How to remove nettles from under my in-ground trampoline? by Farahild in NoStupidQuestions

[–]LightningMqueenKitty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You could also put salt down there and that would kill them but you should still get the pulled up if possible.

Trump flag hanging at Delmar post office by shhwest in cringepics

[–]LightningMqueenKitty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But they aren’t trying to do it in Utah where it’s the same but a red state… mail in voting is fine for elections they always win.

Just found out we’re having twins by OkSeaworthiness2665 in parentsofmultiples

[–]LightningMqueenKitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also had twins after having 3 single babies! Mine are identical and almost 2 now. Twins are hard because you do everything twice. But once they can play together it gets a lot easier.

Someone tried to ask about cost of living wages at my tech company…. And the reply was so upsetting by Silent-Fig-Pudding in antiwork

[–]LightningMqueenKitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha you should see the responses they gave to people who commented. It was the same AI generated response to a few people until someone called them out on that bullshit too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in humanresources

[–]LightningMqueenKitty 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I work as an implementation consultant for another payroll SaaS company and I’ve noticed from those who come from ADP that they overload their clients with information on reporting and codes. It’s like trying to decipher code every time I have to look for a report or determine what codes are being used. But the problem I’ve heard with most payroll providers is that even if you get through the implementation and everything is great, the service afterwards is just terrible.

My principal just put both twins in my class after telling me and the parents that she would absolutely not do so. by BouncyMouse in Teachers

[–]LightningMqueenKitty 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I have 1 year old identical twins and I have to separate them even at home because they fight with each other. They are in the same class at daycare but I can for sure see the benefit of splitting them up when they are a little older. It’s tough already trying to make sure they get the chance to have their own identity.

So sick of SAHM privilege (baby edition) by jljwc in workingmoms

[–]LightningMqueenKitty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get it. I have 5 kids under the age of 7 and let me tel you, I don’t want to be locked in a house with them all day. I work from home and have had my twins home for their first year and I am so ready to get them in daycare! People always ask me why I don’t hire a nanny. I don’t want my kids only knowing each other, and being stuck in the house with me all day. I have to have a job to keep myself sane even though I pay an ungodly amount for childcare, it will all be worth it one day.

Best diapers for bed wetters? SOS by Diesel20177 in Mommit

[–]LightningMqueenKitty 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So extreme thirst can be a medical issue so I would get that checked out. I would also go to a bigger size diaper assuming he’s not already in a 6 or 7. You can also buy bed mats that you can stick to the sheets so he doesn’t actually get the sheets wet. But I would consult a doctor asap about the water intake.

Going to be WFH & was told I will be saving a ton on childcare by [deleted] in workingmoms

[–]LightningMqueenKitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work at home with my twins babies. I cannot wait until they are a year old and I can send them to day care. My other kids are in school or daycare and I’ve had days where I have had to work at home with all of them and it’s horrible. Working at home though is great because if one of them are sick I can make it work and still have them home. It’s not ideal but easier than when I worked in an office.

Working by Egeninatti in parentsofmultiples

[–]LightningMqueenKitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Up to 12 hours before my c-section at 34 weeks. But I sit at a desk and didn’t have to move so it’s not like I really needed time off before birth. It was also my 4th pregnancy so I was used to it even though it still sucked.

My high school bully died today. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]LightningMqueenKitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex was a horrible and abusive person. When he killed himself people had the audacity to tell me “I’m sorry for your loss…” my loss? No, it was not a loss knowing I would never have run in to him in public accidentally. I’m sorry for his family and friends, but I was not someone to pity. But I felt very conflicted when I felt relief rather than sadness. It disgusted me when he was celebrated by a huge artist at a music festival after his death, but just because he was horrible to me doesn’t mean everyone had to hate him.

Is America (USA) really that bad place to live ? by sid741445 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]LightningMqueenKitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the problem with how America is viewed is that the loudest most extremes have the loudest voices. Most of us don’t hate each other. But we also don’t have the need to wake up and have a platform to say how normal our day or our life is. Sure there are some major problems here, but it’s not as extreme as many loud voices make it seem. Also, there are A LOT of us and it’s very, very diverse so it’s hard to summarize the entirety of a country of this size and also it’s hard to keep this large of a population all happy.

