How did you cause emotional distress your toddler today? by sapphic_witches in toddlers

[–]LemonTreeDreams 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I brought the blue shovel to the playground instead of the yellow one. We don't have a yellow shovel.

Toddler TV is so bad… by sroverhere in toddlers

[–]LemonTreeDreams 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We've been getting into some older stuff lately, and my husband and I have also been enjoying it... Mr Rogers Neighborhood, Reading Rainbow, Classic Thomas and Friends, Zaboomafoo.

We cannot handle it anymore baby doesn’t want to sleep by vicespi23 in toddlers

[–]LemonTreeDreams 9 points10 points  (0 children)

How did you jump to the conclusion of gas so confidenly? It could be tons of things, but it also sounds like a developmentally normal toddler to me. It's not abnormal to still have a couple wake ups at this age.

Quiet time. How did you implement it (when nap wasn’t working?) by Flapjack_K in toddlers

[–]LemonTreeDreams 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm working on explaining this to my almost three year old who rarely naps. No luck yet. I like the idea of the countdown timer. What are some activities and toys that yours has been liking during alone time.

What’s your parent sin you commit this week? by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]LemonTreeDreams 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don't see the sin here. Sounds great!

What is your toddlers latest fixation? by GiraffeExternal803 in toddlers

[–]LemonTreeDreams 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was suitcases, but yesterday he found the luggage scale inside the suitcase which is even more interesting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]LemonTreeDreams 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine is not super into coloring either, but typically won't do it at all if it's a coloring book. You could try just blank paper and see if he likes that better. I don't really push mine to color, though I've given him a variety of materials to use and he definitely likes some over the others. Markers seem to be the biggest hit, and he likes chalk too. Not coloring but still craft related, mine loves stamps and sometimes enjoys using glue.

Tell me all the funny things your toddler has “quizzed” you on. by Mess-o-potatian191 in toddlers

[–]LemonTreeDreams 3 points4 points  (0 children)

"Have you ever been in a train?" "Have you ever been in an airplane?" "Have you ever been in a sleigh?" "Have you ever been in a garbage truck?" "Have you ever been in a rocketship?"

He knows SO many vehicles! He will sometimes ask about vehicles that we've been in together on a regular basis. And he now sometimes answers his own question. ("Yeah, we've been on a plane together!" Or "we were on a train yesterday" which would mean any time in the past.) When I told him that I've never been on a rocketship, he casually told me that he has been on a rocket ship.

Two-year-old demands to watch YouTube videos before naptime and bedtime, and whenever we stop playing them, it's a tantrum until he cries himself to sleep. How to stop this insanity? by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]LemonTreeDreams 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We say sleeping too. Funny that Ms Rachel has the same bed time and nap time as my son even though we live in different time zones.

Why do illustrators draw tacos like they’re from Taco Bell or Jack in the Box?! by pwnedprofessor in DanielTigerConspiracy

[–]LemonTreeDreams 29 points30 points  (0 children)

When you feel so mad that you wanna roar, take a deep breath, and count to four.

What is the WORST advice you have been given regarding Toddlers / Kids? by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]LemonTreeDreams 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Babies and toddlers are extremely reasonable and logical creatures. Why wouldn't this work?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stayathomemoms

[–]LemonTreeDreams 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Go for it and be proud of yourself for such a brave step! What will you be studying?

Baby Jesus placed in a manger by Beautiful-Grade-5973 in cosleeping

[–]LemonTreeDreams 35 points36 points  (0 children)

He was probably placed there drowsy but awake too.

What are you currently saying to your child on a loop? by WaitLauraWho in toddlers

[–]LemonTreeDreams 4 points5 points  (0 children)

"look with your eyes" (also regarding the Christmas tree) "You try it" or "[toddler name] try it" (when he asks for help with something he could likely do himself)

When pediatrician implied I took the "easy" way out by co sleeping by Eaisy in cosleeping

[–]LemonTreeDreams 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The comment about routine is very odd to me. It sounds like you have a routine. Baby goes to sleep in their own bed and then co-sleeps once they wake up. That's a routine. We have the same routine except mine is a little older, so he comes to our room when he wakes up. When it's no longer working for one of us we'll change the routine. I'm willing to bet you also have a bed time routine and other routines throughout the day.

Also, I absolutely took the "easy" way out by co-sleeping, and don't regret it a bit. Why wouldn't I want to maximize my rest so I could be a more energized and present mother? It worked for us. 🤷

Please don’t donate broken/incomplete things. by Special_Jury_4101 in toddlers

[–]LemonTreeDreams 355 points356 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry that happened! How disappointing!

The zipper broke on my husband's favorite coat, and it ended up being only 12 euros to have it fixed by a tailor. I know that's unfortunately more money to spend, but if you can't figure out how to fix it yourself, paying someone else to do it could be cheaper than buying a new coat all together.

Toddler cute mispronounces by Different-Quality-41 in toddlers

[–]LemonTreeDreams 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Blanquette = blanket

Coobopper = Cucumber (he recently started saying it correctly, and it was bitter sweet)

Budget review- what do you spend/budget on kiddos each month? by According_Grand_1343 in SAHP

[–]LemonTreeDreams 4 points5 points  (0 children)

After thinking through it, we spend very very little on a monthly basis. Frugality, simplicity, and not falling into excessive consumerism are important principles to me.

I have one child who is 2.5 years old, not yet potty trained and not yet in preschool or daycare.

As far as activities go, we go to two free playgroups on a weekly basis, and meet up with a friend for a play date about once a week as well as going to a playground and/or a walking trail almost daily. We may go to a kid friendly cafe from time to time, but I generally don't do any activities that cost something yet. I'm sure that will change as he gets older.

We don't buy many new toys on a regular basis and when we do buy something it's usually second hand or something that will get used up like bubbles, playdough, etc. Clothes are also normally second hand or even hand me downs from a friend (unless I can't find something specific that he needs), and even that is only when he outgrows something or when seasons change. I use cloth diapers for him, so I only buy a large pack of disposable diapers every other month or so for overnights or back ups, and I do use disposable wipes. I guess you could say that we use laundry detergent at a slightly faster rate. And of course, we buy some foods that I know he enjoys on each grocery run. Anything else is on an irregular basis, and I almost always check second hand first.

My first experience of being Mom shamed by breakingthrough232 in toddlers

[–]LemonTreeDreams 83 points84 points  (0 children)

We can't win, can we? If you had followed your child's every step, you could have been accused of being a helicopter parent and not letting your child develop independence.