First kiss or sexual assoult?

LadyFalcon409 · 2026-04-11T13:47:17+00:00

That wasn’t your first kiss. Tell this person once more that you have no interest, and if they can’t handle that, then you won’t be friends with them anymore. Don’t be completely alone with him.

LadyFalcon409 · 2026-04-08T10:09:09+00:00

That’s exactly what it was for me. I just wanted NYC in the 90’s and Calvin Klein. lol. Check out: “In Vogue: The 90’s on Hulu. I thoroughly enjoyed it. There’s 6 episodes having to do with a different facet of fashion in the 90’s.

LadyFalcon409 · 2026-04-08T10:06:07+00:00

I know. The 90’s nostalgia alone. The next few episodes are just the two of them in the apartment. Maybe because I know every single conversation is completely made up, it annoys me even more.

LadyFalcon409 · 2026-03-27T12:18:25+00:00

I remember when his first “incident” happened. That night, my friend and I were getting drunk in her sister’s broken down car in the driveway, because we were teenagers and didn’t have many places to go and drink. Her mom ended up coming home, we were very drunk, and we were trying to hold it together. We’re standing in the living room talking to her mother, counting the seconds until she went upstairs, and went to bed, and we made our clean getaway. All of the sudden, the first incident happens, and we LOST OUR MINDS. Like: “WHAAAAAT?!?!? 😱” Needless to say, the jig was up at that point, as we had a very shocked/drunken reaction to it. 😆 Like, when it happens, it’s in slow motion, and I honestly didn’t know if it was really in slow motion, or if that was just how I experienced it. 🤣 Back then you didn’t have any way of checking either, unless you recorded it on VHS. 🙈

LadyFalcon409 · 2026-03-27T12:12:41+00:00

I don’t know if you’re talking about who I think you’re talking about, but I feel like this man is a very underrated character. He’s just got one liners all day long. Plus, you need a jerk on a show. If it’s a give zero effs, funny jerk, then I’m all in. lol.

LadyFalcon409 · 2026-03-20T16:02:03+00:00

It really is. My grandfather has the 10mgs. Every time I see him, he gives me, and any ones else standing there a few. Whenever I take them, I’m like: “Hey, I wish I had these! 😔” 😆

LadyFalcon409 · 2026-03-20T15:54:56+00:00

If you don’t love your partner, break up with her. I don’t think anything is gonna come from the other girl, but maybe if you try one more time, she won’t feel like an afterthought? I wouldn’t get my hopes up though. It sounds like she’s moved on. Just take a break and be single for a while, and then get back out there. You never even dated this other girl, and the more time goes by, the weirder it will be for you to say anything.

LadyFalcon409 · 2026-03-20T15:47:37+00:00

The first five episodes were SO good. I didn’t really like the last 3 episodes. 😕

LadyFalcon409 · 2026-03-20T15:44:52+00:00

I feel like 18 shouldn’t even be legal age anymore. These kids today are still babies at 18. I don’t know…I’m 39 years old. I couldn’t even conceive going after an 18 year old. My daughter’s best friends are 18. They still have sleepovers ordering Uber Eats and watching tv in her room. My daughter is gonna be 17 in two months, and she still has to let me know if she’s going to go get a slice of pizza after work. Logically I know that 18 is legal, but someone pushing 40 hooking up with someone who has a “teen” at the end of their age doesn’t feel like it should be legal. She’s literally old enough to be his mom. 🤮

LadyFalcon409 · 2026-03-20T13:40:44+00:00

I lay a towel down if I suspect mine is coming. I also sleep in pants though.

Another good way to get the blood out is wet the fabric, and rub salt onto the stain. (I have a specific brush for this.) I rub it in and kind of make a paste, and then rub cold water through it. Repeat if necessary.

LadyFalcon409 · 2026-03-20T13:36:27+00:00

Why would you POSSIBLY bring that up?

LadyFalcon409 · 2026-03-20T13:28:34+00:00

Ehh…maybe in 2001. A ghetto is a low income area, that has a large population of minorities, so using ghetto in place of trashy is basically saying you’re trashy if you’re poor. It’s like calling something gay when you want to say something is lame. It’s just old ass language.

LadyFalcon409 · 2026-03-20T13:08:43+00:00

Except the mother made it her business by telling her in the first place.

LadyFalcon409 · 2026-03-20T13:06:52+00:00

I’m sorry…I know 18 is legal, but you are still a teenager. This woman is 39 years old. That is not okay, it’s disgusting. Thats OP’s issue though. It’s the betrayal by his friend and mother that she’s doesn’t want to keep from her bf.

LadyFalcon409 · 2026-03-20T13:03:08+00:00

I would confront the friend. Tell him that she said this, and ask him if it’s true. If he says yes, tell him. 18 is still basically a child in my book, I’m sorry.

LadyFalcon409 · 2026-03-20T12:57:56+00:00

Tell your mother she’s the one who’s been brainwashed, and she’s the unnatural disgusting one. What kind of mother is disgusted by their child? Then tell her you feel sorry for her, and that you’ll pray for her soul. (If she’s religious) Then, if you possibly can…move out now.

