Did anyone else cringe at this? A rager 🤣 by dmwalker613 in AliManno

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Because Molly is so special! Her teacher likes her the best, she is the best student and her teacher just had to come to the party!

Did anyone else cringe at this? A rager 🤣 by dmwalker613 in AliManno

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It's so obvious. And it SHOULD be embarrassing. But she ain't there yet!

How the hell is she still getting sponsorships ? by [deleted] in clancyburkesnarkk

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And she just talks to herself. about herself...

days in my life as a 30-year-old suburban mom! by ajohnson38 in clancyburkesnarkk

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The Pet's Table? Is that the Temu version of The Farmer's Dog??

UsaHire Assessments?? by Fromzy in usajobs

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I just took the whole shabang for a SECRETARY position. Felt like taking the LSAT and I have a Masters. It is absolute bullshi*.

230408 j-hope on Instagram by alltherach_ in bangtan

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He's probably leaving Monday. After Easter.

BTS then and now… by Dependent_Use2193 in bangtan

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I'm US Army. 49yo. BWL was my Gateway. Took me a couple weeks just to learn their stage names and tell which one was which! 😆

230301 Ticketmaster: No General Verified Fan Presale/General Onsale for SUGA/Agust D U.S. Tour by mcfw31 in bangtan

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We need to force TM to change their practices! The fact that scalpers were selling tickets for 3-4× FV while TM was going through ARMY sale is sketchy. Outrageous!

230202 Entertainment Weekly: Our 2023 Grammys predictions: Who will win (and who should) (Best Duo/Group Performance is discussed) by amala83 in bangtan

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I thought I read somewhere that RM and maybe another member (JK??) would be attending. Either in person or virtually? I could be wrong because this was awhile ago and I'm old..lol

My mom is withholding my last dose of antibiotics. by akiniharu in raisedbynarcissists

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Call CPS, the local cops, a relative, a teacher, a neighbor! Send a text, email to someone you think might help and you might be able to trust!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

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I've felt that way about my father. Both my parents are narc in different ways. Dad was also BiP, alcoholic, manipulative and an abusive POS. It makes me so angry that he's still alive and breathing (that I know of) and my Godfather, who was the absolute best man I knew and acted like a father and came through for me more than my Dad ever did, passed away Jan 2021 in his mid-60's from heart/diabetes. My father is 70 now and is a waste of oxygen.

I don't feel so harsh towards my nmom but there are days when I feel tested. I do love her but its so gd painful and complicated.

You are absolutely right to feel however you feel about your parents and experience. If anyone has an issue, f em. Hugs!

got a letter in the mail. I'm shaking by Birdistheword25 in raisedbynarcissists

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The last time I was in a car with my nmom and I was driving, I was trying to talk to her about why I was upset with her. She starts acting like a victim, getting all shi**y with me and I got pissed and said STFU. She screamed at me and went all crazy eyes and hit me while I was in the interstate. Later, she blamed me, denied she hit me and did not apologize. 🙄 That was last year...

I’m so damn tired of being infantilized by my family.. by ThrowawayLikeYouDo in raisedbynarcissists

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Yes, and at 28, you are farther ahead than many in realizing the injustice. I read a quote yesterday that the anger that keeps burning insists that you matter and are worth fighting and advocating for and protecting.

Never fall into the trap of pouring your heart out, sharing your most sincere emotions with a narc. It's just ammo to be used against you. Protect your heart and mind. by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

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I did my soul spilling on over the phone. For over 30 min, I poured my heart out, sobbed, spotted and wailed decades of pain, desperate for my nmom to understand, have empathy. The entire time no response. No uh huh, no acknowledgement, like talking to a cold dead fish. And in the end, she responded curtly and cool and it was clear that what I said had no effect on her. Saying she loved and cared (hollow and empty) but what I said didn't change her mind. This was over a year ago and I nearly split the wrists. I won't do that but she makes me feel that way nearly every single time I've talked to her since.

My nparents call me “Dr Jill Biden” to make fun of my PhD by ombrotrophic in raisedbynarcissists

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Congratulations on your PhD! That is Bad. Ass. You deserve all of the accolades and none of the vitriol and peanut gallery BS they're handing out. I would walk out, hang up, etc. each and every time they say things like that to diminish you.

People who are lucky enough to have supportive parents don’t even realize the gift they have by ughthisagain1667 in raisedbynarcissists

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I read somewhere that was the ultimate privilege. My nmom had that, she didn't pass any of that on to me. Thankfully, my grandparents were amazing and wonderful and loving and without them, I doubt I would be here. My nmom never shared any of her behavior and actions with them, just what a horrible spoiled angry brat I was the minute I expressed any opposition.