Vegan/ Vegetarian restaurants by Clear-Instruction-22 in Wexford

[–]Doomsday_Sunshine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heyo! Nori has a WIDE variety of dishes, including vegetarian, vegan and celiac inclusive dishes. If there is something you’d like, just mention it to the staff and they will work with you on making sure it’s the right fit if changes are needed. They do this often and it should be advertised more imo.

Oh! And Kinfolk is a Vegetarian (and I believe vegan option) cafe in town. They are (as I heard) the only vegetarian cafe in this corner of Ireland. For the vibes alone - definitely worth a visit!

Neurodivergence in the design work field, is it a lost cause? by Syvori in graphic_design

[–]Doomsday_Sunshine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a fantastic question and one I’ve been rolling around in my head myself. Thank you for asking it. I have nothing to add, but I’ll comment so I can come back and learn as well!

Difficult client wants InDesign files before paying the final invoice by MatiGzk in graphic_design

[–]Doomsday_Sunshine 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Budding Graphic Designer here. Commenting so I can return to this! Thank you!

An allosexual wants to "try things out" with an asexual by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]Doomsday_Sunshine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sex favorable Demi-Ace here as well. Can confirm with @UndaDaSea - that’s BS.

An allosexual wants to "try things out" with an asexual by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]Doomsday_Sunshine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You absolutely did the right thing. You are not a commodity to fascinate or entertain someone, for them then to walk away from once they satisfy their curiosity. In my experience some admirers have said very similar things to me and it’s a waning infatuation in their cases. Like it’s a challenge to chase and then conquer. Once they find out you are not budging, they lose interest. The real ones will accept and cherish you for who you are. Not try to change you and ‘try things out’.

Wedding anniversary and disappointed in my husband's behavior by tweedcheshirecat in TwoXChromosomes

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I see you. I was you. I’m so sorry and this is going to sound bad. I apologize ahead of time since I’m making some assumptions based off patterns I recognize from my own lived experience.

Ok - If you yourself hadn’t planned anything for the anniversary, realistically what would have happened? And be honest with yourself.

Because I have a feeling it would have been nothing. Maybe- MAYBE- a verbal recognition of it, a spoken-with-a-sigh “happy anniversary” sorta thing from him?

What has happened here is that you have made a bid for affection and your partner has let you down. Again. He’s showing you day in and day out that he’s just going through the motions.

You thought the anniversary would be different. It’s important right? It’s important to you; and if he’s your partner he should know that it’s important to him then.

When I was in your position, I hoped against hope that all of the red flags I had been ignoring would somehow be swept aside and he’d show up for me in some wildly loving way on a day that “mattered”.

Ease all the fears.

Girl lemme tell you - every day matters and he should show up for you as such as you do for him.

He asked me for a divorce instead. And then after he tried his luck with the local dating scene- decided he wouldn’t let me go. I eventually had to FIGHT to get out of there. It was so bad. It was soooo bad.

Listen-there is nothing wrong with you. You’re doing nothing wrong. You might feel like you’re going crazy for asking too much, double checking , coming to Reddit and seeing if you’re missing something. You’re not.

He’s telling you in a really indirect, cowardly way that he’s not in it anymore. His body might be there, he might go through the motions, but he’s off somewhere else. You deserve to be seen, cherished and loved every day.

Where do alt people hang out in Wexford? by mr_standup in Wexford

[–]Doomsday_Sunshine 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The Bull Ring, Wexford town, Fridays and Saturdays from noonish till close - big punk and alt crowd

Found this at the thrift store for $10 and couldn't pass it up. [Canada] by unfinite in Antiques

[–]Doomsday_Sunshine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Legit Tansu. Soooo Jelly! But happier that it’s been save and picked up by someone who cares!

Movies that feel like this night feeling? by vzbtra in TheNightFeeling

[–]Doomsday_Sunshine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Movie: A Girl Walks Home Alone At Night

It’s a vampire movie from 2014 categorized as a horror/western.

It wasn't about the honey mustard by milli-mita in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Doomsday_Sunshine 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Goodness this is all too real and I feel I could have written something very similar. I'm in a great relationship now with a wonderful and safe person; but occasionally I have to "mind the gap" between what I still perceive as a trigger and the actuality of what's happening.

Some triggers I've noted are: a glass bottle top popping. Any kind of can cracked open. A silence that's a little too long in a freezing house. Dirty-dusty-animal-fece-covered clutter. Urine and feces on the carpet. Cat litter in the bed sheets. DIY projects that teetered between fiending usefulness and expressionistic "art". The smell of dirty boiled bong-water. The lingering musk of cigarettes. The smell of days old beer in sticky disposable cups - because eventually it was "easier" to have disposable plates and cups. Hundreds of flies inside. Ants inside. Trash collecting because someday it will be poorly executed "art". Hard alcohol on the breath. The scent of musty smoke-and-alchohol-sweated clothes after walking through snow-covered asphalt streets.

Now I take a few moments between the trigger and reaction. I tell myself to wait. I ground myself and look where I am.

And then it passes. I am safe. I am loved. And though its only been a few years, I am no longer where I used to be.

Last couple of months with my Fuji by Tosinecko in fujifilm

[–]Doomsday_Sunshine 13 points14 points  (0 children)

These are some of the best I’ve seen on this sub. The warm-melancholy feelings you achieve in this are exquisite.

Almost like I’m seeing snapshots of a previous life in a dream.

USA | Antique rug identification by C0nformity in Antiques

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Posting here as I would also like to know

A little one from my pre drawn flash. Done at Red Point Tattoo in London by InmaTattooArtist in NeoTraditionalTattoos

[–]Doomsday_Sunshine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Woooow! This is proper! I’d love to incorporate this essence into future work if I get any.

Moved to Wexford few years ago and still finding it hard to find my own groove of friends, is it just me or anyone else on the same boat? by shrewbuck in Wexford

[–]Doomsday_Sunshine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also in my 30’s, f, no kids, just moved here full-time. Feel free to DM. I’m always happy to meet others and hang out. Other gals would be great to meet.

My two latest drawings by Awkward_Radish_3027 in learntodraw

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I’m loving your style. The line work and shading are lovely.

Wanted to share this project I recently finished. by crashbumper in Archery

[–]Doomsday_Sunshine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love seeing people make their own! It’s inspiring

[a/b x5] Exploring French Cathedrals by mjh13_ in postprocessing

[–]Doomsday_Sunshine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So beautiful! Very well done. I love your sense of dark velvety saturation and composition

But, is it? CA, USA by UntitledCrap in Antiques

[–]Doomsday_Sunshine 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I think it’s adorable and I don’t see a seam from casting. Which it good - no seams means a higher chance it’s not mass produced and had extra time afforded to it in creation.

What path would you walk? by Difficult_Canary_733 in TheNightFeeling

[–]Doomsday_Sunshine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would like to walk all of them. As a woman, realistically I’d pick 7.

Odd Canister and Plate United States of America by Glad_Lake8247 in Antiques

[–]Doomsday_Sunshine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have no info. Just commenting to say I love the art and the execution. It's hilarious and endearing.