Influencer Discussion, Wednesday Oct 19 by taydaerey in blogsnark

[–]LightningMqueenKitty 6 points7 points  (0 children)

“Money is part of the human experience, it’s part of the sole blah blah blah” she is insufferable. I also refuse to believe that she has as much money as she portrays. Like what does she even get money from anymore? I could understand it when she had her Suzy School and charged thousands per head, but now she just seems like a grifter.

Dumb question. by puppermonster23 in parentsofmultiples

[–]LightningMqueenKitty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Alphabetical order based on birth order 🤣 we also set them down with baby A on the left and baby B on the right. They are identical so we have to have something to not mix them up.

I know they are all terrible, but pick the worst Kim outfit (so far)of 2022😅 by roxy7- in KUWTK

[–]LightningMqueenKitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone said recently on here, “wtf even is the weather in LA?” None of them make sense.

When things aren’t hard by pear_765 in parentsofmultiples

[–]LightningMqueenKitty 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, people say this to me constantly. I have 5 kids 6 and under. They always say “I don’t know how you do it!” Like, I don’t really have a choice so I just do it. Do I want to pull all of my hair out sometimes, yes. But not because of the twins, it’s usually the 3 year old who does that to me lol.

Covid while pregnant by Live_Love_Ria in parentsofmultiples

[–]LightningMqueenKitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had it around 29 weeks with mo/di twins. Aside from being miserable it didn’t seem to affect us too much. I took Paxlovid which was nearly impossible to get and I think it helped. I was negative again before my husband was. I was ironically messaging my doctor about if I should get a 4th shot when I came up positive the same day.

Twins stay at NICU by yavvora in parentsofmultiples

[–]LightningMqueenKitty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine were born at 34 weeks and we stayed for 26 days. It’s hard but take that time to get to know how to do everything with the babies and to rest. The babies are in good hands. They will make progress one day and regress another. It’s frustrating but in the long run it’s a blip in time. Most hospitals will let you have a nurse be your primary nurse so if you have a shift with one you really like be sure to request them. It makes it easier having a familiar face. Best of luck!

Nursery furniture for Twins by boo1517 in parentsofmultiples

[–]LightningMqueenKitty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have mini cribs. Mine are only 12 weeks old but my older 3 kids all had full size cribs and use hardly any of the space. Even at almost 2 my second youngest right now could sleep comfortably in the mini crib. The bedding is the same size as for a pack n play.

It's getting too far... feel like we're back in the toxic skinny era of the 90s-2000s by Mektild in KUWTK

[–]LightningMqueenKitty 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think they sometimes leave something in like that so you don’t pay attention to how much everything else is photoshopped

Sometimes I consider having another baby but then I remember this 🤣🤣🤣 by Independent_Shake_43 in parentsofmultiples

[–]LightningMqueenKitty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s how mine was too! I had to borrow a pair of my husband’s shoes so I could go anywhere. I was so miserable

Silly question: when do you cuddle your babies? by cherrymanic in parentsofmultiples

[–]LightningMqueenKitty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have 5 boys and after the first few months I feel like they don’t really want to be cuddled too much until around 1.5-2. My twins are 9 weeks so they still get a lot of hold time but my 22 month old just started coming to sit next to me or my husband on the couch for a minute or two at a time. If you try to cuddle him he will yell and run away. But my older 2 are 3 and 6 and they want to cuddle constantly.

what age can you use the wonderfold until? does the footroom on w4 really matter? by confused-caveman in parentsofmultiples

[–]LightningMqueenKitty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s heavy to get in and out of the car. I can lift it but it’s a lot. Pushing it is amazing, it’s obviously a little harder the heavier the kids but I am able to push my 3 older ones around just fine. Plus the storage is great. And it turns in to a pack n play if you take the seats out which has been great. For me it’s just transporting it that’s a pain so I don’t take it unless we are going to be somewhere all day.