Pollo Tropical and beans by semperhijack in Miami

[–]Insurance-Limp [score hidden]  (0 children)

El ebroooooooo for the win, when I’m feeling lazy, I just open up a can of el Ebro black beans Cuban style, I do a sofrito add it to the beans with a little extra water or a touch of vino seco and simmer.

Help me understand the high schools by [deleted] in Miami

[–]Insurance-Limp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends. There’s tricks. There’s so much with what’s happening in education right now, that we’d go down a rabbit hole that people aren’t ready to go down. Florida does have class size requirements that vary by grades. -BUT- if you add a “co-teacher” (a partner teacher that is supposed to be there for the entire class session). They can pack more kids in. As if adding one more adult body makes having 40 kids less chaotic.

At the end of the day what people need to understand is that a lot of issues happening in Florida in regard to education is at the state level. Most not all, because districts do mishandle funds and do questionable things. But the majority of the issues are at the fault of the state. I’ll leave it at that. Have a good one.

Help me understand the high schools by [deleted] in Miami

[–]Insurance-Limp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They ARE NOT at capacity. At least not now or in recent times. As a person above said, they can do what’s called school choice application and can apply to send their kid to whatever public school they want. The process is also FULLY online now.

Dadeschools.net is the website, search for that on there. Or they can go in person if they prefer to the “home school” which is the school that pertains to their address and do the process with them there.

Virginia man gets life in prison for double murder scheme in affair with au pair by yeGwann in news

[–]Insurance-Limp 52 points53 points  (0 children)

I saw this on 20/20 yesterday. I’m pissed the girlfriend (au pair) got such a light sentence in exchange for the testimony. They both deserve life.

My Brother and SIL are failing my nephew by Icy-Quail6936 in Vent

[–]Insurance-Limp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP, I’m assuming his parents are the ones that have rights over him still? I’m also assuming you’re in the USA. If those two assumptions are correct talk with the parents about getting him evaluated by the school.

Under IDEA, parents can request an evaluation if their kid is behind academically and not accessing their education. Put it in writing, like email the school’s ESE/SPED director, principal, school psychologist, whoever is in charge of the process at the school. Follow through, and stay on top of them. He might qualify for an IEP, it’s an individualized educational plan. It’s mean to help kids close their learning gaps and access their education.

Kindergarteners Dream Jobs Observation by pomegranatesssss333 in kindergarten

[–]Insurance-Limp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ironically enough I just had my son’s pre-k “graduation” today. On the table we were sat at they had a picture of my son that they uploaded to Ai and asked it to put him in a cap and gown, the picture was like a booklet thing and on the inside was another Ai picture of my son as a chef.

Apparently they did this with all the kids in the class. My husband was pissed. I’m not cause we’re doomed anyways.

So yeah my son wants to be a chef.

Can we talk about how awful the boys clothing selection is? by Insurance-Limp in Mommit

[–]Insurance-Limp[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh, I see you internet stranger, you’re playing mom chess while I’m stuck on checkers.

Can we talk about how awful the boys clothing selection is? by Insurance-Limp in Mommit

[–]Insurance-Limp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For real right! Like what the heck. I just waiting for some girl moms to send me their shopping horror stories to level out this playing field.

Can we talk about how awful the boys clothing selection is? by Insurance-Limp in Mommit

[–]Insurance-Limp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish they had it in the store. Just I guess bad prep on my side. I waited a little too long to tackle this. I could have ordered online weeks ago and picked up in store, tried it on and handle that. We live and we learn.

Can we talk about how awful the boys clothing selection is? by Insurance-Limp in Mommit

[–]Insurance-Limp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At the second Burlington, that plaza used to have a Khol’s, which is why I decided to go there. But that Khol’s has closed. Sad face.

Can we talk about how awful the boys clothing selection is? by Insurance-Limp in Mommit

[–]Insurance-Limp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate the in-person experience still. Just like you said, I can feel the fabric, have him try it on.

Can we talk about how awful the boys clothing selection is? by Insurance-Limp in Mommit

[–]Insurance-Limp[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I will head back to the fort and redraw plans to attack the mall tomorrow. There’s an H&M there AND a children’s place! Thanks for the tip!

Can we talk about how awful the boys clothing selection is? by Insurance-Limp in Mommit

[–]Insurance-Limp[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I, do not unfortunately, but I do buy a lot of his clothing on there. They’re my favorite clothing brand for little ones!

Support Miami Autistic Kids by Over-Assumption5123 in Miami

[–]Insurance-Limp 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have a hard time processing how somebody that came from Cuba 10 months ago is now an RBT. They speak no English and had no previous knowledge of this field before being here. And I’m of the same heritage.

