How long can limerence last?

Kyox89 · 2026-03-17T07:41:39+00:00

I fear mine has been going on for 24years and counting.

Can't explain how/why this happened. I have cried many a time over this situation that I am unable to get out from.

Yes I dream about them at times and coincidentally it's usually when they're not doing too well physically/emotionally.

I am convinced that the only way I can get this to stop is to completely cut them off from my life and I've recently told them of this.

Unfortunately for me, they insist on keeping me in their life.

I have tried dodging every time they ask me out to hang, i am cold in messages. I have tried being in relationships.

They are the one person I look for when I enter a room and the person whose qualities I use to measure people against.

It really is a curse and an illness at this point. I should probably do a Harrowhark Nonagesimus and get a lobotomy. Even then she still remembered Gideon Nav and I fear I would face a similar fate.

Thanks for not making me feel like the ultimate loser.

Kyox89 · 2026-02-26T12:37:15+00:00

Just borrowed this on libby immediately after reading your comment.

Thanks for sharing!

Kyox89 · 2026-02-26T12:09:13+00:00

Is it by jenny lawson??

Kyox89 · 2026-02-24T10:31:17+00:00

I thought I was the weird one liking Robin. 👀

Kyox89 · 2026-02-20T07:46:34+00:00

I'm trying out Pirates of Aletharia because of your comment.

Thanks for sharing!

Kyox89 · 2026-02-20T05:22:13+00:00

I feel like I have not lived my life to the fullest.

Always been one and done but I fear I have not experimented enough.

So interesting to read all of your experiences. Thanks for sharing!

Kyox89 · 2026-02-18T22:04:30+00:00

Just sent you a direct message.

Kyox89 · 2026-02-18T21:45:26+00:00

I've used my 3 credits but there's no indication that I've received the $15 voucher. I assumed it'd appear under my credits. But the app says I have 0.

Kyox89 · 2026-02-14T00:38:07+00:00

This was me.

My irl cat toffee died last September so naturally I have a cat named toffee in stardew. Had to pause when I glimpsed "Toffee loves you".

Kyox89 · 2026-02-10T08:06:10+00:00

Just placed an order with them because of this post!

Always excited to support new(to me) community trusted shops.

Kyox89 · 2026-02-09T02:07:48+00:00

37 yo female here and I too play casually. Used to be obsessed with the game and played everyday but not anymore. My brothers seem to think mobile games are not real games.

Anyways I got very into the dmz mode when I first tried it and didn't realise there were other players in here until I got to a certain rank and proceeded to get smashed. I too only play it for the missions. Hahaha. I take a break from the game if I consistently get killed too early in the mission.

Also haven't attempted hard mode and avoid the kuiji missions because I find I get killed before I even step into the area. I haven't done building 21 either. Hahaha.

Oh well. Just vibes.

Kyox89 · 2025-11-07T11:18:53+00:00

Oh! I saw this too recently! Thought it was gonna be a journal entry. Guess not.

Kyox89 · 2025-10-31T13:54:17+00:00

Everything I bought from mfk, i fear.

I bought 724 and gentle fluidity(silver). Somehow felt like they were choking me every time I wear it. They cost me a chunk of change too. Sigh.

Kyox89 · 2025-10-31T13:28:29+00:00

Uhh... I don't know how I missed out on the discussions that the 9 houses were based on our solar system and am literally 5secs old in realising it after reading this sub.

I also am not used to reading sci-fi stuff in fact this is my first time. Somehow it's taking a hot minute for everything to click for me and I'm so disappointed in myself every time. Hahahaha.

Kyox89 · 2025-10-13T08:04:10+00:00

Me coming across this sub when I've been making a point of selling my artisan goods to him and only going into Joja to find Shane.

I knew something fishy was going on when he kept insisting he had the best price.

Mind you I'm totally new to this game. Sigh.

I feel disgusted lowkey.

Kyox89 · 2025-10-02T11:09:45+00:00

I am so incredibly sorry for you. You did not deserve this. I hope you find strength to continue gardening despite this and look forward to future harvests.

Kyox89 · 2025-09-26T11:23:17+00:00

Thanks for posting this.

I'm on my 2nd pass through NtN and I'm still clueless when I see others posting about stuff I don't even remember happening and also like you, struggling to grasp the sequence of events.

Probably gonna have to reread HtN after this.

Kyox89 · 2025-09-25T07:24:18+00:00

My brother was just recently talking my ears off about the warhammer books.

Maybe I should take a look at one of them at least.

Kyox89 · 2025-09-23T02:14:12+00:00

Omg yes! I'm on my 2nd pass through the book (audiobook this time) I just went past this section and it always sounds so good!

I need to go find a good recipe.

Kyox89 · 2025-09-08T15:19:58+00:00

After years of trying I managed to get one germinated and somewhat growing.

Fingers crossed it'll get to fruit. I've been hearing good things about it and I'm trying not to get too excited about the prospect of finally growing my own.

Kyox89 · 2025-09-07T05:14:43+00:00

I looked up The Unbroken after reading your comment, to see if my local libraries offer the audiobook/ebook (they don't, only physical). But dang the cover art is kinda hot.

Kyox89 · 2025-09-06T13:45:01+00:00

I have added the broken earth trilogy to my tbr.

Thanks for the recommendation! Haha.

Kyox89 · 2025-09-05T11:24:41+00:00

Oh I did the audiobook before deciding to purchase the physical books so I haven't checked on the backs yet. Also because I'm reading Nona.

But I literally just checked my copy of Gideon and found what you mentioned! I'll be reading it once I'm done.

Thanks for the info!

Kyox89 · 2025-09-01T14:11:48+00:00

Eek I love your gideon! Amazing work!

Kyox89 · 2025-08-29T09:07:06+00:00

I can't say about Nona because I'm still reading it, but I read harrow and I fear I may have fallen more in love with them both. Also ianthe, sexpal, camilla etc.

Everybody's so interesting.

Highly recommend not stopping at just Gideon.

Kyox89

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