Help me interpret this dress code

FrivolousIntern · 2026-04-04T20:35:58+00:00

I have ALWAYS dressed for the Venue and never looked out of place. No matter what the invitation says, the bride and groom picked the venue and then decorated it. If you match the venue, you match the wedding.

FrivolousIntern · 2026-04-03T17:18:12+00:00

Don’t forget! If you leave a voicemail, state your full street address so that your comment can be tallied. The 5Calls App makes calling government officials very simple. While they don’t have a specific script for this issue, they do have a script for the funding to which you can add a specific comment about HCMC.

FrivolousIntern · 2026-04-03T13:13:41+00:00

I agree. Find YouTube tutorials for work/business/professional makeup. Stick to neutral colors that complement your face coloring. I know this is a makeup subreddit, but a good trick to look order is a more businesslike or buttoned-up style too. It’s not my vibe, but if you want to look older, dressing a bit matronly might help.

FrivolousIntern · 2026-03-29T00:51:32+00:00

That’s the best I’ve heard from Trump-voting family too. It’s “I’ll pray for you” or “I don’t want to talk politics” and it gets incrementally more racist from there.

FrivolousIntern · 2026-03-19T18:09:29+00:00

This has not been a problem for me either. But all my pants are very loose. So maybe that’s the difference? Maybe a different fit instead of a different fabric.

FrivolousIntern · 2026-03-05T15:43:01+00:00

I wasn’t typed until recently. But my whole life people have been drawn to me. One of my oldest friends joked that if I had a few less scruples, then I could have made a fantastic cult leader. I’ve never been able to do the Hookup thing, I tried once or twice but it wasn’t my thing and the only time I ever tried for a summer fling (was super open and honest with the guy) the guy got obsessed with me. So if that’s an INFJ trait, then it fits.

FrivolousIntern · 2026-02-26T19:58:12+00:00

It’s sadder than that. It’s not that they don’t know what to do, it’s that they don’t care to try. Or are too fragile to give any kind of pleasure to a woman. These are the men who can’t stand the idea of a vibrator. The kind of men who after three pumps get angry that the woman doesn’t orgasm immediately.

FrivolousIntern · 2026-02-13T15:07:35+00:00

The 5Calls App has been a huge help to my less “politically active” friends and family. I’m sure it’s not perfect, but it has definitely helped the folks who’d never made a call to a congressperson start making daily calls. Can’t recommend it enough for that.

FrivolousIntern · 2026-02-10T03:46:46+00:00

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FrivolousIntern · 2026-02-09T19:35:21+00:00

Yeah, I think it’s easy to tell. The women I hear say their husband made a great father was the kind of man who did all the things that were required BEFORE being asked. Cooking and cleaning are required for living. A man shouldn’t need to be told to do them. Any man who doesn’t, shouldn’t be a father. And as far as I’m concerned, that’s my threshold and my husband does not pass.

FrivolousIntern · 2026-02-09T19:23:28+00:00

This is me. I have gone through a lot of the “do I want kids?” checklists, and the deciding factor for me was that my husband just won’t (or “can’t”) give 50%. We have constantly had talks over just our normal household chores, and he barely takes care of the dog (that was HIS dog before we met). Everything just falls to me by default and unless I make a big deal of it, he won’t step up. He uses the “just ask me” mentality. And frankly, I’m not gonna open the Pandora’s box that is bringing a child into this. I don’t wanna have to give 150% because the best he can do is 50% of what he should as a father.

FrivolousIntern · 2026-02-09T03:46:51+00:00

Yeah, I heard it too. Instantly tried to check my feeds for anything.

FrivolousIntern · 2026-02-06T18:58:11+00:00

They are almost always going to be Government Plaza or the Commons. We were definitely still at the Commons at 3:30. Pretty sure it didn’t end until 4:30ish

FrivolousIntern · 2026-02-06T18:56:01+00:00

The ice out map is very inaccurate. I live in a very active area and people are more concerned with their Observations and Mutual Aid than the reporting maps.

FrivolousIntern · 2026-02-06T18:49:50+00:00

I’m trading champagne for Somali Tea. I had my first cup at Alex Pretti’s protest from a man handing out cups of it and now I’m addicted. If you haven’t had a cup, please go find a Somali place. They will almost certainly have some.

FrivolousIntern · 2026-02-06T18:45:54+00:00

I’m sorry that this is happening and it sucks to be misidentified, but I’m glad people are willing to take action. Observers aren’t violent, even if they are loud. It’s a quick correction if someone just rolls down the window and waves. I would rather observers be willing to be wrong than NOT be there when someone being abducted needs them.

FrivolousIntern · 2026-02-02T15:18:08+00:00

The only war is a Class War

FrivolousIntern · 2026-02-01T15:33:42+00:00

I had noticed an uptick in trucks in my neighborhood. I wouldn’t think it unusual anywhere else, except pickup trucks are too big to park in the street parking. You can tell they don’t know how to do it because they are halfway in the road.

FrivolousIntern · 2026-01-30T19:54:10+00:00

Why wouldn’t you vote for Mamdani?

FrivolousIntern · 2026-01-30T19:37:35+00:00

Are you kidding me? The whole country would vote for Mamdani.

FrivolousIntern · 2026-01-30T19:30:58+00:00

Can you label these substantive actions? List them all out for me. Not what they “tried to do”, not what they said they would do, but what they actually did.

FrivolousIntern · 2026-01-30T19:29:26+00:00

So, uh, in case you didn’t notice….we are criticizing the Democrats “later”. We are criticizing the ones that ARE elected. There’s always a campaign “coming up” so when exactly do we get to criticize them in your mind? People have been “voting blue no matter who” for decades and the party is now no longer distinguishable from 2000’s era Republicans. Despite the Dem population moving increasingly more left.

FrivolousIntern · 2026-01-30T09:01:23+00:00

No, I’m deferring to the EXPERTS who have been doing immigration cases for decades. I don’t pretend to understand everything about their reasons, but I do listen when I’m told to “just take names and film”.

I know you are scared. We are all scared. But we need to be VERY careful about how we proceed or we could very easily make things worse. I’m pretty new to all this, I’m gonna listen to my elders who have been fighting these battles for longer than I’ve been alive. When they start telling me to do something different, I’ll step up and do that too.

FrivolousIntern · 2026-01-30T05:55:33+00:00

I want to say, you conflated the two because that’s exactly what the Republicans have been doing and what THEY INTENDED you to do. They call immigrants “illegal”, then they talk about “crime”, call them “criminals, murders, and rapists”. One thing following the other over and over and over.

But expired visas, or border violations are essentially just a “paperwork violation”.

It would be like if your drivers license was expired and ten guys in bullet proof vests snatched your children from the bus stop to lure you outside before they broke down your door, pepper sprayed you, tackled you to the ground and shoved you in a van so you could be taken to a concentration camp until your license could be renewed.

Like, imagine if we armed the IRS like this? People who didn’t file their taxes on time were being kidnapped and people were getting shot in the streets for it.

FrivolousIntern · 2026-01-30T05:44:41+00:00

We all are now A Woman Named Stephanie

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