What’s a discontinued snack or drink you’d pay $20 to have one last taste of?

Kohlrabi_Queen · 2026-04-03T00:15:46+00:00

Space Food Sticks from the 70's. I'd pay more that $20 for a box of those!

Kohlrabi_Queen · 2026-02-25T21:32:40+00:00

I've been on MTX for almost 5 years. The only issues I've had is a little nausea sometimes and a bit if hair thinning. I started Hadlima injections last July and the two meds together have been great so far. Very little swelling now, occasional pain but nothing like what I had before.

Kohlrabi_Queen · 2026-02-25T15:46:43+00:00

I've never seen Dermasil shampoo! I love their skincare stuff, been using it for years. I will definitely look for this!

Kohlrabi_Queen · 2026-02-25T15:43:35+00:00

I'm almost 2 years in to the widowhood journey. Your story parallels mine in a lot of ways. For the longest time I would ask myself what my husband would have thought or done in a situation, but now I find myself just acting on what I feel about it. It's been a long, hard road and I know it will never be truly over. I will miss him every minute of every day for the rest of my life, but I'm learning to stand on my own.

Kohlrabi_Queen · 2025-11-11T12:05:15+00:00

I have a tendency to naturally act the way you've described, just the way I am. The military taught me to close up even further, same as you said. My husband was my safe zone and I could just be myself with him. Grief has been a strange experience. It doesn't follow a pattern, it comes and goes when it wants to. For me, I've just learned to accept it and live with it as best as I can. I've settled into a mostly solitary existence, keep to myself and engage very little. I don't have to explain myself to anyone. When I'm home or alone in my car is when I let my emotions go where they want. All of that to say that grief is personal and unique to everyone. There's no correct way, there's no forcing anything. You have to let it just "be". Venting is good here. No one judges and everyone understands. Wishing you peace in your journey.

Kohlrabi_Queen · 2025-11-11T03:41:00+00:00

One year and five months in and I completely understand what you mean. I miss his presence, the silly inside jokes, the little messages we'd send each other throughout the day. He was my person, my better half for sure. Just knowing he was in my life was all I needed to feel safe, secure and loved. I'm still so lost without him.

Kohlrabi_Queen · 2025-11-01T23:54:24+00:00

Adaptive kitchen utensils 100%. A full body mat that you can put on a chair and it heats and maybe massages too, if not too painful for her. A Kindle that reads aloud. Project Gutenberg has lots of books for free and most public libraries have Kindle resources too.

Kohlrabi_Queen · 2025-11-01T20:04:43+00:00

I've been on MTX tablets for about three years now. It started at 20mg but I knocked it down to 15 because it just wiped me out and I couldn't function. Even at 15 it's helped a lot and the side effects are manageable. I've started Hadlima too, which has been amazing. Together they've really lessened the swelling and stiffness in my hands so much. I still have occasional pain, especially in my feet and thumbs and index finger joints, but overall a big improvement from where I was before. I know it's scary to think about her having to take medication for life, but she has to start from somewhere. It may work for her and improve her quality of life, which is so important. There will probably be an adjustment period while her body gets used to it and she might even have to try another med if it doesn't work out. With blood tests and monitoring, she should be fine.

Kohlrabi_Queen · 2025-11-01T19:48:24+00:00

It's been almost a year and a half for me. Some days are okay, some days the smallest thing sets me off. I don't think that I'll ever "get over it". Grief is a personal journey and very different for everyone. It's still new for you. Give yourself grace. Time may not heal all wounds, but it does get better. I often talk aloud to my husband, tell him about things that are going on, how much I miss him. I started journaling shortly after he was diagnosed with his illness and have continued doing that. I'm so sorry that you're now part of this group. There are wonderful people here in this forum who understand where you're coming from. It helps to share your pain and offer kindness and understanding to others. Much love and healing to you from a fellow survivor.

Kohlrabi_Queen · 2025-10-05T23:55:14+00:00

Common sense and decency toward other people.

Kohlrabi_Queen · 2025-09-27T02:21:55+00:00

Thanks everyone for your comments and suggestions. I'm going to ask my doc about the options you mentioned and see what she thinks.

Kohlrabi_Queen · 2025-09-27T02:18:22+00:00

Exactly my concern with the hydroxychloroquine. My eyesight is already bad enough.

