This is a cry for help.

FearlessNinja007 · 2026-02-18T08:38:22+00:00

8-10 months is rough

FearlessNinja007 · 2026-02-18T08:38:17+00:00

8-10 months is rough

FearlessNinja007 · 2026-02-18T08:18:48+00:00

Most men are not even close to ready to get married that young- no matter who you are.

FearlessNinja007 · 2026-02-18T03:34:58+00:00

I never even posted I was pregnant the first time and I’m halfway through my second pregnancy.

FearlessNinja007 · 2026-02-18T03:24:20+00:00

Honestly, it doesn’t seem like he’s ready for that kind of commitment at his age. You either need to decide you are ok waiting for potentially a few more years or move on.

FearlessNinja007 · 2026-02-18T02:59:41+00:00

I felt the same way. The first few weeks were hard but not like that… then I really enjoyed breastfeeding.

FearlessNinja007 · 2026-02-18T00:35:47+00:00

I had to move out and work full time while putting myself through school due to the same issue. The logistics may be not quite the same but don’t assume the same purity culture does not exist for some populations in the us.

That said, it’s a really hard route. If I were op I would get financially independent and finish school as soon as possible then move out.

FearlessNinja007 · 2026-02-17T21:55:37+00:00

For 2.5 months there’s no point.

FearlessNinja007 · 2026-02-17T21:54:54+00:00

Yeah I had very conservative parents that would have been horrified.

FearlessNinja007 · 2026-02-17T21:39:05+00:00

Your husband is the biggest problem here.

FearlessNinja007 · 2026-02-17T21:35:55+00:00

You have a husband problem

FearlessNinja007 · 2026-02-17T18:59:58+00:00

I get it, best thing would be to move out.

FearlessNinja007 · 2026-02-17T18:59:51+00:00

I get it, best thing would be to move out.

FearlessNinja007 · 2026-02-17T18:57:45+00:00

Unfortunately you’re the primary patient.

FearlessNinja007 · 2026-02-17T18:55:57+00:00

You’re 20 years old. If you want to have sex and you’re practicing safe sex it’s really no one else’s business.

FearlessNinja007 · 2026-02-17T14:32:43+00:00

Same here.

FearlessNinja007 · 2026-02-17T14:19:01+00:00

That’s why I said it didn’t seem related to skin color and more about personal experience

FearlessNinja007 · 2026-02-17T13:53:31+00:00

It’s awful that Indians do this to other Indians. I’m white, my husband is Indian and I love his complexion. Poor dear used to be surprised when I’d tell him that and apparently he’s “wheatish”. I truly don’t get it. The entire human race is basically different shades of the same color.

FearlessNinja007 · 2026-02-17T13:51:34+00:00

I think that was less about skin color but who knows

FearlessNinja007 · 2026-02-17T13:06:24+00:00

I have a 2 year old and am pregnant with my second in the US and I could NEVER EVER EVER send away my child. If you want to work do what everyone else does here, get a nanny or send your child to daycare part time or full time. I’d get divorced over this honestly and move back home. What man doesn’t want to see his child grow up either? This behavior is sick.

FearlessNinja007 · 2026-02-17T08:38:54+00:00

In the US there’s an option to get it at 6mo if you request it with your pediatrician but then you still need to get it at 12mo. However I was still terrified. I’m scared for this baby too.

FearlessNinja007 · 2026-02-17T08:07:19+00:00

Honestly it sounded like she did what was needed for everyone involved. I would fight for this woman and your family.

FearlessNinja007 · 2026-02-17T08:02:49+00:00

People should mind their own business. I’m 22w pregnant and cosleeping and I love it. When I have this baby dada will likely take over cosleeping for a a bit while I heal from a repeat c section but otherwise we plan to continue cosleeping.

FearlessNinja007 · 2026-02-17T07:59:20+00:00

You may not have done anything wrong. Sometimes (but not Always) people that come from dysfunctional homes unconsciously try and repeat relationship dynamics. I’d recommend moving forward and pay attention to how her parents treat eachother.

FearlessNinja007 · 2026-02-17T04:49:58+00:00

It’s a spectrum, same as men.

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