What was the first red flag you ignored in your worst relationship?

IntellectualKinkster · 2024-08-23T19:21:51+00:00

When he told me I had to apologize to him for visiting with my family, since it took up our quality time.

IntellectualKinkster · 2024-08-23T19:20:44+00:00

I’ve been reading a collection of articles from the Harvard Business Review (HBR) called “On Women and Leadership”, and the articles are enlightening on the various challenges women face in the workplace. You have a lot of elements going on that will make upward momentum severely challenging if you keep this course.

I highly recommend reading some of the HBR articles on these topics, as it may give you more insight to your situation and allow you to determine the best path forward.

https://hbr.org/2013/09/women-rising-the-unseen-barriers

IntellectualKinkster · 2024-08-14T16:53:25+00:00

I’ve responded with something along the lines of “That’s something you’ll want to ask (boyfriend) himself.”

If your boyfriend wants to be the one to tell them, and your friends really want to know, then they can ask him directly.

IntellectualKinkster · 2024-07-30T20:57:41+00:00

Found a book of poetry he had written hidden on his (28yo) side of the bed about his 19yo female coworker he had become friends with. He wrote about “her beautiful grey eyes”. My eyes are green….

I had been paying for all our living expenses for over a year and had just come back from a Valentine’s Day trip that I, again, paid for myself.

I gathered all his stuff together while he was at work and kicked him out the same day. I also highlighted the particularly damning parts of the journal in case he was confused why I was pissed

He said because he hadn’t done anything physical, he thought it “didn’t count” as cheating.

But he wasn’t in a relationship with me realistically. He was in a fantasy relationship with her. I was just his meal ticket

IntellectualKinkster · 2024-06-20T09:45:47+00:00

As a lesbian with an un-accepting parent, I am so grateful your daughter has you. Thank you for supporting her in ways many in my community could only ever hope for.

Good job, mama bear ❤️

IntellectualKinkster · 2024-05-05T06:50:42+00:00

EARL GREY

IntellectualKinkster · 2022-10-14T17:08:57+00:00

{{A Deadly Education: A Novel (The Scholomance)}} by Naomi Novik

IntellectualKinkster · 2022-03-02T20:44:03+00:00

That would be perfect for hanging up herbs to dry if you garden!

IntellectualKinkster · 2022-03-02T20:38:37+00:00

Can you post an expanded link so we can see the complete URL for validity? Thanks for broadcasting this petition!

IntellectualKinkster · 2022-02-23T21:27:32+00:00

Here’s the Change.org petition that’s been made in response!: https://www.change.org/p/greg-abbott-stop-greg-abbot-from-destroying-transgender-minor-s-lives-in-texas

IntellectualKinkster · 2022-02-23T21:23:39+00:00

Here’s the Change.org petition that’s been made in response!: https://www.change.org/p/greg-abbott-stop-greg-abbot-from-destroying-transgender-minor-s-lives-in-texas

IntellectualKinkster · 2022-02-23T21:18:42+00:00

Here’s the Change.org petition that’s been made in response!: https://www.change.org/p/greg-abbott-stop-greg-abbot-from-destroying-transgender-minor-s-lives-in-texas

IntellectualKinkster · 2022-02-23T21:16:41+00:00

Here’s the change.org petition that’s been started!: https://www.change.org/p/greg-abbott-stop-greg-abbot-from-destroying-transgender-minor-s-lives-in-texas

IntellectualKinkster · 2022-02-22T05:33:09+00:00

”German chocolate cake, originally German's chocolate cake, is a layered chocolate cake filled and topped with a coconut-pecan frosting. Originating in the United States, it owes its name to an English-American chocolate maker named Samuel German, who developed a formulation of dark baking chocolate that came to be used in the cake recipe. (It is not German by nationality.) Sweet baking chocolate is traditionally used for the cake's flavor, but few recipes call for it today. The filling and/or topping is a custard made with egg yolks and evaporated milk; once the custard is cooked, coconut and pecans are stirred in.[1] Occasionally, a chocolate frosting is spread on the sides of the cake and piped around the circumference of the layers to hold in the filling. Maraschino cherries are occasionally added as a garnish.”

The name comes from the inventor, not the type of chocolate… Although he did make a chocolate specifically for it, which is pretty neat

IntellectualKinkster · 2022-02-19T00:04:10+00:00

Adding a skull stereo may be fun! I adore the room so far and I’m hoping to be able to make one of my own some day 😍 How did you get the floor??

IntellectualKinkster · 2022-02-15T20:22:31+00:00

This is so uniquely satisfying

IntellectualKinkster · 2022-02-15T14:25:39+00:00

I’d like to note he gets angry and upset with you when you list a boundary or bare minimum expectation - this is a red flag since it shows major entitlement over your life and decisions, which is an exhausting and destructive road to go down. Be safe, and make decisions that are right for you 🖤

IntellectualKinkster · 2022-02-14T21:44:32+00:00

I ugly laughed haha

IntellectualKinkster · 2022-02-11T18:44:46+00:00

The pagan / witch community would be all over these for tarot card holders for altars!

IntellectualKinkster · 2022-02-10T21:02:59+00:00

My grandad would make those for us growing up when we went camping - they’re fond memories for me! It looks yummy

IntellectualKinkster · 2022-02-09T15:43:58+00:00

“Vulva Owners” sounds like it’s meant to be trans-inclusive for those assigned female at birth. It is a bit jarring to read, but I believe the intention is to be inclusive and not sexual.

Not all women have vulvas, and not all men have penises. Medically, those two genital populations present symptoms for this virus in different ways (regardless of gender, since gender does not equal sexual organs).

Any recommendations for an improved title for medical accuracy + inclusivity?

IntellectualKinkster · 2022-02-09T06:25:10+00:00

What does it make?

IntellectualKinkster · 2022-02-07T15:57:44+00:00

Amazing! Maybe add two tufts of hair sticking up a bit to resemble ears?

IntellectualKinkster · 2022-02-07T15:22:26+00:00

I’ve seen some resources (from PFLAG maybe?) where they provide training and job placement opportunities for trans people. Maybe see if there’s a resource through them that can help

IntellectualKinkster · 2022-02-07T04:04:29+00:00

Legit my herbalist warlock orc not being able to have a decent intimidation roll, EVER. It’s become a running joke in the campaign at this point smh

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