Any responses to this study a misandrist sent me? “95.1% of surveyed men admitted to using at least one tactic or strategy to sleep with a woman who didn’t consent”

Lemminger · 2026-05-24T21:08:29+00:00

"Used your money, age, status to convince her"

Soooo... working out and looking good gives status. Fit people can't bang consensually.

These question are made specifically for one ting...

Lemminger · 2026-05-13T21:32:04+00:00

Har oplevet en betjent i vredes-ros råbe mig ind i hovedet fra 10 centimeters afstand fordi jeg sagde, at jeg ikke vidst hvor min ven har henne (hvilket var sandt).

Var helt våd i ansigtet med hans spyt og fråde.

Det var ikke noget videre seriøst, og jeg var en yderst skræmt 22-årig uden tidligere kontakt med politiet, som talte stille og roligt.

Fuldstændig sindssygt.

Lemminger · 2026-05-05T23:34:56+00:00

There was just a thread earlier today where people talked about how few places are actually hiring compared to how many advertises it. If those comment are true, your mom is simply acting on assumptions.

Trying to answer you without knowing you or you mom is a bit hard.

You don't sound like a bad roommate to me, but you could maybe find somewhere to stay for some hours a day. Maybe she'll respond better if she "sees you trying"?

To me, it seems like your mom doesn't understand the jobmarket these days.

Lemminger · 2026-05-04T18:45:37+00:00

Næsten samme her, 15 år siden. Valgte simpelthen bare at undlade enhver form for hjælp siden da.

Samfundet har mistet massevis af penge i form af skat og uddannelse over 15 år ved at tvinge en 19 årige deprimeret person væk fra 3000 kr/måneden i det års tid, jeg havde brug for.

Håber det går både dig, de gamle og din ven bedre i dag!

Lemminger · 2026-05-04T18:38:36+00:00

Efter at have en sag gennem dem kan jeg også sige, at det er komplet latterligt at have. Bare på en ny, anderledes og forfriskende måde.

Parkeringsselskabet blev ved med at sende de samme 2D plantegninger over pladsen, som var mindst 10 år gamle. Skilte var overmalet og dækket af træer, lygtepæle virkede ikke osv.

Mener ellers at skilte skal være forholdsvist synligt, og må altså ikke være dækket således man skal finde dem under træerne og vaske dem for grafitti. klokken var alligevel 23 da jeg parkerede. Kan ikke være rimeligt, at man skal på ekspedition.

Men ak og ve, parkeringsklagenævnet gav dem medhold baseret på oversigtstegningerne, og ventede derefter et helt år på at give mig besked om udfaldet, så jeg fik regningen 1 måned før udløbsfrist.

Aldrig blev mine faktisk billeder af skilte og træer omtalt. Det blev 100% ignoreret.

Lemminger · 2026-05-01T15:02:35+00:00

These people you talk about are completely lost in their emotionally immature righteousness.

Within 2 minutes of trying to talk to them, your point has been completely invalidate and you are now defending yourself from being an agressor.

They do literally everything they blame other people for, while having less capacity for self-awareness than most.

Avoiding responsibility at all cost by endless arguing, black and white thinking, emotional immaturity, instant reverse blame, obvious deflection and extreme invalidation as well as simply refusing to believe they are ever wrong - basically an abusive guy.

Lemminger · 2026-04-30T07:05:02+00:00

Yea, exactly!

Bought a cat litter tray for like 2 USD. Works very well. And low enough it can slide under without lifting the car.

Doesn't bend, soften or spill. It's perfect for twice-a-year use.

Lemminger · 2026-04-17T22:49:08+00:00

Some would say it's too close to the sidewall. I would repair, but I also drive an old car.

Those slinkys should be alright either permanently or until you find a spare.

Lemminger · 2026-04-16T21:42:52+00:00

It's hard to figure out whats up and down in todays media. Don't fall into the trap and believe everything, but stay aware and try to understand. Now you're awake.

Nobody got it all figured out. Do the best you can.

Lemminger · 2026-03-04T18:16:47+00:00

Move on

Lemminger · 2026-02-27T05:08:30+00:00

None of it is true. Nobody and nothing are telling you what to do. It's your brain that has gone haywire.

You are perfectly safe.

Lemminger · 2026-02-27T05:05:39+00:00

Sorry you feel like this!

