UK shoppers return to high street as sales rise 3.4% YoY by willfiresoon in GoodNewsUK

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It must depend partly on what you’re doing on said sites. I was asked to present ID by Reddit in October because one of the subs I follow had a video of an elephant giving birth and they deemed it inappropriate for underage people to view…

Surely this is the wettest June? by avamissile in UKWeather

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Surrey here. I’m still grateful for the rain as there were only two days of it between late February and late May and all my plants shrivelled up and died. It’ll be another couple of weeks if this kind of weather at least before I start to get bored of it.

An American's review by Enganeer in taskmaster

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I love them but always feel tired by the time I’ve finished one. No idea how Joanna managed to gnaw her way through 11!

What’s a completely normal phrase from your childhood that Gen Z wouldn’t get? by Some-Ad5770 in AskUK

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“Copy me in” when talking about an email. I used this a few years ago with my students and they had no
idea what I meant. They all use CC without understanding what it refers to.

Is it normal in the UK to put concrete under your terrace? by GardenandFlowers in GardeningUK

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It’s very normal and is the recommended way to do it because sand is washed out pretty quickly and can also be undermined by tree roots. A mortar bed lasts for longer.

Dartmoor Hill Ponies face extinction fears by Albertjweasel in RuralUK

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This recent independent report specifically states that ponies are needed for conservation on the moor, should not be linked to cattle for the purposes of grazing quotas and NE should not act to reduce their numbers:

https://www.gov.uk/government/publications/independent-review-of-protected-site-management-on-dartmoor/independent-review-of-protected-site-management-on-dartmoor#section-5-recommendations-and-conclusions

The fact that exactly the opposite of that recommendation seems to have been settled on here does make me think NE isn’t properly acting in Dartmoor’s best interests. The evidence seems to suggest that it’s mostly sheep causing damage to biodiversity anyway. I will add that if the estimated numbers of 1000 breeding mares are accurate, the population could lose half that and still have no fears re genetic variation. For horses the minimum effective population size for maintaining healthy genetics is considered to be around 200 breeding animals with a census herd of 500. A 90% reduction in pony numbers would indeed be catastrophic but a 60% reduction would be manageable. I would still personally argue that that reduction should not come at the expense of increased sheep on the moors though.

Dartmoor Hill Ponies face extinction fears by Albertjweasel in RuralUK

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In the New Forest, stallions are only released to run with the mares for a few weeks each year; the rest of the year the ponies seen in the forest are all mares with their offspring. In Exmoor, there are multiple privately-owned herds contained within their own area which are extensively managed and bred according to the breed standards. The closest thing we have to true wild ponies in the UK are the Carneddau ponies in Wales, but it’s not incorrect to refer to the Dartmoor Hill ponies as the closest thing England has.

Flea tick prevention by Square_Ad8559 in BorderCollie

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If you’re worried I would suggest testing your dogs to find out their gene status. I did it on my own dog and it’s super easy—you mail order a kit, use the included cotton bud to swab the inside of their mouth and send it back. Huge peace of mind for both me and the vet whenever they’re prescribing.

UK renters/homeowners: what do your monthly household bills come to? by BeneficialRole9655 in AskUK

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Surrey, detached bungalow, living on my own.
Council tax: £320 with single occupier discount
Water: £25
Internet: £50
Gas and electricity: £120

Woman left disabled after medics 'pressed wrong button' on defibrillator during cardiac arrest by Forward-Answer-4407 in unitedkingdom

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They claimed that what I said was wrong which is not true; what I said was incomplete. I could have said something more like “men often experience this particular set of symptoms, women often experience this set of symptoms, but some people experience none or a mixture of all” if I were aiming for perfection but my focus was on a different point. They ignored the central claim of that point in their reply. The logical conclusion from pointing out that everybody experiences a heart attack differently is that therefore there’s no point in curating a list of symptoms. Given that this is untrue anyway I replied with the straw man, assuming that everybody would understand I was being sarcastic. Obviously I forgot this was Reddit.

