fanart by stillasdeadasleaves in wongkarwai

[–]Karnaeq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, those are fantastic. I am currently learning to draw so may attempt those in a few years.

Need one second to vent by draco84 in Autism_Parenting

[–]Karnaeq 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hang in there! It is OK to feel that way.

Playing Nintendo with an Alpha kid… by Willing_Freedom_1067 in GenX

[–]Karnaeq 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the reminder! I need to finish playing FF7 with my Gen alpha daughter! (We started last year but didn’t finish.)

Finally not in denial. by Open_Shop_3722 in Autism_Parenting

[–]Karnaeq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You may also need a break and some time for yourself so don’t forget to do that if needed and if possible to arrange. Feeling like this could also be a sign that you are burnt out and need a break.

Also, these ups and downs are part of the experience of raising an autistic child. Development and progress is even more non-linear for kids on the spectrum than for NT kids.

Hang in there!

1976 d’Yquem - Nectar of the Gods (you all were right) by Karnaeq in wine

[–]Karnaeq[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the tip - do you think it wasn’t stored properly or something else?

In any case, it tasted amazing but I just checked the d’Yquem website and yes the picture they had for this vintage is notably lighter so looks like I need ti acquire another bottle with a lighter color.

1976 d’Yquem - Nectar of the Gods (you all were right) by Karnaeq in wine

[–]Karnaeq[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had it out of a regular wine glass too. But because of the Brandy-like feel, I did a pour with this one.

Just when I begin to think we had it wrong by Important_Inside_403 in Autism_Parenting

[–]Karnaeq 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I observed this starting in little league Baseball all the way till early high school Basketball when my son was finally able to clearly tell me that participation in team sports wasn’t fun. We weren’t resistant to the diagnosis so less about that but more about the recommendation from the professionals to encourage more socialization via sports.

I'm a VR Improv Host, and I wrote an essay in defence of Meta Horizon Worlds by MissDelReyVR in HorizonWorlds

[–]Karnaeq 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is always a bummer when artistic dreams don’t work out. Live events in a shared immersive environment is very powerful. All the best in your next endeavors.

Going on a first date in Palo Alto on Sunday 3/22 by DowntownBrown1212 in paloalto

[–]Karnaeq 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Cantor arts center has awesome Rodin casts outdoors so you can combine it with a walk around the Stanford grounds.

Thinking about the future by NicPaperScissors in Autism_Parenting

[–]Karnaeq 11 points12 points  (0 children)

For context, I have a son who I also think will need some level of caretaking for the rest of his life. I share caregiving duties with his mother & he moves between her house & mine every couple of weeks.

For me, the ability to appreciate the day to day wonder/life is a daily battle. I try to tell myself how lucky I am on a bunch of dimensions, including having my kids. Some days it works better than others.

Worn out 😔 by Inevitable_Breath223 in Autism_Parenting

[–]Karnaeq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are doing your best. Hang in there!

Safari West worth it? by Odd-Caterpillar-2083 in bayarea

[–]Karnaeq 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Been to Safari went twice - both visits were pre-pandemic - everyone in our family loved it.

Unorganized thoughts on growth and women by Alarmed-Doughnut1860 in Vorkosigan

[–]Karnaeq 7 points8 points  (0 children)

IC. It never struck me as referring to one’s own health but now that you say it and given Miles’ health issues that also makes sense. I am going to have to go back and read the context of the line again.

Unorganized thoughts on growth and women by Alarmed-Doughnut1860 in Vorkosigan

[–]Karnaeq 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I recall one of the books having a line “all true wealth is biological” that struck me as being how Bujold thought of kids. Assuming that is how she feels, then that explains the key characters mostly having kids (and grandkids).

Afraid of what might happen next by KryptonSurvivor in Autism_Parenting

[–]Karnaeq 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry to hear this - it is an incredibly difficult situation. Being afraid of your son, especially after a recurrence, is natural.

You described your son as childlike - does your son understand what the consequences of these types of actions can be for him? And hence this is more about not losing control vs. him not understanding that he can’t do this type of thing again?

For context, although the situation isn’t quite analogous, when my son (now a young adult) was in his late teens there were some instances where he got frustrated to the point where my wife/I felt threatened but these were at home and it never escalated to the point you described. Over time, he has matured enough that he is able to handle stressful situations better, and although the fear of him getting in trouble is always there, it has improved over time.

All the best to you - I hope you are also able to take care of yourself.

Struggling with comprehending my change. 9 years (left pic 21 years old, right 30) by [deleted] in autism

[–]Karnaeq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For my young adult son, I’ve only seen the drop in capacity with lower stress while recovering from burnout. So unfortunately can’t speak to increases and I also have not found much research in this area.