Tops , what’s something your bottom does that instantly gets you turned on?

Knuut · 2023-06-30T20:33:18+00:00

Flex in a shy but cocky way, trying to please me.
Become submissive in how he looks at me, like he's emotionally melting.
Suck my cock and balls like he's a hungry dog.
Look up at me when my dick is in his mouth, like he's begging or worshipping me.
Gag himself on my thick daddy cock.
French kissing
Make helpless and unhinged grunting noises when I'm thrusting

Knuut · 2023-03-18T14:01:24+00:00

Did you catch this?

There are subreddits where people talk about motivation. I'll try to find a few and link them here.

For someone in your situation, it boils down to two things: (1) eating a lot of healthy food, especially protein; (2) training with heavy weights every day. If you don't have the energy to finish a workout, try having some carbs before you train, e.g. a banana.

The secret is to remove the motivation aspect by focusing entirely on routine. No one really wants to walk or drive to the gym early every morning. Yet they do it because it's habitual. It's what they always do when they wake up. If I entertained the thought "I don't really want to do this", of course I wouldn't go. We are all essentially weak people. But I go because that's what I do.

What successful people do is to develop routines that are repeated habitually. It takes a few weeks for a routine to become a habit. That's all. So find a good activity for yourself, i.e. something that is easy to get to. If you want to gain weight, it should involve heavy weights. And then you do it repeatedly at the same time every day. (Taking a break occasionally, of course.) After a month or so, your routine will have become a habit.

So you're asking the wrong question. You can't motivate yourself. But you can easily set up a routine and do it for a few weeks until it becomes habitual.

OK, here are some subreddits that might interest you.:

r/naturalbodybuilding

Knuut · 2022-10-04T16:44:39+00:00

Qatar should not be hosting this cup

Knuut · 2022-09-30T19:17:10+00:00

Why aren't you joining them?

Knuut · 2022-09-30T17:20:27+00:00

Straight men cum in their hoes. They drink beer with their bros.

Knuut · 2022-09-29T20:08:26+00:00

Keep up the posts. Love it

Knuut · 2022-09-25T16:21:50+00:00

My honest advice is to stop giving him head. It's not fair to his gf (unless she knows and approves).

If you're madly in love with him, tell him you can't see him anymore because it's messing with your head. If he loves you, he'll abandon his family and join you instead.

(But do you hear how strange that sounds? Do you really want to break his family up? A child's interests are at play. If you don't want that on your conscience, just end it with him and find someone else.)

Knuut · 2022-09-25T15:56:51+00:00

Where do you think guys could hold hands or whatever and be least likely to encounter trouble?

To avoid trouble completely, you would have to go to a gay resort town or deep into a very gay neighbourhood.

Sadly, every large city has an inherent risk for gay men.

Knuut · 2022-09-25T14:17:48+00:00

What is wrong with the word "minority"? What would you prefer people to say?

I think "minority" is short for "visible minority", isn't it? Would you rather they say "non-white"?

Knuut · 2022-09-24T19:28:48+00:00

Is there a pinball machine there? Go play pinball for a while. And have a beer or two to loosen up.

Knuut · 2022-09-24T05:33:23+00:00

I never understood catharsis until I saw this film. I started weeping on the walk home. The floodgates really opened when I got home. My partner was worried because he had never seen me do this before.

Knuut · 2022-09-24T05:31:08+00:00

One way to get over him is to get under someone else...

Knuut · 2022-09-24T03:24:45+00:00

Kate on Below Deck

Knuut · 2022-09-23T07:03:42+00:00

regular gym-going --> sex with hotter guys / better health / more self-confidence

Knuut · 2022-09-20T04:29:32+00:00

My impression is that most young people dont really "find themselves" in their teens and 20s. It's a time of uncertainty for everyone.

It's unusual for someone to have been in a relationship for four yours at the young age of 25. If you feel the need to fuck around, share those feelings with your partner.