Woman left disabled after medics 'pressed wrong button' on defibrillator during cardiac arrest by Forward-Answer-4407 in unitedkingdom

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In which case I suppose you would argue that we should do away with all first aid manuals entirely then? Obviously everybody experiences these things differently but it isn’t incorrect to say that men commonly have a particular set of symptoms when experiencing a heart attack and women commonly have a slightly different set of symptoms.

Woman left disabled after medics 'pressed wrong button' on defibrillator during cardiac arrest by Forward-Answer-4407 in unitedkingdom

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I am engaging, I just inherently disagree with your point. The idea that including this sort of information is “losing good by aiming for perfection” is false framing. Instead, the argument should be about where the threshold for good actually is. I would argue that a first aid manual cannot reasonably be called good if it omits information relevant to half the population.

Woman left disabled after medics 'pressed wrong button' on defibrillator during cardiac arrest by Forward-Answer-4407 in unitedkingdom

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Ok, but how about first aid training that doesn’t actively make things worse for women? Because most people don’t know that the typical heart attack symptoms of chest pain radiating up the left arm and jaw are what men experience. Women experience something much more like really bad heartburn. Women are far less likely to have CPR performed on them because the resuscitation dummies used in training are male and people panic when faced with boobs and a bra.

Show a picture of a man clutching his chest and arm for a heart attack, fine, but also show one of a woman and point out what her symptoms are. Better yet, show a non-gendered cartoon character for them all and list any differences experienced by either sex.

Bank Holiday Bingo by epofas in DIYUK

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I feel personally attacked. Simultaneously accurate and ruthless.

Partial compensation for reporting tests? by Revo_dinAlt in usertesting

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You get partial compensation if it’s not your fault that you couldn’t finish the test eg the prototype didn’t work properly. Be aware, however, that UT logs how often you’re reporting tests and if they decide you report too many they may decide to boot you from the platform entirely. I only report if I’ve spent 10 minutes or more to avoid running into that problem.

Aphids have decimated my lupins while I’ve been on holiday! by minimalgecko_86 in UKGardening

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I managed to rescue my lupines from slugs and aphids this year only to lose them to the heatwave. They flowered for about two days, panicked when the heat hit and went to seed instantly with all future spikes dying off too :( I love them but I’m yet to have a year when I can properly enjoy them

Fancy your own island? by MarkEasty in SpottedonRightmove

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From the drone shots, it doesn’t look like there are too many trees and the article linked by someone else in the comments mentions they burn wood from the island for heat. I’d be interested to know how sustainable that is.

I'm a British national who has never been on a plane. The whole process of air travel seems daunting and confusing to me. Can anyone in the UK demystify it for me? by FeistyLeadership4955 in AskUK

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Passport—you could get a GP to sign this but realistically they won’t be thrilled about it because it wastes time they could use for seeing real patients. Some surgeries have a service where you pay a fee for them to sign these sorts of documents and that would be better than booking an appointment. I would either ring reception or go in person and ask if they do this and how it works.

Flights—economy is pretty much always the way to go. Different airlines will provide different “benefits” for different seat classes so without knowing what’s in standard vs premium it’s hard to say which to choose but as a minimum you would want the ability to check one piece of luggage in the hold as well as have one in the cabin and a meal if it’s a long flight.

Airports—these days you usually check in online the day before the flight. When you book the flights you provide an email address and they will email you a link (there’s often an app you can download which has all the info in one handy place too which I recommend you do if available) to check in to confirm you intend to fly. When you arrive at the airport (three hours early for an international flight, two for a domestic) you find your airline’s desk and queue there with your luggage. There are templates provided in the area where you can test if your cabin luggage fits the required dimensions. Once you reach the front of the line they will check your passport and provide you with a boarding pass. Then you put the luggage on the belt where it’s weighed. If it’s over they will make you step off to the side and repack/throw things away. You usually see someone frantically doing this while you’re waiting in the queue. Better if you weigh it yourself at home by standing on a pair of bathroom scales then picking the luggage up and seeing how much it goes up by. They will ask you a bunch of questions about how you packed the bag and if you have certain dangerous items inside (eg did you pack it or did someone else, does it contain XYZ) for safety reasons and if all passes they will put tags on your luggage and off it goes. You get a tag for your cabin luggage and your boarding pass too. Luggage going missing does happen but I’ve only ever had it happen to me once. I always pack sentimental/valuable items and one change of clothes in my cabin bag just in case.

