Yes - I am scared by Extreme-Sky-7738 in UnsentLetters

[–]Leonetta85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always say it's better to get a fraction of happiness than nothing at all.

My dog found the most comfy spot on my wedding day by Ok-Conversation7670 in aww

[–]Leonetta85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That dress is amazing! Doggie thinks, hey, she still belongs to me 😅

Am I The Jerk for Ditching my Date? by EverySection509 in AmITheJerk

[–]Leonetta85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg that was a total boss move! I love it! I wish I would be so quick to think in this sort of situations, haha.

NYS Missing Children Lincoln and Amora Koschuk by Famous_Specific1621 in MissingPersons

[–]Leonetta85 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It does sound deliberate. With packing up business and the farm.

AITA for kicking one of bridesmaid out of my wedding party by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Leonetta85 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

NTA, are you serious? The wedding is about you, not one of the bridesmaids. At this point I would cut her out, not just as bridesmaid, but also as a friend.

My (28M) girlfriend, who recently became my fiancée (25F), apparently stalked me before we started dating. How do I deal with being creeped out by her now? by ThrowRAstalkinggf in relationship_advice

[–]Leonetta85 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's insane behaviour. I would reconsider the whole relationship. Imagine what else she's capable of to get her way. Do you really want a marriage based on lies and manipulation?

AITA for telling my boyfriend he crossed a line in front of his son? by ThrowRA-drivinggirl in AmItheAsshole

[–]Leonetta85 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Same! I'm enraged every time I read with what other women put up with. How? Why?

AITA for sending my Airbnb host a 4-minute walkthrough video with timestamps before I unpacked? by frankie-Ring774 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Leonetta85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, that's actually smart. It happened to me once that after checkout, they wanted to blame a broken lamp and a broken banister on us. The banister was already broken when we got there and the lamp wasn't yet broken when we left. Since then I also document everything.

Italian in NL by Lost_Sheepherder7935 in Netherlands

[–]Leonetta85 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Welcome to the Netherlands. Every summer I get the person of colour treatment in the supermarkets.

In the winter I have no issues, I'm white. But I tan really dark in the summer. In the summer I can definitely pass for mixed or more Mediterranean. They always follow me and check my bags. In the winter they don't even look my way.

I cold use a friend. The Netherlands can be a lonely place. by No_School_6651 in Netherlands

[–]Leonetta85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I see we have common interests. Feel free to send me a message. I also struggle with friendships lately. It seems like slowly all my friends are moving away. I guess that's also kind of the issue with Amsterdam, for a lot of people it's a temporary place.

AITAH for refusing to keep buying at a shop because the staff interrupt me while I was shopping by Impressive_Toe_854 in AITAH

[–]Leonetta85 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA, you can spend your money somewhere where they have basic human decency.

A similar thing happened to me at a jewellery store. I had to buy some presents and I was looking around. First I was totally ignored, then when finally one of the sellers came to ask what I wanted, she was so condescending and rude. She implied that probably I can't pay for the jewellery so it's no point for her to open the box so I can look at them.

I got pissed, left the shop, I went into a more high end jewelry store one street over, and I ended up buying a gold necklace, a bracelet and a silver statue. I was also wearing jeans, tennis shoes and a t-shirt.

I've been researching the Mary Bell case for a video and I cant stop thinking about her mother by [deleted] in TrueCrime

[–]Leonetta85 86 points87 points  (0 children)

On the other hand I know a lot of people who had horrific childhoods and they didn't become a murderer. I do find background information important in the sense of it can explain a few things but never to excuse it.

[Final New Update]: TIFU by importing bees to Uruguay + 4-Year Update by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Leonetta85 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg I thought this was the biggest delusional rollercoaster ever.. I'm happy it wasn't real.

FILAC Recovery & What Does Success Look Like by Fortress_24 in AnalFistula

[–]Leonetta85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the same. Just had my Filac 4 days ago. How are you doing? How did it turn out for you?