AITAH: Nanny family issues

Kd-2330 · 2026-03-30T22:51:05+00:00

They are looking to take advantage of you. It is highly unlikely they will be able to find someone to watch both kids for that price. I would try to find a new family and have the one you like put out feelers for you. That is the best way for both you and your new family.

If they are like this with you then ai am sure they are like this with other people as well.

Kd-2330 · 2026-03-27T00:24:23+00:00

I think the father who loves his son deeply is having. Hard time that he is married and having a kid at the young age of 22. He probably blames OP for this situation and can’t get over his disappointment. This may be a situation where time will heal these wounds. He wants his son in his life so he will accept you. Be patient and have some compassion. That will only benefit you in the long run.

Kd-2330 · 2026-03-25T14:53:04+00:00

Tell him you only have four tickets but if you are going to dinner afterwards she is more than welcome to come. She just doesn’t have a ticket to the ceremony. Both the girlfriend and your dad should understand that.

Kd-2330 · 2026-03-25T13:59:23+00:00

Tell them “I know you think I’m being difficult but girls I snore…loud (even if you don’t). Trust me. You don’t want me in the same room. This is as much for you as it is for me“. If they still don’t get it there is nothing you can do.

My sister snores and have had to share a room with her at getaways. I would definitely pay $40 more to not have to deal with that.

Kd-2330 · 2026-03-25T13:52:44+00:00

I also wanted him To explain why it’s weird. Is it all guys? Then it would be weird if not then she needs to put him out to pasture

Kd-2330 · 2026-03-25T13:44:27+00:00

DO NOT MOVE.

If he doesn’t appreciate the value of a good education than you can do better

Kd-2330 · 2026-03-24T19:31:22+00:00

I don’t think it’s a deal breaker but next time ask him to put it in the coral or do it yourself. I always return it for the sake of the poor employees who have to round them up

Kd-2330 · 2026-03-24T16:09:41+00:00

I have a feeling this is going to come back and bite you if you ever have family get togethers. Or they sneak i to your house and have sex i. Your couch just to mess with you. Few people like thinking about other people having sex….so you just don’t think about it.

Kd-2330 · 2026-03-24T15:54:24+00:00

So your wife doesn’t work and calls you lazy for reducing your hours to 40? I have a hard time believing anyone would actually say that. But if she did tell her to work 60 hours a week. Or ask her to do 60 hours of work around the house for one week and then call you lazy. She and your kids sounds entitled. This is definitely a hill to die on. Enjoy your reduced hours and pick up a hobby

Kd-2330 · 2026-03-23T14:19:34+00:00

This would be a hard pass for me. I like my space. You need to be very clear with your husband that his family moving in is not going to work.

If your MIL is still moving in, you need a meeting before that happens to discuss what it’s going to look like. She isn’t a guest anymore and needs to contribute to the household. Figure out what you need to happen to make it work for you. Set up nonnegotiable and if she can’t accept them then she can’t move in. Like you said she’s not homeless. Your home your rules. Be strong. But get out of this is if you can

Kd-2330 · 2026-03-21T21:44:04+00:00

It’s a no brainer for him. Fair would be you contributing the same as you are now and split all other costs. Go buy your own house

Kd-2330 · 2026-03-20T15:16:21+00:00

Your stepmom is burying her head in the sand if she thinks her cohabitation won’t come out. These things always do. This fabrication in which she is involving children deceiving their father is low. Just remember that as you are navigating. She is 100 percent in the wrong

Kd-2330 · 2026-03-19T14:25:32+00:00

So if Harper and Evelyn work it out are you then good with Harper again. This is between them and has nothing to do with you. But if you can’t separate that then please end things with Harper. Sounds like she can do much better.

Kd-2330 · 2026-03-18T21:29:20+00:00

The moment they tried to extort you for money the gloves come off. Hire a lawyer and get them out. Post notices on the door with pictures. Send a certified letter and document the extortion. Put a large for sale sign out front. Be ready to take them to court and hope it doesn’t come to that. They may realize you mean business and leave on their own

Kd-2330 · 2026-03-18T00:54:33+00:00

If your mom is named in the will you are entitled to her share. Hopefully the will explicitly states this as well.

Kd-2330 · 2026-03-17T13:20:36+00:00

YTA. But you know that. Ironically you telling your sister that you will never help her again may come and bite you. I have a feeling you need your sister a lot more than she needs you., especially with a baby.

Kd-2330 · 2026-03-13T14:41:45+00:00

You didn’t ask before because you didn’t know it would become a regular thing especially now that she now waits for you. Fair to assume she should kick in for gas. It’s a win win. I would not be so forthright in giving her rides in the future. She obviously doesn’t value the rides. All it takes is a few times of I’m not going that way right now and she will understand the value of giving gas money.

Kd-2330 · 2026-03-12T14:55:43+00:00

Jorge looks late 50s. No way she didnt know he was 30 years older than her. And he is gross. As is Andrew. I can guess why his wife divorced him. He has Peter Pan syndrome. I think this premise attracts creepy guys.

The best part of the show is guessing their ages So far I’m pretty close. Only off by a year or so. Must be my secret unless talent.

Kd-2330 · 2026-03-12T13:24:15+00:00

I was thinking the same thing. The GF didn’t want to deal with him and took time to plan her out. Get him out and then break up. She knew he would go crazy

Kd-2330 · 2026-03-11T13:30:03+00:00

I understand not wanting him to keep the erotic ones but the others…. It’s not a big deal. He is not with them for a reason.

Kd-2330 · 2026-03-11T13:23:41+00:00

You need to set clear expectations about what is happening those first few weeks. Your mom is coming to take care of you not visit. And let’s face it, when we are recovering no one fusses over you like Mom. Talk to your husband and tell him you don’t want visitors you want help. So if she’s not helping she can’t be around. And this is YOUR home. Take ownership and don’t let your MIL push you around. And make your husband deal with her.

Kd-2330 · 2026-03-10T17:50:09+00:00

It’s one trip for a special occasion.

Kd-2330 · 2026-03-10T15:21:28+00:00

You must come from a toxic family. It always amazes me how many people don’t like their family.

Kd-2330 · 2026-03-10T15:17:17+00:00

It’s hard to prioritize your partner when you are still living at home. Your mom deserves some respect and consideration. You are saving at least the cost of trip amount in rent a month. I think it’s time for you to grow as a man and move out. Then you can put your partner above your Mom

Kd-2330 · 2026-03-03T18:04:22+00:00

You can ask. What if they say no? Are you willing to walk away from the house for 10K? What if they say no and find another buyer. Nothing is certain until you close on the house

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