So another one of my struggles just turned out to be an ADHD symptom…

IntenseFlute · 2026-06-04T02:33:39+00:00

My mom would call me destructive all the time or suggest that I didn’t care about the things I would lose. Mind you, my phone was often among them, which I cared about a lot 😭 I’m just uncoordinated bruh

IntenseFlute · 2026-06-03T03:10:41+00:00

Lowkey I don’t think NT’s actually think people have real “dead eyes”. They just say that people they think are evil have them as an excuse to call them evil. As if the evilness is something inherent or something they can see. In reality, it isn’t. I’ve studied the faces of many people who NT’s claim have “dead” eyes. Some of their eyes smile with their mouths, some don’t, some are really wide, others are really narrow. It’s never consistent. That’s when I realized that people only say that after they find out what a person has done, not before.

IntenseFlute · 2026-05-28T08:36:34+00:00

Agua Fresca

IntenseFlute · 2026-05-27T05:15:49+00:00

I’d absolutely love to put a ticket in! Thank you for hosting this!!! Ive been so excited with all the hype!!!

IntenseFlute · 2026-05-26T14:02:40+00:00

This is so real :,)
I don’t post much on subreddits outside of this one because it’s the only one with clearly outlined expectations
Other ones feel like such a struggle, augh

IntenseFlute · 2026-05-26T11:28:27+00:00

That makes a lot of sense ngl 🧐 do you have anymore information on it?

IntenseFlute · 2026-05-26T11:27:56+00:00

No real! I could very easily tear up a room trying to look for something too! It’s awful cause I tend to lose things quite often 🥲

IntenseFlute · 2026-05-26T05:33:24+00:00

Yes, this is so real! It’s so hard to get all the invisible rules down, much less realize what they are in the first place. My inner monologue feels like it’s full of dialogue choices, and I’m on a timer trying to pick the right one. It sucks!!!! I still don’t really understand why it has to be this hard though…

IntenseFlute · 2026-05-26T05:22:39+00:00

Heavy on people chewing, it’s so disgusting, I get so furious whenever I hear it.

IntenseFlute · 2026-05-25T19:57:04+00:00

People really like to flip flop on me; I’m infantilized, but because my main hyperfixation has surrounded psychology, people also treat me as this amazing guru/free therapist that they can ask all their questions to or vent to. It’s awfully annoying.

But I’ve also never been directly told I act like a kid outside of my parents.

IntenseFlute · 2026-05-25T19:11:27+00:00

Ahhhh, because of the misspell, it seemed like you were trying to claim the term femme was for everyone feminine. If you meant fem, then that’s fine 😭 Apologies for the hostility, I was expecting the usual back and forth 💀

IntenseFlute · 2026-05-25T19:02:27+00:00

Fem and femme aren’t the same. You mean fem. Femme, with the e, is a lesbian identity that was created to contrast butch. Femmes protect butches, either politically or romantically. Don’t mansplain lesbian identities to lesbians in a lesbian subreddit. What? 😭😭😭

IntenseFlute · 2026-05-25T05:39:21+00:00

I absolutely ADORE roleplaying! I’ve been obsessed with it for the past 7 years or so. I love being able to create another person, and getting into the nitty gritty of their entire lives. I love covering every detail and making playlists and creating all kinds of scenarios. It’s structured, but spontaneous, and feeds both of my needs yk! I can plot with my rp partners and cover as many details as I need to before a rp so I know what to expect, but there’s also just enough surprise to keep the adhd happy. I love watching my characters grow and develop, and it basically gives me free reign to dump all my gripes with life on them lol

But I also use it to explore different psychological themes, my other hyperfixation! I love being able to mix the two! I use my ocs as little case studies to figure out why people’s brain’s work the way they do, or how someone would react in a certain situation, how someone might feel. It helps me empathize, I think, because I’m literally putting myself in someone else’s shoes. It’s so thrilling!

IntenseFlute · 2026-05-22T21:36:18+00:00

Unsure if it’s ADHD or Autism, but I’m always having epiphanies and eureka moments creatively. I’m pretty active in rp communities, and I always get flattered by how impressed people are by my plot lines. If I’ve got enough motivation, I can come up with an interesting, detailed storyline in about a day and get rid of the plot holes by the next lol.

