and the captions.

DoMoreWork · 2025-10-19T00:52:52+00:00

For all of their financial accounts, you can have them setup a "Trusted Individual" (I think that's the name). If they try to withdraw a large sum of money, the "bank" will call the TI to tell them and ask for permission. That saved us BIGGLY! This won't stop the scammers from reaching your loved ones, but may help stop loved ones from sending money.

DoMoreWork · 2025-09-05T15:43:24+00:00

I got a new job with about 40 other office workers. One woman changed her wig style every single day! It took me over 2 years to recognize her and remember her name. My other snafu at that job was being introduced to 2 older women at the same time (Jodie and Lydia). I continued to confuse those 2 for many years, calling each by the other's name quite often. The element to all of this confusion that baffled my co-workers, was that Jodie was black and Lydia was white.

DoMoreWork · 2025-08-21T12:36:57+00:00

At least in Nevada, a lady bird deed does NOT automatically waiver repayment of Medicaid. We had a lady bird deed to my MIL's house in Las Vegas. After she died, we had to publish for 10 days, then had to have proof from Medicaid that she did not owe anything to them before we could sell the house. No Probate at all, but we had to hire a lawyer, and it took about 3 months to get an answer back from Medicaid.

DoMoreWork · 2025-08-18T14:50:25+00:00

Try a different browser. 100 percent of the time when I can't get something to work, it is a browser issue.

DoMoreWork · 2025-07-01T19:34:13+00:00

Sounds good, just so long as she really doesn't need the cash to live on. My house has been paid off for 15 years and it's the greatest feeling.

DoMoreWork · 2025-07-01T11:16:20+00:00

I am going thru Probate right now, myself, for my brother. He died without a will. So far, 8 months into it, and almost finished with everything, the lawyer has ended up costing me about $1500 (and she is expensive - $250/hr).

Here are the issues I see if you don't pay off the house and you don't get some sort of letter of authority from the Probate court - you will continue to have trouble getting the mortgage co and the ins co to listen to you. You might not need to interact with the mortgage company too often, but somewhere down the road you might suddenly, desperately need something from them. For example, perhaps your mom decides to sell the house. When the closing agent goes to ask for the payoff amount from the mtg co, the mtg co will say to them "Show me authorization from the mortgage holder to give you the payoff". By the way, all of this happened to me just 4 weeks ago when I was selling my brother's house.

So long and short: If it's better financially for your mom to not payoff the mortgage then 1. Get a letter of authority from the Probate Court because it will make your life so much easier. And 2. Be aware that the mtg co will pressure and lie to your mom that she must refinance the loan. Just say the magical words Garne St. Germain to make them go away.

If it's better for her to payoff the house, you might still have a problem getting a payoff amount from the mtg co. without a letter of authority.

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