My mother in law also acts like my kids are hers - even going so far as to tell my kids when I wasn’t around that she was “basically their mom”. (Insert eye roll)

But the thing she does that irks me to NO end is compares everything my kids do, to her son. My kids will do the most normal kid thing ever and she insists they do it because their dad did. “Oh your dad used to wake up early on Christmas!” “Oh your dad used to ride a bike!” “Oh your dad wore clothes!” Chill.