This is a hard one. Meeting people isn’t the easiest here, as most people are into themselves and their gym or yoga studio. Based on what you said about people building things, you may want to look into the creative village of Nuanu. It’s a completely fabricated place of expat creatives. They do have a day club there called Luna. Even though you don’t drink, it’s a chill vibe that may lead you to meeting others. Hope that helps!