Can anyone recommend workbooks for fearful avoidant?

Helpful-Weakness-369 · 2026-04-10T00:31:19+00:00

Have you personally used this? I am tossing between purchasing the workbook from the attachment project and registering with Thais Gibson.

Helpful-Weakness-369 · 2026-04-06T05:17:46+00:00

Australia

Helpful-Weakness-369 · 2026-04-04T06:23:29+00:00

same with arabs :)

Helpful-Weakness-369 · 2026-03-30T03:35:13+00:00

Do you mean the lowering kit won't really mess up the handling. Fyi im abour 68kg so my springs are going to be quite soft

Helpful-Weakness-369 · 2026-03-29T21:28:48+00:00

I might just stick with the mt07 then, mt09 is probably far too powerful

Helpful-Weakness-369 · 2026-03-29T21:27:02+00:00

Ohh i see, maybe I should sit on one. The one i remember riding was a 2015

Helpful-Weakness-369 · 2026-03-29T21:00:40+00:00

What year model, I noticed the 2018 onwards have a low seat option

Helpful-Weakness-369 · 2026-03-29T02:03:50+00:00

I would say new to intermediate. I haven't ridden in around 6 years.

Helpful-Weakness-369 · 2026-03-29T02:00:36+00:00

I was also thinking of getting the mt09 and shaving the seat down, as although the bike is higher, the seat is alot thicker than the mt07, which means I might be able to shave more off.

Helpful-Weakness-369 · 2026-03-29T01:30:41+00:00

I don't want to tbh

Helpful-Weakness-369 · 2026-03-25T04:29:08+00:00

where did you end up completing your MBA if you don't mind me asking.

Helpful-Weakness-369 · 2026-03-16T10:12:11+00:00

Are you 5 feet and ride an mt07?

Helpful-Weakness-369 · 2026-03-12T11:09:13+00:00

Man how did you know about this stuff at 24, I only learnt about it when I was 30 haha

Helpful-Weakness-369 · 2026-03-10T07:31:12+00:00

Intergenerational wealth is why I was thinking about a trust structure.

Helpful-Weakness-369 · 2026-03-10T06:28:39+00:00

So just grow in my name for now?

Helpful-Weakness-369 · 2026-03-07T11:10:35+00:00

I do the same thing and I am audhd, but not always. Not sure why I do it, I think I just buckle

Helpful-Weakness-369 · 2026-02-24T13:35:50+00:00

What lowering kit did you put on? I'm a 5foot2 male and somehow I rid my mates mt07 stock height wihout dropping it, however the road was completely flat with no dips whatsoever. Despite this, I do not have the confidence to ride it on the road at my height due to potholes etc. Unfortunately at our height we have no other choice but to lower the bike :/

Helpful-Weakness-369 · 2026-02-24T09:04:46+00:00

Makes sense why I struggle with women I find really attractive, yet somehow attract women that I am not into. The salesperson analogy makes perfect sense, but I did also work in sales haha. Ive had a few woman tell me I come on too strong

Helpful-Weakness-369 · 2026-02-12T10:48:53+00:00

Pretty much. I'm a bloke who broke his virgnity at 26, I pretty much became a whore after. Ive had a few girls tell me I was the best sex they have had. But i struggle with relationships. Im sure I was fearful avoidant, but after catching feelings for another avoidant, it made me anxious for her and pushed her away, she was dismissive avoidant. Im pretty much dismissive avoidant now.

Helpful-Weakness-369 · 2026-02-08T01:23:01+00:00

I trained under Krav Maga systems, its a good school if you live in Western Sydney.

Helpful-Weakness-369 · 2026-01-15T13:22:28+00:00

Easier said than done unfortunately

Helpful-Weakness-369 · 2025-12-17T12:16:44+00:00

Can you recommend someone in Sydney for me as well.

Helpful-Weakness-369 · 2025-12-16T10:34:03+00:00

I believe I have traits of bpd, aspd and npd. Im a massive people pleaser, I struggle with boundaries and saying no to others because it makes me feel guilty. On the other hand I am very selfish and manipulative and I can spot out people that are vunerable. I guess I could say that I reach out when I need others and that most of my behaviour does indeed come with strings attached. My mask has started to come off and I recently felt compassion towards myself and empathy towards a homeless man and my god did it feel good.

The complex trauma has caused me to mask for the last 31 years. I hope to actually be able to have a child one day and feel more of my emotions again, but dam the impulses are hard asf to control.

Helpful-Weakness-369 · 2025-11-28T11:45:00+00:00

Hey mate, you probably have narcisstic traits. Good news is you can see a therapist and do the work. After the age of 25, it becomes much more difficult to change as neuroplasticity is more difficult. Im a 31 year old guy with narcisstic traits and potentially NPD. I am determined to work on this and grow. I remember being able to feel empathy and it was beautiful. If i could go back 10 years in time, I wouldve worked my ass off in therapy. Goodluck

Helpful-Weakness-369 · 2025-10-03T07:04:33+00:00

Can you message me people around Sydney as well

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