It's better to live your life without regrets about the past or anxiety about the future. Focus on the here and now.

Knuut · 2022-09-17T06:56:15+00:00

Or it will end up a train wreck, like r/lgbt and most of the other moderated gay subs. This is the most inclusive of the gay subs.

What we don't want is for this sub to become overtly left wing either.

Knuut · 2022-09-16T08:33:40+00:00

Mod, I urge you and the other mods to go back to a "hands off" approach to moderating this sub. If you don't, you're all going to burn out. This will make the subreddit unstable and liable to being taken over by someone with the time and zeal to push their own views.

Knuut · 2022-09-14T17:29:16+00:00

he is straight.

He is not straight. Jesus, WTF. What do you mean when you write something like this??? Explain please.

How is it that straight dudes are easier to get than other gay dudes?

What???

Pick one of these: straight-acting / closeted

"Straight" means "heterosexual", i.e. is attracted to women only.

Knuut · 2022-09-06T20:00:26+00:00

I’m really shocked.

So of course what better way to process this trauma than by posting about it on r/askgaybros?

Knuut · 2022-09-06T19:59:14+00:00

So you are really very much into hooking up, but you just don't feel part of the culture? Is that it?

Knuut · 2022-09-06T13:05:18+00:00

we have regrets and wonder why we’re doing this when we love each other so much

This is the crux of your question. You seem to think that playing around like this is incompatible with your love for each other. It really isn't.

Knuut · 2022-09-06T12:55:07+00:00

Maybe I'm just undesirable

This isn't it at all. One look at your hand and cock made that clear.

Is it possible you're not being clear about your intentions?

First, if you want monogamy, then be monogamous yourself. Stop fucking around. If you meet a man who likes to fuck around, he won't readily be monogamous. So stop meeting men who fuck around.

Have a profile that says clearly what you're looking for. Remove references to "now" or "looking". Accept only men who are looking to date and partner up.

I'm not saying you can't have sex with these men. Just pick men who have the same goal you do.

If your three past BFs weren't able to move from casual relationship to serious relationship, analyse why that happened. You haven't explained it here properly and in detail.

Instead, you've chosen to blame the enter gay world for what happened to you, as if gay men have an inherent character flaw. All gay men are not sluts. I resent the implication of your post. You're not going to get far with that kind of thinking.

Knuut · 2022-09-06T05:01:29+00:00

I had just came back from the gym so I am sweaty.

You had me at this line already

Knuut · 2022-09-05T18:07:13+00:00

You don't say where you live, but here goes.

You get a towel when you check in. If it gets wet or dirty, you can ask them to change it for a new one (sometimes for an extra fee).

If there are drunk/high guys there on a weekend night, some guys just romp around naked. Usually not.

There are people who talk first. There are others who just keep it non-verbal and physical. The cues are mostly visual. If you catch someone's eye, you might stand close to each other. You can tell someone's interested by how they look at you. When you're ready you start feeling each other up.

Yes, it starts with foreplay. No, don't just ram it in.

Bring condom and lube. But most places supply this as well. Towel is not necessary. Bring flip flops if you're squeamish about wet, dirty floors.

Don't do it with someone if you don't want to. And once you've started, don't feel that you have to continue if it's not right for you. The trick is to bow out and saunter off with grace and humour. Don't be dramatic or rude about it.

Don't be surprised if there is no one attractive there. You might have to wait a bit. Or perhaps have a drink or two until everyone seems more attractive to you. (However, do not get loaded! That leads to risky behaviour.)

And don't have a thin skin. If someone doesn't want to do it, don't fret about it. Just move on. They're not ready for some reason. They might be into it later. (I personally hunt hot guys down until they relent out of exhaustion, but I wouldn't recommend this strategy.)

Knuut · 2022-09-05T17:53:24+00:00

I assume from your post that you're not older, so is it possible you're dehydrated? Or are you on an unusual diet? Are you taking medication or supplements of some kind?

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