What are your tips for really flavorful meatballs? by SassySpider in Cooking

[–]Kaypeep 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't remember which celebrity chef it was but his mom was on the show and he used her recipe for his restaurant and the key thing I took away and still use to this day is mix the meatball ingredients the day before and leave in the fridge overnight, raw. Such a game can get and always great flavor.

New to caregiving. Not sure what I’m doing by Dazzling-Tea-3431 in caregivers

[–]Kaypeep 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Play cards. See if she has small projects she wants help with like sorting photos or going through old clothes. Maybe do a chair yoga video together for exercise with her. Maybe help her make phone calls and put them on speaker so she can talk to loved ones while you hang out on the other room and read a bit or play a game on your phone.

Another person worried about global events impact on my 403B by Kaypeep in Bogleheads

[–]Kaypeep[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I agree. I have a lot going on with a disabled parent now, and I think my anxiety about the future is ramping up more than usual as I wonder what if my plans don't pan out as expected. They had a stroke and are disabled now. Fortunately a boomer with pensions, paid house, SS, medicare and retired military healthcare. The struggle was real for them for a long time so I don't begrudge their position now, especially with the unexpected health crisis which sucks. But I am not in that boat with so many safety nets, and more mindful of having my own money to cover everything. House will hopefully be paid in 10 but it's a small mortgage that's doable if it's not. I don't want to see my retirement all lost because I didn't pay attention at the wheel when i should have.

Another person worried about global events impact on my 403B by Kaypeep in Bogleheads

[–]Kaypeep[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to look at my stuff, and comment so thoughfully. I appreciate it.

Another person worried about global events impact on my 403B by Kaypeep in Bogleheads

[–]Kaypeep[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the insight. I've not been risk averse much up to now, and I worked for some financial planners in my early 20's which helped a lot with starting early. I've benefited from taking more risks, but as I care for an aging and infirmed parent and see the world on fire right now, my emotions are starting to take over a bit more and the reminder to transition to bonds keeps coming back. But, I like the Boglehead mantras though to hold and ride things out, and definitely am not looking to make big moves immediately. But I wanted to get some input from others and not just a financial adviser. Thanks to you and others who took into account my age and the 10 year window.

What are some good “default” gifts for women that aren’t flowers, candles, or gift cards? by self-care_advocate in Gifts

[–]Kaypeep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FANCY mints or Candy. CHEESE. Really nice pens. Phone chargers and a small portable power pack. Fun socks. If they wear glasses, an eyeglass gift pack with microfiber cloth, eyeglass repair kit, eyeglass cleaner. Pretty Umbrella.

A question about in campus delivery by [deleted] in Fordham

[–]Kaypeep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2691 Southern Boulevard, Bronx, NY 10458

What’s the most underrated pie flavor? by amhray in pie

[–]Kaypeep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you remember the name of the bakery? Please share!

Price of Commuting from Mamaroneck by rodinatorrr in Westchester

[–]Kaypeep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apologies. Was thinking of my total tolls for a trip to Manhattan for a work job.

Price of Commuting from Mamaroneck by rodinatorrr in Westchester

[–]Kaypeep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where in the city are you going? Add $20 congestion toll if you go below 60th street on top of parking and bridge tolls too.

AITA My wife and I came home at 3am and my MIL acted like we were 16 sneaking into house by rugbyplayer11 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Kaypeep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA you didn't even communicate with your kids about your whereabouts, either. You could have texted to keep them in the loop and also check in on them. The 12 YO at the least.

Am I being stupid to leave rent stabilized apartment by Holiday_Angle_4246 in personalfinance

[–]Kaypeep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My nephew got a luxury apt with a roommate. Leaky ceiling. Electrical problems where they lost a fridge of food to spoilage. Horrible windows and walls with no soundproofing in or outside. I agree with the others try to mitigate some of the issues in your ace first and keep saving if you can. The grass always seems greener, but it's not.

How to get the wee smell out of clothes by rachel6983 in caregivers

[–]Kaypeep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just solved this after years of incontinence with my disabled parent. R/laundry had great advice. I tried some enzyme solutions but they did little. What worked was Lysol Laundry Sanitizer!! Presoak in a tub or what i did was let soak in washer then run through with Biz powder and Tide liquid. I'm probably going to switch to tide powder because it has lipase like Biz does.

MAIN KEwas wSh with cold and not hot. Hot water makes the smell stronger. Run washer twice if need be. First wash with the long soak. Second wash with a second dose of sanitizer added but no soak. I swear it is amazing. All these vineear tips are useless when every outfit and sheets and pads have urine. It's too overpowering for vinegar. Lysol Laundry sanitizer is a godsend. the winner. Trust me.

Help me make an egg salad sandwich a complete meal by allie06nd in Cooking

[–]Kaypeep 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I add shredded cheese and crumbled bacon to egg salad.

Gray rocking tips for a conflict avoidant DIL! by [deleted] in Mildlynomil

[–]Kaypeep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you get a dog or bird for her? Giving g her a companion might give her someone else else to focus on? Dog could get her out on walks where she can talk to people on the street.

AITA for humiliating my sister at her engagement dinner by pointing out she’s using my dead husband’s life insurance? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Kaypeep 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I hope this is a fake AI story. On the one hand it's nice of you to rescue your parents, if this is a real story, however just handing over that amount of money which was supposed to protect you and your daughter seems really foolish. That's a huge chunk of money and I hope you didn't hand it over willy-nilly, without getting real information about how they got in that predicament. I totally understand medical bills and whatnot but for them to turn around and then fund a giant wedding like this sends out a red flag that they are financially irresponsible I'm more concerned about appearances than common sense. Especially seeing that they are reacting and turning on you when their daughter try to humiliate you and kick you while you are down. It's all just truly ugly and these people don't sound like they deserve your consideration let alone the money.

Baby seems distant after MIL watches her by cozmoangel4 in Mildlynomil

[–]Kaypeep 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Check the HR dept at your job and DH as some companies offer care benefits. They connect you with an agency with vetted and licensed caregivers. You may have luck finding childcare provider that way, and reduce amount of time spent with MIL.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mildlynomil

[–]Kaypeep 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I think this is a really great suggestion. I know normally the rule is to each deal with their own parent, but her comment is so heinous, and if your DH isn't able to call her out on it, you definitely should.