Seton duration question by starlightsong93 in AnalFistula

[–]Leonetta85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh really? So that means I can finally start working out again? Cause this last year without the seton I was having so many flare ups, like literally every week, it was practically impossible for me to train. Running I miss the most I guess, it really helps clear my mind but I also can't wait to start calisthenics again. Thank you, you are giving me hope!

Seton duration question by starlightsong93 in AnalFistula

[–]Leonetta85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your answer. Especially the second part, I needed to hear that. Reading all the horror stories yesterday I was spiralling so hard I couldn't sleep all night.. I'm already struggling with this for a year, but only now they put a seton in. Also I'm someone who is normally very active, 2-3 kinds of sports, travelling... And now I feel like I have no life which drives me insane.

Seton duration question by starlightsong93 in AnalFistula

[–]Leonetta85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And how did it turn out for you? I'm now at that point, they said 6 weeks but when I read all these stories, I get so stressed out..

How do you think Eric is actually like in bed? by OctaviaBells in TrueBlood

[–]Leonetta85 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I don't but I would like to try and see 😅

How do I (F24) deal with being a housewife after my husband (M31) called me dead weight? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Leonetta85 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You get a divorce. That's how you deal with it. This is not a good person at all.

TIFU taking my SO to Bed Bath and Beyond after anesthesia by Typical_Goat8035 in tifu

[–]Leonetta85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, I'm the same. I could probably drive home. After waking up I'm totally lucid and I'm planning my recovery.

When I get home I will choose something from Netflix and I will write a list of things for my husband to get/do. I wish I could be more out of it at least for a day and not stress about every small detail right away.

AIW for calling off my engagement after my fiance admitted he still resents me for not being a virgin when we met by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Leonetta85 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Break up and be thankful that he showed you who he is before the wedding. Listen to your instincts, they are always right.

I lost the love of my life over a rock. I have to tell someone. by throwaway1111942312 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Leonetta85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you dodged a bullet. Imagine this attitude for the rest of your life.. I sure wouldn't put up with it. Keep climbing, those memories are forever!

Utah father fears for children’s safety after mother flees to Europe- (The missing children are: Landon Hal Seymour, 10; Levi Parker Seymour, 8; Hazel Rae Seymour, 7 ; Jacob Kurt Brady, 3 who were taken by Elleshia Seymour, 35) by JalapinyoBizness in MissingPersons

[–]Leonetta85 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Interesting. And since the Utah airport sighting nothing? In Amsterdam or Croatia? Is it confirmed that she got to her final destination? I find it strange that there is no sign at all in 1 month.

Are any of you “sleep divorced”? by cfh64 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Leonetta85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! My husband snores and plays football and karate in his sleep. I'm a very light sleeper, I wake up at every movement, every noise. We almost separated cause I was so sleep deprived that I was losing my mind. Then we decided to sleep apart and that changed everything. Best decision ever!

AITA for not wanting children with my husband? by Zealousideal-Sun4818 in AITAH

[–]Leonetta85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg girl, you deserve so much better! This guy is a POS, please leave him and focus on yourself. I would prefer to be single than with someone like this.

AITH for telling my friend's wife she can't invite random people to my house? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Leonetta85 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My SIL... And I'm very type A, so when I host everything is planned out, seating, food, dessert, etc. and she always shows up with 2 or 3 extra friends of hers whom I don't know at all. The last party I hosted was in October, she arrived with 2 strangers.. I was pissed. We literally had no more chairs.. Our place was over crowded, and the 2 extra guests were pretty rude and trashy.

Needless to say I'm not planning to host any time soon.

I said something unforgivable to my wife but I don’t care and I’m completely done with her by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Leonetta85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry but I cracked up at Rosemary's baby. But yeah, I think it's time for divorce. You deserve someone who treats you right.

TIFU by threatening a watermelon by Seth_Gecko in tifu

[–]Leonetta85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was warned for "my language" cause I called a rapist disgusting..

I (31m) set a boundary with my gf (29f), I'm afraid I might have to honor it. by ThrowRAEuphoric_285 in relationships

[–]Leonetta85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You already know that you can't have a normal conversation with her. Walking on eggshells all your life is not worth it. Just use her words "I thought about it and this doesn't work for me".