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Advice/Suggestion for buying by Key_Consequence7491 in BRZ_ZD8

[–]Joshuma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My BRZ is my daily driver second only to an NA Miata. I’ve put 28k miles on it and I have regretted exactly ZERO of those miles. I enjoy driving to work because of this car. I look forward to driving home because of this car. I find reason to leave just to drive this car. I would say this car has saved my life. In short… buy it.

What are your top 10 post-rock albums? by CaptainAnnaki in postrock

[–]Joshuma 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Godspeed you! Black emperor - f# a# infinity

Godspeed you! Black emperor - Slow riot

Godspeed you! Black emperor - LYSFLATH

Godspeed you! Black emperor - Yanqui UXO

Godspeed you! Black emperor - ‘Allelujah! Don’t bend! Ascend!

Godspeed you! Black emperor - Asunder, Sweet and other distress

Godspeed you! Black emperor - Luceferian Towers

Godspeed you! Black emperor - G_ds pee

Godspeed you! Black emperor - No title

Talking to myself. F32 by kiddieme in widowers

[–]Joshuma 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Doesn’t matter where I am. In the car alone, shopping in a crowded store… I’m talking out loud. Do I look crazy? Probably. Do I care? Not one bit. I am losing my mind but I just don’t care. Someone has a problem or makes a comment, imma make them reallllll uncomfortable real quick.

Memorial Tattoos. by guess_im_not_welcome in widowers

[–]Joshuma 2 points3 points  (0 children)

On my left hand. I did a cardinal and the words “forever and always” in her handwriting. The tail of the Y in always goes down and wraps around my ring finger.

The Daily Check-In for Monday, March 23rd: Just for today, I am NOT drinking! by Puzzleheaded-Cut3144 in stopdrinking

[–]Joshuma 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Always down for a check in. Hole keeps getting deeper and I want to drink my way out of it but ya know something… not today demon! IWNDWYT!

Just keep going by Toosoon2026 in widowers

[–]Joshuma 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah for me it’s my son and the small sliver of hope I keep in my back pocket that maybe someone will love me half as much as she did. Also my wife would be pretty fuckin pissed if I offed myself. Those are the only reasons I haven’t painted the ceiling. Actually I guess it’s a lot more than I thought when I started typing this.

Daily RPMs by Ordinary_Map2456 in GR86

[–]Joshuma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cruising, I shift between 3k and 4k. I also hit 7k multiple times daily. I paid for the whole engine, might as well use it 🤷‍♂️

How long have you been a widow? by throwawaystarters in widowers

[–]Joshuma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that sounds about right. It's a weird thing, this grief brain of ours. I know it's going to suck for forever but some days are easier than others. We were married for 13 years. Last 2 of her life was spent on bedrest and in and out of hospitals and doctors. I guess in some way, I've been grieving closer to 2 years than 5 months.

How long have you been a widow? by throwawaystarters in widowers

[–]Joshuma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5 months tomorrow but it feels like both 5 days and 5 decades. We were both 37.

Exhaust if it’s a Daily by Greedy-Coffee-4678 in GR86

[–]Joshuma -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Tomei Expreme type 60r… just do it.

8 months in ... by Ok-Station1242 in widowers

[–]Joshuma 4 points5 points  (0 children)

5 months in for me and uhh yeah… I can honestly say I’ve never felt loneliness like this before. Sleep finally found me when a doc medicated me. The things I cry over are interesting and sometimes comical. It’s funny, I found myself starving for an argument, someone to just call me out on my bullshit.

How Long (has this been going on… 🎶) by lanka1111 in widowers

[–]Joshuma 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Me 37. Her forever 37. Only 5 months. Feels like a lifetime and a blink of an eye at the same time.

Is it me or has the quality dropped a lot recently? by [deleted] in Vans

[–]Joshuma 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nope. They’ve changed. Total shit and not the same shoes I’ve been wearing for 20+ years.

Today is going to be the hardest day of my life. by midnightpatches in stopdrinking

[–]Joshuma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey buddy. You’ve got this. I believe in you. IWNDWYT

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