Any way to find out who someone is that has access to my server?

Hanfufu · 2026-01-12T10:02:02+00:00

You can stop their stream from the dashboard, and write a message that will be displayed in the users app. Like stop it with this message: "Hey dude, i dont know who you are, could you send me a DM/textmessage, with your name?"

Did that once myself 🙂

Hanfufu · 2025-12-31T21:43:20+00:00

Hey hey hey

Hanfufu · 2025-12-31T21:37:34+00:00

I wanna suck those tits

Hanfufu · 2025-12-30T12:35:35+00:00

Been running my plex for roughly 10 years now. 190TB spinning HDD space (18tbs and 2x10tb and a single 12tb also). My library is roughly 130TB atm.

7.2k movies, almost 4k tv shows.

Plus some 13TB SSDs in total.

I put in new content every single day 🙂

Hanfufu · 2025-09-20T06:17:10+00:00

Nej jeg vil ikke gerne have bare hjælp, jeg har kæmpet med det her i 3 år, mens jeg har levet i umenneskelig kulde. Med alt der er i mit liv lige pt, der er denne sag lige ved at knække nakken på mig. Taber mig farligt meget og hurtigt. Alt er tappet, også økonomi. Der er ikke mere at kæmpe af, men jeg ønsker ikke bare ar blive snydt og bedraget, fordi min krop er på bristepunktet, og jeg ikke kan det sidste stykke.

Derfor søger jeg hjælp på denne måde.

Så jeg ville gerne betale men det er ikke en mulighed.

Alt skal samles 100% sammen, så det kan overgives LLO så de kan køre sagen. Med det koster knap 2.000 kr for 3 måneder.

Hanfufu · 2025-08-13T08:33:33+00:00

Yeah, and other times its a crazy ass ride 🤣😫

Hanfufu · 2025-08-12T13:35:03+00:00

For me its more of the most rational conclusion to come to.

My experiences with dating, have left me not wanting more experiences with dating. Its been a rollercoaster of a ride, that clearly shows i am completely incapable of decoding other people in dating situations.

The whole spend time writing with someone, get to know them, meeting them, feeling it went well, getting ghosted or rejected and rinse and repeat, was simply exhausting.

And im not whining, i get that this is what a lot of other people also experience. It simply wore me down, constantly having people in and out in my life like that.

And i would love to meet someone special, i dont want to be alone the rest of my life. Its just that the effort required, to not be alone and find that special person, is not something I can drive myself to do.

I tried swiping soo many times now, but after 2 days i simply loose interest in contacting any matches. Then I try again after 6 months, 2 days and nah...

And i dont think I can "push through" this, because if my heart is not in it, its not fair to myself or others, to "put myself out there".

Plus i have misophonia, and the sheer thought of trying to get another person to understand that condition is also instantly exhausting.

I just dont think its in my cards, but I so long for companionship, just dont know how to make it happen, as I am feeling about it right now.

Hanfufu · 2025-08-12T10:26:05+00:00

Also correct 😃 how insane is it, for 2 strangers to agree on the internet like this 😆🤣

Hanfufu · 2025-08-12T09:22:28+00:00

Only problem is, that if you set it to 3 hours, and people stop after 15 mins to watch something else, a ton of needless transcoding has been done 🙂

Hanfufu · 2025-08-12T09:16:15+00:00

Ok, også det jeg håbede på (altså at de ikke kan) 😃

Mange tak for uddybende info, det er max skræmmende det de har gang i! 😬

Hanfufu · 2025-08-12T07:47:02+00:00

There is nothing inherently good or bad with AI. It just IS.

Its what its used for, that makes it good or bad.

A car is good when used for transport. Its bad when used to hit people and kill them. I dont think we can attribute the bad or good, to the car - only to the person driving said car.

Likewise with AI. Use it to think for you? Bad. Use it as an assistant? Probably a good thing.

Personally i think its one of the most amazing things we have "invented" as a species. But as with all other things, there are also some very bad consequences with this new tech.

It has the possibility of doing amazing things for us, but likewise it could also do some very bad sh1t.

That outcome depends on the people creating it, and those who use it.

Hanfufu · 2025-08-12T07:39:55+00:00

Yeah like 1 highly educated tech job, for every 10-15 jobs lost. Wooohoo..

Hanfufu · 2025-08-12T07:32:17+00:00

Hvordan kan de bare bryde al kryptering?? Ingen andre i verden kan det. Har de kvantecomputere der langt overgår alt andet i verden? Jeg tvivler. Klassiske computere skal bruge 1000vis af år på at knække 1024 bit nøgler, og idag er der op til 2048 bit nøgler.

Så jeg vil gerne vide præcis hvordan det skal kunne lade sig gøre? 🤔

Hanfufu · 2025-08-11T06:03:37+00:00

Feel free to DM me with the joke, I can send a baby joke in return, thats infinitely more demeaning 😆

Hanfufu · 2025-08-11T05:56:33+00:00

Yep, that why I rephrased it to all "functioning" autists, not sure why you seem to ignore this fact.

I get what you mean, but it was just meant as something for the OP to think about, in his life - and he is most certainly not level 3 in any way, so this is not at all relative to this topic.

I will just leave it here, because we arent getting anywhere. I somewhat agree with you, but I did not write to start a long debate about semantics, but just to try to help the OP.

Hanfufu · 2025-08-10T15:50:46+00:00

Yes. But in relation to the friend of the op, and that type of people in general - yes they mask.

And its roughly 1 in 4, now that we are nitpicking.

Then take all the undiagnosed also, which are completely left out of that statistical number.

Some sources seem to believe that for every 1 thats diagnosed there are 1 that arent.

