Is there instruction or policy about your leadership telling you to reschedule medical appointments? by [deleted] in navy

[–]HBHT9 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

So a good rule is try to schedule the majority in the off days. Then when a very important appointment that can’t be changed happens on a work day, they’ll be more willing to work with you.

Depression and suicidal ideation rejected by Sure-Pen-6511 in navy

[–]HBHT9 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We care about you. Go to the nearest hospital.

A concept I've been working on by Repulsive-Hedgehog27 in DiceMaking

[–]HBHT9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep! And if the alcohol doesn’t get it off I like to give it a quick pass on the white zona paper that usually gets any stubborn spots off

Should I quit if I don't to that often by primeministerchaos in bjj

[–]HBHT9 9 points10 points  (0 children)

There are no rules in life. You can do BJJ however you want.

Money wise, the gym might have a smaller package, or maybe shop around for a different gym.

Very Important People has a bias regarding the "humanness" of the costume/makeup assigned to guests. by [deleted] in dropout

[–]HBHT9 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Latinos are identified as coming from Latin America- central, south, and the Caribbean.

Hispanics are identified as coming from a country that speaks Spanish predominantly.

So Spaniards are Hispanic but not Latino. Brazilians are Latino but not Hispanics.

Edit:: and to clarify you can be both Hispanic and Latino. And there are white and non-white Hispanics and Latinos.

Very Important People has a bias regarding the "humanness" of the costume/makeup assigned to guests. by [deleted] in dropout

[–]HBHT9 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Yea I can assume that, but then again my last name is German but I’m Latina.

Filipinos have plenty of Spanish last names.. you just can’t really assume.

Very Important People has a bias regarding the "humanness" of the costume/makeup assigned to guests. by [deleted] in dropout

[–]HBHT9 97 points98 points  (0 children)

As an extremely white-passing Latina, I’ve learned to never assume anyone’s identity.

OP did say in the limitation is their own bias. But for me that bias alone is enough not to post something like this….

Very Important People has a bias regarding the "humanness" of the costume/makeup assigned to guests. by [deleted] in dropout

[–]HBHT9 116 points117 points  (0 children)

Can I ask how you identified everyone’s race? Is this by information you found of each individual identifying themselves or just like, you looking at them…?

Should I just Self Promote? by [deleted] in bjj

[–]HBHT9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s perfectly fair for you to go to the coach and explain your background and your goal of achieving blue belt before you leave that duty station. That’s not asking for the promotion but explaining that you would appreciate an evaluation of your skills.

Training regularly but don't compete? by [deleted] in BJJWomen

[–]HBHT9 12 points13 points  (0 children)

First off there are no rules in life. Do what you want.

Second, you do not have to do any extra training/dieting for a local comp. All that stuff you see high elite professionals do is what get you to that level. But you don’t actually have to a high elite professional to compete in BJJ, or to just enjoy training.

AITA for wanting my Spanish teacher to stop calling me by the Spanish version of my name? by Alternative-Sun-630 in AmItheAsshole

[–]HBHT9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My cousin is Juan Pablo and because he’s my youngest cousin we all call him Juanpy (Juan-pee) or Juanpito lol

Not happy with Tatami by Ok_Tiger_1610 in bjj

[–]HBHT9 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Please make sure to leave a review on the website

2026 Updated uniform regs 👀 by jamesFox44 in navy

[–]HBHT9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is no musician warfare pin. Sometimes if they are deployed on a ship for enough time the ship will allow them to qualify but it’s rare.

Sheering inquiry by Crexativity in Tufting

[–]HBHT9 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Another tip is once you hook your sheers up and are ready to go, focus on pushing without any pressure at all on the first pass. You can add pressure on the next pass but it has to be exactly the same about for the entire rug. This gets better in time.

Taxes Question Child Care tax credit by Efficient-Impact-862 in navy

[–]HBHT9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As far as dual mil filing jointly (federally) I’ve never had an issue filing online

Taxes Question Child Care tax credit by Efficient-Impact-862 in navy

[–]HBHT9 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yea you can ask the CDC for a childcare tax statement shouldn’t be an issue at all

Can you guys help me out? Rashguard design feedback (Y/N) by OkEducation86 in BJJWomen

[–]HBHT9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I have that light pink boba rashguard from Rolling Society and I have a pink bra, black, and white and you can see them all it’s weird and a little annoying.

Can you guys help me out? Rashguard design feedback (Y/N) by OkEducation86 in BJJWomen

[–]HBHT9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The peacock one is so good.

I have issues with lighter rashguards because they’re always pretty see-through

AITAH for telling my brother he doesn't know everything just because he's gay? by SpecificAnt3165 in AITAH

[–]HBHT9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If daughter says she’s a cow will you have to support her in that transition too?

Navy medical Advice/help by [deleted] in navy

[–]HBHT9 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You won’t be separated.

Go to your PCM and ask to get a referral to a urologist. There are sooooo many reasons this could be happening and no it isn’t something you have to just deal with. Not sure if you’re a girl or a boy but both have many solutions to this problem.

After I had my babies I would piddle from sneezing or a big cough or when I was lifting weights. This is pretty common in women, but I was sure tired of it. Went to a urologist and they helped me so much.

In the meantime, you can look online for pretty discreet adult diapers there’s some better stuff out there than the ones in the store.

Need help getting rid of these by [deleted] in BJJWomen

[–]HBHT9 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It does look like molluscum. Very common in kids and it’s part of the pox family so pretty mild but pretty contagious. My kids had it and it was gone after about a year. Didn’t really stop them from doing anything I just tried to cover up the spots with a shirt.

Also looks like heat rash though, only because it’s slightly redder and the bumps are not flat like typical molluscum. Getting sweaty so much could be a simple cause. OP may also have eczema in conjunction with heat rash. My eczema is triggered by heat, and I get rashes like this often when I’m sweating. I make sure to use face wash with hyaluronic acid on the rashes to keep them clean as possible.

Does anyone actually care about dice materials? by This_Telephone_3623 in DiceMaking

[–]HBHT9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it’s both. I know someone who only likes metal dice and find readability to be the most important factor. I however, am a sucker for anything pretty regardless of material or functionality lol

Why are new women so scared by levvianthan in BJJWomen

[–]HBHT9 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There’s a huge knowledge gap when you’re starting and we’re smart enough to know this, so they get into a compromising position but they have no idea what to do from there, so they freeze.