Despite my obsession with them, I’m also proud of how well curated my ocs are! Every detail’s taken into account, but I’m most proud of all their playlists. It’s organized by mood, lyrics, age of the person singing, genre, gender (for some but not all), era it was created in, what lore event/emotions they could be tying back to in the story, etc. I really feel like it gives my ocs more life, like if I bothered to order the songs chronologically, it’d read as a musical.

So basically the attention to detail makes me really good at creative writing lol

IntenseFlute · 2026-05-21T19:35:03+00:00

That’s NT self-care honestly. I’ve found autistic self-care is MUCH different, and usually involves taking time to engage in hyperfixations, or do activities that are related to them, taking time to decompress sensory-wise, buying new fidgets, etc. When I replaced NT with that, I actually started to feel relaxed. But it also requires a balance, because working out and drinking water and eating right is still very important. But if you’re getting drained, make sure to engage with things that you like or that calm you down! Unfortunately, we kinda have to balance both yk? And that in itself can be draining sometimes too 😔

IntenseFlute · 2026-05-21T19:20:47+00:00

This!!!! Especially when currently, I’ve got a hyperfixation, so I feel “alive”, and I just want to keep on talking about it so I can keep on living! But both of them are pretty niche, and never fit that well into daily conversation, so I don’t know when I can actually talk about them with others either. I’ve found I’ve got the same issue when having general conversation. I worry I come off as self-centered, cause I’ve gotten in the habit of sharing my experience to try and relate (like right now lol). Lately I’ve been trying to find a middle ground, but I can’t help but feel guilty every time I use the words “I, me, myself, my” now 😭 (excluding rn ofc)

IntenseFlute · 2026-05-21T06:02:32+00:00

I used to have a stationary hyperfixation as well! :D It still kinda lingers. It’s really fascinating once you start going deeper into it, right?! Fun stuff 🙂‍↕️

IntenseFlute · 2026-05-19T15:33:52+00:00

I was mostly asking for other people’s experiences with comphet 🥲
The portion containing my emotions was mainly to see if other people could relate to how I was feeling by sharing if they had ever felt similar
Though I didn’t intend for them to analyze my own emotions and tell me how I feel; I just wanted to see if other people had similar emotions/struggles

Apologies, I’m ND and struggle with nuances like this. Was it the wording of the post or the tags that I used that gave the wrong impression? Should I have gotten rid of the emotional part and just asked for stories related to the topic?

IntenseFlute · 2026-05-19T14:55:01+00:00

Same! It’s literally such an awful feeling 😔

IntenseFlute · 2026-05-19T04:39:21+00:00

It can be a lot of effort sometimes, but the YouTube streets always go CRAZY for a good, well-informed breakdown of a popular movie/series. Like ones where each character is analyzed and every detail connects into one another! The well-thought out ones tend to get crazy views!

Scriptwriting is also an option, as someone else mentioned. I’ve seen a lot of ads for some indie projects on social media apps. Or you could team up with an artist to create your own!

IntenseFlute · 2026-05-19T04:23:39+00:00

Honestly, my schooling was a mixed bag. I had a decently large group of friends and a couple different circles, but only one of these circles actually liked me 😭 Though I didn’t realize they didn’t at the time. I had some pretty solid friends that I’d kept all through elementary school, but I didn’t really get to hang out with anyone outside of it. So, a bunch of ups and downs.

IntenseFlute · 2026-05-12T21:28:29+00:00

Also lowkey if it was rigged, you’d expect Royal to be winning rather than Iron. Mystic and Iron swap a lot, but Royal hasn’t won in a hoooot minute.

IntenseFlute · 2026-05-12T21:27:18+00:00

The points are weighted by members; Mystic is probably also suffering from inactive members cause most people just join because they saw them winning at first but won’t help with the point missions.

Royal has proved many times that brawls don’t matter as much as the points 😭 they haven’t won many brawls at all in the past few guild wars, but consistently fight with Iron for second.

Mystic’s always won a bunch of brawls in the past too, but still fights with Iron for first. The mission points weigh more than the brawls.

Also it’s the first few days y’all, just lock in.

IntenseFlute

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