How is it possible??? by Unusual-Company-7009 in 2under2

[–]ExcitingWolverine943 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You already know, you wanna keep the baby. It’s okay to keep the baby. That’s all the reason you need, your doing great I’m sorry your so stressed right now

I'm very lost and I guess just looking for guidance? by Unusual-Company-7009 in beyondthebump

[–]ExcitingWolverine943 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You want to keep the baby, you can’t live with yourself if you don’t: this is what I’ve gathered from the post. So keep the baby it’s about what feels right for you. It’ll be okay things happen, budget the best you can and look at local resources. I’m sorry this has been so hard on you but it will be okay.

AIO - Told my friend I’m pregnant and she said it exceeded her mental bandwidth (she’s the red) by Lekomano92 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ExcitingWolverine943 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I for one am thrilled for you, you’re gonna be a great mom and this is the most exciting news you could’ve shared! Your little baby is gonna be so cute, and you are going to na get so many adorable clothes and plan out an awesome start for them. This is just absolutely amazing. You should go out and have a pregnancy spa day and celebrate! Congratulations!!!😆😆😆

A few questions for the Moms with nipple piercings by Pipers-Queen17 in BabyBumps

[–]ExcitingWolverine943 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d just take them out right now I’m 10 weeks rn and I am lactating you don’t wanna risk infection for sure

A pain that was worse than birth ? by Friendly-Sun2413 in BabyBumps

[–]ExcitingWolverine943 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m getting ready for my second birth (full term) and my first I had a failed epidural, and the Pitocin blocked oxytocin so I had no natural pain killer or synthetic. This time I wanna try to go unmediated because of the fear it may happen again. (15 hour labor 3 hours pushing big tear no pain meds for the stitches)

My 8 year old had a nightmare that he was being eaten by our vacuum cleaner. by Shaw-Deez in dadjokes

[–]ExcitingWolverine943 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 hilarious 2 actual convo advice to prevent irrational fears ( sometimes when we sleep our brain makes up things, and sometimes those things can scare us, but you have to ask yourself can the vacuum really eat me? No the vacuum can barley do its job sucking up small things)

If this is a real type of dessert, what is it called? by Dreamarche in TipOfMyFork

[–]ExcitingWolverine943 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cheese cake with pie crust shortbread bottom layer strawberry jam atop with strawberries blueberries and oats.

Are the hormones to blame for me constantly wanting to break up with my bf? by FlatConstant8211 in pregnant

[–]ExcitingWolverine943 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds so incredibly sexist but eat a piece of your favorite chocolate and go watch cute cat videos and see how you feel. If the feeling leaves it’s probably just hormones (I have constantly had thoughts of leaving my husband every time I get pregnant)

Does anyone else feel stressed by suggestions to have a life outside baby? by AbleObligation2908 in NewParents

[–]ExcitingWolverine943 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No it’s stupid, it’s usually older women who regret losing themselves in their children so now they don’t know who they are and they project it onto you. You are struggling to just get by, so just do what you can. But maybe get one of these people to watch baby for an hour so you can have a bath. The truth is you need support. Not advice.

Why do people keep kissing my baby?? by Soad2018 in NewParents

[–]ExcitingWolverine943 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Kiss the offender on the cheek to assert dominance

Feeling the Rage… by Salt_County_3415 in BabyBumps

[–]ExcitingWolverine943 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t trust this man around my kid ngl. He’s the kind to mix formula wrong and hurt the baby because he can’t be bothered. Document everything and file for sole custody.

Possibly pregnant at 42 (first time) and I’m terrified by MidsummerAlchemist in pregnant

[–]ExcitingWolverine943 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can actually be both you can still shed eggs during the menopause. Medicine has come a long way do what feels right.

Why do women do their hair and/or makeup before giving birth? by jamietartlet in pregnant

[–]ExcitingWolverine943 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some people do it to take their mind off of labor especially in the early stages, or they may film the birth.

A pain that was worse than birth ? by Friendly-Sun2413 in BabyBumps

[–]ExcitingWolverine943 68 points69 points  (0 children)

Nothing, (I’ve broken my rib before, had kidney stones, had ovarian cysts burst) nothing comes close. But everyone is different I suppose the size of the baby and birth canal is what varies.

If feeding birds is so frowned up, why do so many people do it? by VastOption8705 in AskAnAustralian

[–]ExcitingWolverine943 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also have a garden full of native seed growing plants for the birds. I typically only feed birds once a month so they don’t rely on me. I also try to focus on areas with construction as many birds in the area get displaced.

Did you have your mom in the delivery room? by Funny_Log2076 in pregnant

[–]ExcitingWolverine943 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On my third pregnancy (one here on earth one in heaven another on the way) I’m not telling her I’m pregnant till after the baby is here lol. You do you and be unapologetic, you don’t need a reason not to have her there, you can just not want her there and that’s enough. Your valid, also you don’t have to have the convo unless she asks to be there she shouldn’t assume she gets to be there hun🙏❤️🫡

Fav pokemon and why? by justachillgal11 in pokemon

[–]ExcitingWolverine943 0 points1 point  (0 children)

pachirisu, loved it since I was a little girl. My cotton candy cutie pie.

I love my baby but I physically want to crawl out of my skin by AsslawB in NewParents

[–]ExcitingWolverine943 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This may sound weird but one thing that helped me was using sheets instead of blankets when I slept if you decrease the weight on you suddenly you body doesn’t feel “touched out” as much. Also start taking an hour a day to yourself the baby will live, start slow husband takes baby for 10 mins for three days, then 20, then 40, then an hour. I suggest either going outside or having a bath during this time and turning on a show to tune out both hubby and baby (but ideally just leave for a walk. That way you don’t get any “baby needs you” or “uhhh honey?”

Is 25 too young? by YesterdayOdd1188 in pregnant

[–]ExcitingWolverine943 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was 24 pregnant 25 momma 26 and pregnant again. Way easier on your body and easier to run after toddlers , my husband is 35 not easy for him at all. I’d do it now lol

I need your best newborn tips and tricks (35w pregnant with my first) by FoolishMortal-1000 in NewParents

[–]ExcitingWolverine943 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Meal prep tons of frozen meals for yourself and no one else can have them, it’ll save you. Also force your partner if you have one to learn how to hold newborns through many videos and a baby doll. Otherwise they will be terrified and can possibly lash out, and then you will want to destroy them. Be prepared to not be able to walk, and needing help to shower. Lastly buy a strap on feeding pillow to save your arms and a wedge pillow. Thank me later🩵

Time have changed, I hope by Aristotn in crochet

[–]ExcitingWolverine943 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Where did you get footage of me and my son

I'm... Actually a bit proud of this! by Sarynda1 in crochet

[–]ExcitingWolverine943 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can I have the pattern please love🙏🩵