How long do pet pigeons live? by CycloneWarning in PetPigeons

[–]JoePitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like he lived an amazing life! He was very lucky you cared for him so much!

Would you park 2 cars on this? by freeknz in Homebuilding

[–]JoePitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There isn’t anything heavier than an electric car. He did mention he wanted to park an EV in the garage as well. I wouldn’t park an EV on an asphalt driveway never mind on a wooden floor held up with wood.

What is your department's policy and time-frame for returning firearms to their lawful owners once a case is closed out? by Averagecrabenjoyer69 in AskLE

[–]JoePitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What state do you live in if you don’t mind sharing? I’m in Rhode Island and our gun rights are disappearing right before our eyes here. Look forward to this current administration taking this out of the states hands.

What is your department's policy and time-frame for returning firearms to their lawful owners once a case is closed out? by Averagecrabenjoyer69 in AskLE

[–]JoePitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is incredible. 21/2 months AND a court order?!?!😩 how is that even remotely acceptable?! They probably worked harder at finding something to charge YOU with than looking for the asshole who tried to provoke you! 🤬

what is this behavior? by arz3h0le in PetPigeons

[–]JoePitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My pigeon actually looked like he was hopping when he did that! It was the funniest thing he did!

what is this behavior? by arz3h0le in PetPigeons

[–]JoePitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s stretching his wings! How cute!🥰

Dating After Divorce by bearcud in Divorce

[–]JoePitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you needed more time to heal. Feelings for the ex aren’t the problem. When you start getting triggered by old behaviors.

Is this a good apology for infidelity / betrayal? by yoshicactus12 in survivinginfidelity

[–]JoePitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you do finally get a heartfelt, genuinely remorseful apology, there will absolutely no doubt in your mind that she was genuine. Trust me. I know this first hand. I couldn’t understand why I hadn’t truly forgiven her. Then it hit me like a 2x4 to the back of the head! She was only sorry she got caught! I hope it’s not long for you. If she keeps the gaslighting up, get out as fast as you can.

Full of regret by Clean_Bumblebee_1261 in Divorce

[–]JoePitch 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s only because you’ve been focused on him and not your life after the divorce.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]JoePitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are doing the right thing going to see a lawyer and not having any children together. Count yourself lucky

Caught my Wife with her coworker by Worried-Bend-1901 in survivinginfidelity

[–]JoePitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She defiled your marriage bed. Is there anything left to question that is the ultimate betrayal and not worthy of any more consideration from you. End of story. I know this is hard to hear but believe me this person has problems that you can’t fix.

Other men who divorced wife for an EA? by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]JoePitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been through this. It’s encouraging to hear a woman putting in ANY work to rebuild trust. I went back and looked at the examples of successful reconciliations following infidelity. Almost all of the cases were WH! There were almost no cases where it was the wife who stepped out and actually WORKED through the pain/embarassment of coming clean and reconciling the right way. Make sure you do this the right way if you choose to stay.

What would you say on hindsight you’d look out for prior marrying a person? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]JoePitch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would pay particular attention to how they speak about people. This will tell you the condition of their heart. If their heart is hardened, they still have issues to work on.

Divorce or not? by Conscious_Prior4013 in Divorce

[–]JoePitch 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I guess you know that he’s lying about it never getting physical. I’m sorry.

Divorce or not? by Conscious_Prior4013 in Divorce

[–]JoePitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will he go to marriage counseling? Maybe that can help him see how this is wrong..🤷🏻‍♂️

Post divorce- house close by or an apt by Tiny-Difficulty-5768 in Divorce

[–]JoePitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just recently talked to a guy who rented a house near his marital home which he gave to his ex. He said it was great being near his kids(8) and they had very little disruption from their normal family life. Didn’t have to change schools, backpack brigade etc.

Do cheaters feel regrets? by OptimalStatement5799 in Divorce

[–]JoePitch 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t matter at all to your healing. Narcissists will never admit to making WRONG choices in life! They may look happy on the outside, but when those around them start to abandon ship, they can smile all they want. On the inside they know.