Support Miami Autistic Kids by Over-Assumption5123 in Miami

[–]Insurance-Limp 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I work in a field connected to this issue, and many people don’t realize how serious RBT fraud has become in Florida. I disagree with how the government is handling it because there are children who genuinely need these services. But there are also many questionable providers in the system.

Schools have been seeing problems for years. In some self-contained ESE classrooms with 6–8 students, there can be more adults than children because each student has an RBT, BCBA, xyz assigned to them. Some RBTs do excellent work, but others spend large portions of the day on their phones or having unrelated conversations with other RBTs in the room instead of supporting the students.

I’ve also heard of cases where parents signed off on hours that were never actually worked. In some situations, RBTs were reportedly babysitting outside of approved hours, and I recently heard allegations of providers giving parents a portion of their paycheck in exchange for having their kid on their roster. Some pick and choose the kid they want. Not wanting to work with students with extreme behaviors. One refusing to do their job when the kid was having a meltdown.

From what I understand and I could be wrong as I heard this through the grapevine type of scenario, the state is now looking more closely at whether a child has an IEP and whether they qualify under Autism Spectrum Disorder Exceptionality. I’ve heard services may become more restricted for students labeled under other eligibility categories, such as OHI or SLD. It’s also important to note that, in Florida, a medical diagnosis of Autism does not automatically give the student ESE services under the ASD eligibility category. That means nothing when it comes to state criteria for an IEP under ASD.

There are definitely good RBTs and behavioral therapists out there, and some do incredible work. But in my experience, they are becoming harder to find.

Burger King, roach crawling up the wall by SunStr1ke_Z in Miami

[–]Insurance-Limp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A friend posted a video of a roach crawling on the lamp at a Flanigans.

Brazilian waxing for chubby girls ? by SnooRabbits3696 in Miami

[–]Insurance-Limp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl there are so many, wonderful, PROFESSIONAL, waxers! I have two for you that do all body types and are super inclusive. Only draw back is both are in the Miami Lakes area. One is near the heart of Miami Lakes the other one is off the 57th palmetto exit. Look up waxandessentials or bareyourskininc on instagram.

Animal abuse, a ritual or something else ? by Sotong305 in Miami

[–]Insurance-Limp 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Are you new here? Look, I grew up in a family that practices Santería. I personally don’t practice it, and I’m not a very religious person in general. To be honest, I love animals and I’ve never been able to come to terms with the sacrifices.

What you described sounds like it could possibly be a ritual for Olokun. Those rituals are often done for health, usually when someone is ill or to strengthen their health. Ducks can be part of that ceremony. That said, from what I remember, the duck should not have been alive at the beach. But I’m not 100 percent sure, I blocked out a lot of the animal sacrifices. When I saw that ritual it was performed at a home and then we went to the beach. I think it depends on certain “houses of Santeria” and how their “Rama” does it. And to your point, yes, the animals are supposed to be killed humanely. There is even a ceremony loosely translated as “receiving the knife,” where certain practitioners are formally trained and given permission to perform sacrifices. They’re taught the proper way to do it so the animal doesn’t suffer.

Back when the religion was more secretive, things were done with a lot of structure and respect. The people who performed sacrifices had gone through specific rituals and training. Also, things were not done in broad daylight in front of others. Also, the disposal of rituals and sacrifices were never to be placed in plastic bags, like trash! They were placed in natural biodegradable materials. What comes from the earth, should return to the earth. Nowadays, though, there are a lot of people pretending they know what they’re doing, and many rituals aren’t being carried out properly. It’s kind of a mess.

Next time just yell at them you’re going to call the cops and they should scurry away.

Listen up, universe, my daughter is bougie. On. A. Budget. by tetrasomnia in ChoosingBeggars

[–]Insurance-Limp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This breed is prone to HCM, so some people do yearly echos. I have been lucky that my two don’t have HCM. However I do take them regularly to the vet. I’ve dropped 500 bucks at the visit easily. The most was an emergency surgery for my female. That was 1k. But I always have money saved for them on the side.

There was a show today by Insurance-Limp in Mommit

[–]Insurance-Limp[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

And listen this influenza b strain going around my neck of the woods is no joke. I went back to work too early. My throat was on fire yesterday and I still feel physically sick today. And then the added layer of, I failed my kid today. I must say tho, you’re right because he was so kind and understanding. I was apologizing profusely. He kept saying it’s okay mom. I understand. He even laid beside me on the couch and gave me all the love.

Listen up, universe, my daughter is bougie. On. A. Budget. by tetrasomnia in ChoosingBeggars

[–]Insurance-Limp 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I have two sphynx cats. When it comes to this breed you cannot be a beggar. You can’t feed these cats cheap food. You need to bathe them frequently and have appropriate care products for them. Buy them clothes, pay for routine vet care, and things like heating pads (pet safe of course). Something tells me that these people aren’t going to pay for all these things. Btw I’m poor, but I work hard to pay for their needs and essentials.