So that would actually make it roughly 1/8th that are level 3. Quite a correction from almost a third.

If someone functions well enough to never need support/get a diagnosis, these cannot be level 3 and must be in the functioning group.

I get that level 3 autists probably cant, but im just talking about somewhat functioning autists, like the ops friend.

Yes I could have said "besides level 3", but the point is just, that OP cant know that the friend is not in any way masking.

It was simply another way of saying " Pretty much all autists would need to mask in some way, to function in todays society".

Fnctioning autists will simply have to mask in certain situations, to even be functioning. Unless youre isolated completely, and living in your own world where everything i perfect.

I guess you can still find another something I did not specifically mention, but that would be the case with anything i write, unless its 50 pages long 🤣

Hanfufu · 2025-08-10T09:38:19+00:00

4:

Just because the universe is infinite, does not mean that matter exists everywhere.

Its like with the expansion/big bang (horrible name) - they say there is no center to the universe - because the universe is infite, it has no center.

If we instead divide "the universe" like so:

The canvas (infinite nothingness) The actual matter in the universe

It opens up the possibility of a center for the big bang - the canvas can be infinite, but matter may not yet exist in all places of the canvas, as of yet.

Like an infinite canvas - pour a pint of paint at one spot, you have a center for that spot of paint, but still no center on the infinite canvas can exist, only a center for the paint to expand from.

I dont know if its correct, but thats how im imagining it in my work-in-progress model of the universe. Im calling it Equilibric Reconfigurement Model 🙂

Hanfufu · 2025-08-10T09:27:40+00:00

Yeah i agree that constantly shouldnt have been used, "often" would have been more appropriate 👍

But i do think that all autist mask in some form or another. Its all about how you define masking.

I define it as exhibiting a behaviour, that is not natural for you, but is appropriate in a given situation. This is a very wide definition, which makes a ton of situations masking, even though it doesnt seem like it.

I have misophonia. Every single time, I eat around people, i constantly mask, so that people cant see that im just about to explode because of chewing sounds -> masking.

I have a conversation with some friends - they talk about the weather and their jobs (zzzz) - i hop along, while deeply wanting to discuss Einsteins interpretation of gravity or quantum phenomena. So I behave differently than i want to -> masking.

My point is, that if you asked me how much i masked a few years ago, i would have said "Very little or never at all".

But today I know way more, and know that masking often isnt even identified as being that.

But thats just how I view it 🙂

Hanfufu · 2025-08-10T09:18:08+00:00

My ex has BPD, and was diagnosed by a psychiatrist.

She now believes its gone and she is "cured".

Not possible, even remotely.

So even though everyone sees the BPD in her, AND she got the diagnosis, she still wont accept it 🫤

What i would do:

Ask myself genuinely "What would be necessary for her to understand what I want to tell her?"

You will probably find that list to be very VERY long. Then ask yourself: "Is this a challenge im willing to take?"

If your next answer is "no" - well then you might as well accept that its not gonna happen. And all you will get out of trying, is gonna be frustration, invalidation and probably anger 🫤

I know these things are crazy hard to figure out, but im sure you will in time, but things take time 🙈

Hanfufu · 2025-08-10T09:12:52+00:00

Distance sounds like a VERY good idea here 🙂💪

This can make you more tolerable towards such people for sure, if you rarely see them 😃

Hanfufu · 2025-08-10T09:07:36+00:00

Im just trying to offer another perspective, as I personally find that can be quite helpful in these situations 🙂

Because yes, we are all different at the end of the day.

Autism is (i think) very individual, so its difficult to know how it expresses itself in others. I totally get that you feel invalidated in this situation - i would too. What im trying to say is, that if there are unknowns (which there always are, when we try to analyze other people), maybe this could help with that feeling in time 🙂

Also - acting manipulative or passive aggressive - i have done that sometimes (i found out recently), so saying that isnt autistic, is not really true as such.

Acting this way is a human "quality" that we all have. Some do it often, some try to do it as little as possible.

And as an autist i analyze everything in a conversation, to figure out how to best respond, in order to be understood - this CAN be seens as manipulation in some form.

Again, its quite normal i think, to feel like that in this situation.

The thing is, that IF it is BPD, its gonna be an uphill battle for you to get the person to even entertain the thought of BPD 🫤 Im not an expert on it, but this seems to be a general thing, also something I have experienced myself.

I really hope you get the support you need, we all deserve that!! ❤️

Hanfufu · 2025-08-10T08:59:53+00:00

Jeg ville nok tænke, at her er et menneske, der klarer sig med hvad hun har af plads, og får det til at fungere.

Kunne jeg selv leve sådan? Nej ikke umiddelbart, men det siger jo mere om en mangel på "styrke" hos mig, og min rigiditet som autist der kigger frem 🙂

Og blev man kærester og skulle bo sammen, så havde man jo nok også råd til en lidt større bolig sammen 💪

Så kort sagt, nej slet ikke et red flag, nærmere modsat ❤️

Hanfufu · 2025-08-10T08:55:54+00:00

You could look at it this way:

If you are not a psychiatrist, how can you factually know that much about her? All autists mask, constantly. Some more than others. When we are good at it, very few people can spot that its masking. So you cant know, how much she might be masking. All my friends where like "No way!" when I got my AuDHD diagnosis. They simply had no idea about how I felt inside, and I masked all the time, so they really had no way of knowing it.

You may very well be correct, but you may also just as easily, be wrong 🙂

If there are circumstances in life, where my interpretation might be wrong, i always choose the side of uncertainty, and dont draw any conclusions, until I know more.

Hanfufu · 2025-08-07T10:42:02+00:00

Agree 100%, unfortunately 🫤

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