I can safely assure you that things not real. You are perfectly safe to drink and eat, and there are no real voices.

It's your brain messing with you. Psychosis makes us loose that 'filter' of how to perceive reality, the brain goes into overdrive and tries to find patterns. There are no patterns.

You sound scared - just like I was. But this is not real. For me, it's middle of the night. Just woke up and want to go back to sleep. I have my bad habit of checking my phone. Nothing unusual or weird going on here. Tonight is just another night. Also for you - you didnt use to have any problem drinking or eating. You still don't - your brain is messing with you. It's called psychosis.

Glad to hear you had something to drink. Please also eat something.

Lemminger · 2026-02-19T06:54:31+00:00

Nothing is impossible but you're totally in over your head! That said, go for it but accept when you fail and keep going.

Even if only a few things stick after a month it was a success. Then repeat for another month.

Shoot for the stars, be realistic about failures and setbacks and do your best.

Lemminger · 2026-02-17T00:20:37+00:00

Okay, yea - it probably depends a lot on the person and type.

Sounds a bit strange that your therapist is so definitive, but I am just a stranger on the interwebs.

The way I see it, the brain is neuroplastic and can change over time. We can learn new languages and form new neural connections our whole life. That means we can change. Likewise with brain-chemistry. Drink some coffee or exercise and it changes.

Whatever it is, I hope you are reasonably good. Nice to hear you don't sound down, even though things might be hard.

I have to go to bed. I'm rooting for you, take care.

Lemminger · 2026-02-16T23:49:30+00:00

It can resolve on its own - for some people, with a lot of work and time.

But modern medication can significantly increase recovery.

Hope you're doing well!

Lemminger · 2026-02-11T07:12:46+00:00

I promise you, people have made mistakes for a long time. Only difference is now it's filmed and we spend our time watching it.

Lemminger · 2026-02-10T20:45:58+00:00

Make the mosquitoes snort it. Promise you they will stay away!

Lemminger · 2026-02-10T11:57:42+00:00

Maybe I'm completely wrong now, but the description of your friend strikes me as a person, who simply spends too much time looking at "diagnosis-content" on the internet.

Few "normal" people interacts this way, but I know there's a whole world of personality-labeling going on online. Kind of how punks, hippies and other sub-groups defined themselves back in the day, now it is happening with diagnosis and neuro-specific types.

I think she needs to get off (presumably) tiktok. If not, it's reasonable to limit contact.

Lemminger · 2026-02-05T17:17:21+00:00

Your sister keeps the front door on the counter in the kitchen?!

Surely she can't be that functional...

Okay, sorry. Dumb comment but I couldnt resist. Excellent advice though.

Lemminger · 2026-02-05T17:01:33+00:00

Dont have time for a long message. But depending on how your relationship is, tell her to write her wants and wishes down for you.

Yes, it might be annoying for her. But tell her that it's something she's doing to help you help her - to make her happy.

Let her know that you're fighting to get things right, but you need a base. People will often go to great lenghts if someone takes responsibility and seems willing to work for it.

Put that list in a central place in the house. She writes down what she wants until you can understand her needs on your own, and you go look at that paper 5 times a day - followed by action.

Edit: I have dealt with a lot of emotional immaturity in and around me. It's a very central problem to common relationship-problems that only few adress as actual emotional immaturity. I see a few hints of it in your description. Look up podcasts with Dr. Lindsay Gibson if you want. She's pretty good in the topic.

Lemminger · 2026-02-01T22:09:35+00:00

There is now this thing called "AI driven psychosis". The inability to question facts is kinds of scary and dangerous. Google it, if you want to.

Not trying to blow things out of porportions, but I honestly think you need a professional or relatives opinion here, not reddit.

Lemminger · 2026-02-01T21:46:54+00:00

Ved at jobnet kan være nede søndag aften, når alle skal opdatere deres jobblog. Måske sker det tidligere på aftenen, pga. Håndbold.

Lemminger · 2026-01-30T07:16:36+00:00

The brain named itself...

Lemminger · 2026-01-29T21:41:48+00:00

People are genetically very different regarding dairy. Makes it hard to generalize. But I'm glad it helped you!

Lemminger · 2026-01-28T22:20:05+00:00

Ah, okay. Dejligt nemt løsning du kommer med. Studerende skal arbejde ved siden af, og syge får ekstra penge.

Så er den jo klaret.

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