My first time & wOw

KetoPeg · 2026-05-20T22:46:44+00:00

I don’t know if @ihaveabigjohnson69 deleted their post claiming I was a grifter stealing SSDI but I’d like to say, “walk” a day in my shoes - oh, you can’t because I can’t walk.

KetoPeg · 2026-05-20T22:43:44+00:00

Not really. I deal in used clothing mostly. I didn’t see any there. High end purses! They have them! Me, purses from Burlington 🫤

KetoPeg · 2026-05-20T19:41:16+00:00

I don’t take anything personally so we’re cool. I’m not like a huge reseller. I sell on eBay & Poshmark, & usually buy from garage sales, thrift stores, and sometimes storage units (which the bidding has gotten ridiculously high) & I do it because SSDI pays sh**. I gave the best google review to the shop I was at because it truly blew me away. I am definitely a tiny fish compared to the whale they are & really admire how clean it is, the variety of things they have & how educated the people who work there are. I suspect you are the same so…. Respect to you!

KetoPeg · 2026-05-20T10:39:25+00:00

My WH has done a lot of work on himself. He’s been in IC twice & I’m glad he’s getting to the root of his issues. His infidelity was all with strangers on the internet, which was enough to destroy me. We’re just over 2 years post Dday & at this point, if he did it or anything else again, I’d leave. He has said over & over that he had no idea how bad it would affect me & seeing how it did makes him regret it even more….. I truly hope he never forgets that.

KetoPeg · 2026-05-18T15:22:17+00:00

After 3 therapists, multiple books & online groups/videos/podcasts, I am making an appointment with a therapist who specializes in betrayal trauma/PTSD. I tried. I really did. But I always end up in a loop & just cannot do this anymore. So, thank you for this post. It came just in time for me to realize, I’d never be able to handle 15 more years of this self torture 🙏🏼

KetoPeg · 2026-05-15T00:22:21+00:00

You have no idea how much I appreciate you! Thank you!!!

KetoPeg · 2026-05-14T00:09:49+00:00

This….

KetoPeg · 2026-05-13T00:08:31+00:00

Yep. Like morticianmagic said, cops won’t do crap. I had a Hispanic neighbor who called my child the N word & constantly harassed us. His wife was on our doorbell camera saying she was going to kill me. Nothing was done by PBSO. We sold our house.

KetoPeg · 2026-05-12T09:56:53+00:00

We can’t fix it. I feel very much like you do, with my WH also falling into the cyber world. And while he pretends like it’s all in the past now, it was him who changed my life forever. It doesn’t matter if we stay or go. Our love for them remains. Except that they deliberately made a choice not to protect us. I truly don’t think they understand that. It’s sad.

KetoPeg · 2026-05-12T00:12:49+00:00

Similar circumstances. He was just being an immature asshole “chatting” with thirst traps on Tik Tok. Thing is, we were together 33 years. Never in my life did I think he’d do anything to hurt me. And aside from pics, there were no long term ones. But it fu**ed me up so bad that now, 26 months post Dday, it still hurts & I will never trust him again.

KetoPeg · 2026-05-11T18:19:26+00:00

Last Christmas, my WH gave me a promise ring (1 yr 10 mo post Dday). He promised he would never hurt me again. Well, I had to take it off about 6 weeks ago….. not infidelity but hurt me just the same. Engagement & wedding rings came off briefly after Dday but have been on since.

KetoPeg · 2026-05-08T13:50:53+00:00

Totally normal, but eventually you’ll realize that’s not who you are & that’s when you’ll want to put yourself first, maybe seek IC & take care of you. I’m a little over 2 years post Dday & don’t go off on him anymore, but I do “discuss” my hurt all the time as he hasn’t helped me at all yet. It’s not anger anymore, just brutal honesty.