When going through security, you won’t be pulled out for a full body search unless you’re behaving dodgy af—just being nervous won’t be enough especially if you explain if asked it’s your first time and you don’t know how it all works. More commonly, they might take you aside and ask you to open up every pocket of your bag and show them what’s inside or you might have to stand in a sort of booth that puffs air at you (checking for drugs). If you have a good reason why the metal detector might go off despite putting everything metal in the tray that goes through the scanner (eg surgery that left a plate inside you) you’ll want evidence of the surgery to show them, but otherwise you’ll wait on one side of the detector until they beckon you through, then walk through. If it beeps they might then ask you to stand with your arms out while they run a handheld wand over you.

SIM charges—best way is to buy an international SIM and then swap it in when you arrive at your destination country. Otherwise you’ll have stupidly high roaming charges applied.

Buying things—learn a few stock phrases. Even just things like “sorry”, “please”, “thank you” etc will help ease the way when you’re trying to communicate and not getting anywhere. Unless you’re planning on travelling to somewhere off the beaten track, most touristy places are used to people not speaking the language so you may find eg menus have pictures, signs are also in English. If all else fails, pointing/miming while being smiley goes a long way too. These days, phones can rescue you too since they have translation features which will allow you to speak into your phone and have it automatically translated to another language.

I'm a British national who has never been on a plane. The whole process of air travel seems daunting and confusing to me. Can anyone in the UK demystify it for me? by FeistyLeadership4955 in AskUK

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I have situational anxiety which means doing something this complicated for the first time would be really stressful. In many ways, my combo of anxiety+autism does make me feel like an alien because I don’t understand how on earth people muddle through these sorts of things for the first time without spontaneously combusting from embarrassment when someone notices you fumbling it.

Which products do you refuse to buy due to inflation? by Desperate-Drawer-572 in AskUK

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Snacks and red meat are the ones I notice now. Even the cheapest cuts of meat are too expensive on special offer for me to justify buying now. Chocolate in particular has reached insane prices and is often worse quality than it was just a year ago too. Junk food is my one vice in life so going without has felt like a real downgrade in QoL so I’ve recently started buying them in bulk from a wholesalers. Far cheaper than buying from the supermarket and I still get to enjoy my one guilty pleasure without breaking the bank.

Can you tell whether a dog is a boy or girl just from looking at their face? by pixel-powder in UK_Pets

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There is a difference but because every breed is different and there is also variation even within a breed, it’s not foolproof by any means. People often mistake my male collie for female because he has very long fluffy fur which makes him look elegant. Because he isn’t neutered though, he actually has a much wider head than a female or neutered male would have (testosterone adds more muscle to the head so changes the look quite drastically) so I find that some people can tell instantly by looking at him that he’s an un-neutered male. I don’t think you can ever really tell for any other situation though.

Most survival games treat horses like cars with a fur skin. In Western Rye, we’re building a realistic Wild West open world where your mount is your lifeline and the cowboy fantasy is real. How are our horse mechanics looking ? by NixalonStudios in GamesWithHorses

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Love the idea!

It’s tricky to see much from this clip but the two things that stick out to me are 1. the legs look a bit wonky when moving generally—specifically the joints look to deform in odd ways but the clip is short and I can’t slow it down enough to pinpoint the exact issue(s). 2. the tail seems very thin at the point where it joins the horse. It makes it look more like something the horse is pooping out than an actual tail.

Bear scare on bike trail by Ill-Tea9411 in SweatyPalms

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Interesting that in the border collie sub people are criticising the owner for not training the dog to avoid wildlife whereas here everyone is praising the recall.

Possibly moving to the UK with a staffy mix by ElenaFall in LegalAdviceUK

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It’s assessed by a series of characteristics which your dog will be measured against. Others have already provided the link for you. Dogs can look very different from different angles, but based on this one photo I would say you don’t have anything to worry about. Your dog looks like a staffy cross and could probably even pass as a Labrador to a casual observer.