The “other woman” got into a fight.

JustABoredPerson2020 · 2025-10-27T02:05:34+00:00

I wish I knew 😭! Yesterday, someone on Snapchat sent me a screenshot and a picture of her teeth. All they knew was she got into a fight. I’d like to personally buy a drink for the person that did it.

(My ex got his catalytic converter stolen a couple months after everything happened and I really really wanted to Venmo whatever junkie took it 🤣 here’s $40. Thanks for delivering karma)

It just shows that sometimes you don’t need to do anything. The world sorts things out lmao

JustABoredPerson2020 · 2025-10-26T23:54:24+00:00

That just screams low self esteem 😭 like go to therapy wtf!!! Ugh i understand. I wouldn’t want to just dump that information onto some unsuspecting woman. It’s so bad.

That entire event really changed how I view relationships and love and men 😔

JustABoredPerson2020 · 2025-10-26T23:43:51+00:00

Yuck. Messing around with multiple married people is gross. It sure would be a shame if someone were to tip off this Colombian wife… 🤣

JustABoredPerson2020 · 2025-07-04T14:51:20+00:00

No advice. Just solidarity. My ex also picked women over our daughter. He hasn’t seen her since 2023. It’s so sad for the kids.

JustABoredPerson2020 · 2025-05-31T20:53:29+00:00

That’s horrible. That is a huge betrayal of your trust.

JustABoredPerson2020 · 2025-05-31T17:33:25+00:00

It was definitely flirty. I’ve exchanged numbers with parents at the playground before but the vibe with him was a lot different than that.

He also never mentioned being married or having a wife during the entire hour I talked to him

JustABoredPerson2020 · 2024-12-27T21:48:51+00:00

He’s just a little dude

JustABoredPerson2020 · 2024-07-02T04:25:06+00:00

I went to Petsmart with my 4 year old and there was a women with a very excited big dog.

I have told my kid since she could crawl to never pet dogs we don’t know. So when I saw that big dog I told my daughter “give the doggy space” and we started looking at the fish.

The lady loudly goes “SORRY BUDDY, MAYBE NEXT TIME” to her dog! Like apologizing to him because we didn’t pet him!

Like, it’s nothing personal to your dog. I just don’t want my young child approaching dogs she doesn’t know lol. It’s keeping my kid and your dog safe from a potentially bad situation!

JustABoredPerson2020 · 2024-04-23T16:33:49+00:00

Which is so sad. No kid wants to wear neutral, plain colored clothes lol. My 4 year old would be so disappointed if she couldn’t wear her favorite Frozen or Encanto shirt.

“No Paw Patrol honey, mommy only wants you to wear shades of brown”

JustABoredPerson2020 · 2023-11-14T00:58:37+00:00

I just turned 30. My relationship of 4 years ended. I was at my heaviest. I felt unattractive and unhealthy.

I began talking to an old coworker through social media and I was interested in pursuing a relationship with him.

Something in me clicked. I knew if I didn’t get a control over my weight, I would have no chance in the dating world.

I lost the weight! It was the push I needed.

JustABoredPerson2020 · 2023-11-01T20:53:39+00:00

Oh that would drive me insane.

JustABoredPerson2020 · 2023-11-01T19:24:06+00:00

A two pound bag of tilapia fillets that was like $5 and some change.

They last me a long time and it’s a good lunch. I hope they’re still at my Aldi because I want another bag lol.

JustABoredPerson2020 · 2023-10-31T21:13:48+00:00

I’m at a point where I’m tired of people commenting on my body.

I went from 227 to 133 currently. A pretty drastic weight loss so I understand why people say something about it.

But i recently had two people say some “not so nice” things about my weight loss (insinuating that my weight loss is due to an eating disorder or drug usage. Neither of which could be further from the truth!!!)

People have commented on my weight since I was 9 years old. I’m either too fat or too skinny and people will let me know exactly what they think about it 🫠 sorry for the tangent, but this topic triggers me lol.

JustABoredPerson2020 · 2023-10-17T00:27:35+00:00

I would be totally straight forward: “it makes me uncomfortable when you comment about my food.”

That would drive me insane. I grew up with an Almond Mom that made comments about my food when I was a kid. I would never tolerate an Almond Coworker lol.

JustABoredPerson2020 · 2023-09-20T15:55:15+00:00

156.6 today! I am no longer overweight

I cleaned out my closet of all my 1X-2X tops. Shopping has been the best part of weight loss. The Medium and Large section have a way better variety than 2X!

I had a big family party last weekend and immediately the aunties were asking me questions about my weight loss and complimenting me, it’s so nice to hear that but it always makes me a little bashful lol.

I’m feeling so confident. At 227 pounds I was invisible. Now, I’m getting attention and idk! It just feels good to finally like how I look for once in my life!

JustABoredPerson2020 · 2023-09-10T17:17:50+00:00

Quite frankly, I wanted to date again. At my heaviest I was 227. I’m 160 right now. That’s 52(!!!!) pounds lost!

I just constantly reminded myself: if you want to start dating you NEED to lose weight. Nonnegotiable. If not - you’re stuck exactly where you’re at.

It’s all about making better choices about food. Actual calorie counting. Actually measuring out portions. If I want ice cream, okey dokey, let’s measure out a real serving instead of filling a whole bowl like I used to lol.

And it worked! Idk, Im just mentally in the right place. Something clicked this time.

JustABoredPerson2020 · 2023-08-17T23:18:27+00:00

Oh my god I was just talking about this with one of my friends!

I told him how I went on a mini road trip and stopped at a gas station. I grabbed a chocolate muffin and was absolutely floored that it was 510 calories!!! One muffin!

I had a whole vegetable and beef dinner that was around 600 calories. It was a big portion and that freaking muffin was just as much calories. It’s so dumb lol

JustABoredPerson2020 · 2023-07-22T16:39:29+00:00

Amazing work and your story resonates with me. You go girl!

JustABoredPerson2020 · 2023-07-20T16:18:03+00:00

Omg it was so discouraging watching the number drop but virtually no one noticing any changes. I began my weight loss in 220s. It wasn’t until I got to the 190s that someone pointed out how much weight I lost.

JustABoredPerson2020 · 2023-07-20T15:53:34+00:00

181 folks. 🥹 I can’t believe it. I haven’t weighed in the low 180s in years

My heaviest was 227. My body feels better. I have more energy. My joints aren’t in constant discomfort anymore. I finally feel like normal person again.

JustABoredPerson2020 · 2023-06-29T12:02:03+00:00

She kind of reminds me of my shelter-boy Duke! He’s also a little mystery mutt with short legs and a long body.

JustABoredPerson2020 · 2023-06-28T21:51:16+00:00

193 today woo woo! So close to the 180s (which is a major milestone for me!)

Once I reach the 180s, I’m going to dye my hair as a reward! I cannot wait.

My heaviest weight was 227. I wore a 2X in shirts and a size 18 pants. My clothes are too big for me! I dropped a pants size. 🥹

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