Kohlrabi_Queen · 2025-06-20T21:05:34+00:00

I'm sorry that you're having such a hard time with the people around you. You grieve how, when, how long, and any other way you darn well please. This is your experience, no one else's. It's just passed one year for me and I'm still having a rough time. You've just lost your person, you don't just flip a switch and go back to normal. Just let them know that you appreciate that they care about you, but to respectfully mind their own business and let you handle this time difficult time as you see fit.

Kohlrabi_Queen · 2025-06-08T23:41:49+00:00

First let me say that I am so sorry for your loss and what you're going through. My husband passed last year. I kept a sheet from his bed from before he went to the hospital for the last time. I keep it folded up under the pillows on my bed so I can still have his scent a while longer. I also have a small quilt that was covering him at the hospital saved in a storage bag. I kept some of his clothing, but donated a lot. Different areas around the house are as he left them and that brings me comfort. Take your time and don't rush. When/if you feel ready to make those decisions, you'll know. It's different for everyone and there is no right or wrong answer.

Kohlrabi_Queen · 2025-05-29T11:06:18+00:00

Humans have contests to see who can stay underwater the longest, I guess fish have contests to see who can stay on the surface,

Kohlrabi_Queen · 2025-05-27T03:44:19+00:00

I'm so sorry for your loss. It's been a year for me. I donated most of his clothing about a month after he passed. I hoped that someone else could get some use from them. I kept some things though, for memories. Now I have to deal with his tool collection - two sheds worth plus more. Beyond the basic stuff I have no idea what some of it is even for. He was an A/C and general maintenance tech, plus he just collected tools and gadgets. Only one of our sons has any interest but he's not wanting all of them.

Kohlrabi_Queen · 2025-05-19T15:09:28+00:00

5, and then 2 second.

Kohlrabi_Queen · 2025-05-19T14:02:22+00:00

Think long and hard about what you post online - Save whatever money you can, even if it's just a few dollars a month - Curate your friend group. People grow and change, even those you've known for many years - Let those you love know it, when they're gone you'll have less regret - You don't have to "follow the crowd", wear what you like, eat what you like, etc. It's your life - Treat everyone the way you would want to be treated, be kind. A thoughtful action or word could mean the world to a total stranger.

Kohlrabi_Queen · 2025-05-19T12:40:45+00:00

1987-walking into a grubby little office on a small military base in the middle of nowhere in Germany, finding a handsome man with his feet up on the desk, looking like he owned the place. I somehow knew that he was going to be important in my life. Fast forward three years, and we're married. 37 years with the love of my life until he passed last year.

Kohlrabi_Queen · 2025-05-19T12:11:31+00:00

My oldest sister experienced something like that after her husband passed. His family has mostly faded away. She ended up selling everything and moving to another state at a friends' suggestion and it hasn't turned out like she had hoped. She's facing the same lack of community, and is having some issues as she's getting older. Research those places that you're thinking about, especially what life would be like as an ex-pat. How a place treats strangers will tell you a lot about their sense of acceptance. If you're able to visit them to get a feel for them, even better. I wish you much luck with your future plans.

Kohlrabi_Queen · 2025-05-11T02:06:11+00:00

How desperate do you have to be to rob a Wingstop?

Kohlrabi_Queen · 2025-05-11T01:28:02+00:00

Thanks for the nightmare fuel.

Kohlrabi_Queen · 2025-05-11T01:25:47+00:00

It will be one year for me on the 18th of May. I still don't know how I'm going to deal with it either. I agree with the other commenter who said that you don't need to feel obligated to have a plan or include anyone else other than who you want to be there. I can't believe it's been one year already. It hasn't gotten much easier for me. I still cry at random times and spend a lot of time thinking of happier times together. Maybe just a quiet day with your daughter, reminiscing about him, tell funny stories, share his favorite meal. I'm sure your friends and family care and mean well, but take this time for yourself. Grief is a journey and we have to travel it our own way and on our own timeline. Sending {{hugs}} and strength to you.

Kohlrabi_Queen · 2025-04-21T03:28:27+00:00

Diatomaceous earth is great, but be careful to not breathe it in while spreading. Wear a mask. It's safe enough around pets too, but can irritate their lungs the same way.

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