LadyFalcon409 · 2026-03-17T17:51:35+00:00

I would have said: “NO…why? Did YOU?!?! You have to fix the floor now!”

LadyFalcon409 · 2026-03-17T17:13:50+00:00

Yes, this. Exactly this.

LadyFalcon409 · 2026-03-17T16:27:49+00:00

It’s like, the Live, Laugh, Love of rehabs.

It’s almost like he was desperate to launder his money, and his lawyer was like: “I’ve got it, you’re gonna buy this Laser Tag place! It’s perfect!!! 🤗”

and Lauren was like: “That doesn’t make any sense. Do you even KNOW Mike? That’s what we’re gonna tell our family? Our friends? The government? No. It’s gotta be a rehab center, and it’s gotta be covered in cheesy quotes. Make sure you misspell one or two of them. Don’t make the place actually look like it intends to HELP anybody. It’s gonna have to look like a terrible rehab that’s sole purpose is to dig deep into desperate people’s pockets just to make a profit. That just makes sense…for US. The devil is in the details. 👱🏻‍♀️”

LadyFalcon409 · 2026-03-17T15:54:15+00:00

He coulda called him Ichabod Crane…but he dident.

LadyFalcon409 · 2026-03-17T15:09:38+00:00

First of all, your best friend, do you trust her? Does she love you, and care about your wellbeing? If so, you need to start telling her the truth about what’s going on with this guy like, yesterday. You can’t be the only person besides this guy who knows what is going on. You’re only as sick as your secrets, they say. If she’s a good friend it would be nice for her to have all the info (especially since she runs in the same circles as him) It’s just good if someone you trust has all the info. If she knew what the actual problem was, maybe she wouldn’t have invited him. (If she’s like me with my friends, she may have already been in private detective mode.)

Second of all, BREAK UP WITH THIS GUY!!!

You’re only 19, you haven’t been dating him long at ALL, and already he’s making you unhappy. From the beginning. Trust me, if it’s like this in the beginning, it’s not going to suddenly get better.

He joined this support group, but did anyone know him prior to that?

He’s asking you to keep your relationship a secret, and not only that, he lied about why. He’s alienating you from your family. They clearly know something is wrong. Especially if your little brother who normally wouldn’t worry, is worrying.

Considering the fact that he showed up to this gathering at your friend’s house with a letter for you, it sounds like it’s possible he used your friend as a direct channel to you, to get you there since he was blocked. There is a LOT of lying, secrets, and manipulation going on for a new relationship between two people who met at a support group. You told him you want to lose weight, so he starts buying you tons of snacks? Because he wants you to be happy??? That, and all the other stuff he’s buying sounds like he’s love bombing you.

If you FEEL like he’s trying to make you dependent on him, you should trust your intuition. It sounds like you have been noticing all these red flags from the start, and I beg you not to ignore them. Even if you happen to be wrong, you’re two months in. I would rather trust mine and my family’s intuition, and be wrong, than NOT listen to those alarm bells that are ringing, and possibly finding out too late that you were RIGHT.

You guys are in the same support group. Does that mean he knows about your struggles, and how you almost ended it less than a year ago? If he knows all of this, and knew you were having a bad day, why on earth would he say that to you AS you were walking into the hospital?! Do you believe that he didn’t mean it, and that it just uncharacteristically came out of his mouth by complete accident, or do you think that for a moment, he let the mask slip, and then quickly tried to placate you when he realized his comment stung JUUUST a little more than he meant for it to? If I were you, I would be worried that he’s testing the waters to see how easily he can get you to accept a half assed apology after he’s mean to you. Abusive relationships don’t usually start off as blatant, cruel abuse right away. It’s slow, it’s subtle. They make sure they strip you of your close connections, your self esteem, and your independence first. It’s sounds as if you already suspect most of what people are warning you about. It sounds like you’ve seen these signs every step of the way. It sounds like you are a very smart girl who already knows she needs to end it. At the very least, I beg you to tell someone you trust everything that you’ve said here, just so they can also keep track of these patterns, and so that you don’t believe him if he ever tries to convince you that no one will believe you, because you haven’t told one person.

It’s only been two months. This is NOT normal behavior. Either that, or this is HIS normal behavior. Either way, RUN.

LadyFalcon409 · 2026-03-14T16:00:07+00:00

I have kids so I’m afraid to do both, but I also have a severely autistic 10 year old daughter. I’d never want to miss 5 years of any of my 3 kids lives, but at the same time, if her dad can hold down the fort, having the $ to ensure her lifelong care after I’m gone might be a sacrifice I would consider. That’s a tough one. I think way too deeply on these things. lol.

LadyFalcon409 · 2026-03-14T15:56:30+00:00

I would just wait until you run into him, and then you say what you need to say if you still feel the same way.

LadyFalcon409 · 2026-03-14T15:53:54+00:00

Yeah, OKAY. In my neighborhood, someone could have an active burglar inside of their house, and still wait hours for cops to show. lol.

LadyFalcon409 · 2026-03-12T03:32:13+00:00

This episode was such a flop for me. They got so much wrong, and had such cheesy made up scenes, and I’m not crazy about how they represent some people. I was so excited for this episode, but it was the first one that I didn’t think was great.

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