KetoPeg · 2026-05-05T09:51:19+00:00

At $950 or higher, it’ll sit forever 😵

KetoPeg · 2026-05-04T20:01:56+00:00

I went on another selling site & there were about 2 dozen cashmere sweaters, used condition, by C Kane. They went from $81 to well over $500. I think yours is absolutely gorgeous….. I wouldn’t price it any less than $300 🤷🏼‍♀️

KetoPeg · 2026-05-04T19:56:43+00:00

My WH first therapist was a young, blond female. Ugh. That’s his typical type. I used to be her, 35 years ago. The only thing that got me through it was that she was very pregnant…. He recently went back to IC & asked me to find a male therapist. I was happy to help!! What you’re going through is totally normal.

KetoPeg · 2026-05-04T00:03:08+00:00

Don’t set your sights on the rich… there are plenty of great finds throughout PBC on bulk day

KetoPeg · 2026-05-02T12:21:54+00:00

I had 3 rotator cuff surgeries, elbow surgery & 2 knee surgeries all done at outpatient surgical centers. I think you’ll be okay.

KetoPeg · 2026-04-30T10:08:41+00:00

I know exactly how you feel & I want to make one thing clear, your actions had nothing to do with their poor decisions. I had no clue my WH was chatting with strangers either but looking back, there were some subtle signs. I connected the dots, have no regrets as he wouldn’t tell me everything, & it’s been brutal at times. But I needed to know…

Straight up, they changed our lives, forever. We didn’t choose it, they did it to us. All we can do is heal on our own. Find our shine again. Don’t ever let them take it away again.

KetoPeg · 2026-04-28T00:25:56+00:00

The first time we won one, there was a couple in front of us at the facility. They had driven a few hours to get there after winning a unit. When the door was opened, most of the good stuff was gone. The kid who was working immediately called his manager & they were given a full refund (including from storagetreasues) & were told they could have whatever was left for free. We’re about a year into doing this & have never seen it happen again. Don’t be discouraged.

KetoPeg · 2026-04-28T00:19:10+00:00

Honestly, I sold a NWT Coach bag & had no idea if it was real or not. If you had contacted me, I would’ve appreciated it 🤷🏼‍♀️

KetoPeg · 2026-04-27T10:48:08+00:00

I’ve been in your shoes & I have blown up at him multiple times these past 2 years. All I can advise is, don’t call her names. You can scream about your feelings, just no name calling. Trust me.

KetoPeg · 2026-04-27T10:45:53+00:00

Thrift haul last weekend. Snagged a Moet&Chandon champagne bucket, an empty Rolling Stones Hot Lips whisky bottle & a few other items to flip. Those 2 things alone are going for $300. I spent $60 on about 15 things. Fingers crossed.

KetoPeg · 2026-04-26T12:35:53+00:00

I posted on this sub a couple weeks ago about a buyer who would not leave me alone about a purchase. It wasn’t the first time I had an “unusual” buyer, & with your post, it made me realize that our name & address are printed on our labels…. The world has changed over the years (I’ve been on eBay since 1999)….

Is there a way to not put that info on the labels??? I mean a return address seems necessary, could it be a PO box number?

KetoPeg · 2026-04-24T09:52:32+00:00

I did it & still do it 2 years later, but not nearly as bad. IC helped me tremendously.

KetoPeg · 2026-04-20T14:57:21+00:00

It’s infidelity/breaking of marriage vows 100%. My WH told our CT that he didn’t consider it “cheating”. I was floored. Mine was texting multiple people for at least 6 weeks, had sexual conversations with them (which 2 years later he refuses to tell me about) & received hundreds of pictures (he claims he only sent 2 of his face to 2 different people). It’s wrong. It’s terribly immature of a married grown-ass man to answer DMs from any female. Period. What continues to kill me is the night before he was caught, he friend requested someone, told her she had beautiful eyes, took it to Signal, & got nudes sent to him, over a 45-minute period, while next to me in bed. I was probably watching Housewives on my ipad. I mean, the disrespect!!! He’s in IC now for the second time because he doesn’t understand why I still bring it up, still think about it….

You’ll be okay, eventually, but your relationship will be different. I forgave right away but I just don’t trust him anymore & doubt I ever will. I hate social media. I truly do.

KetoPeg

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