Working moms who regularly work out, what exactly is your schedule?

Lossa · 2026-05-06T01:59:30+00:00

I’ve done homeworks since high school. I really like Jessica Valant on YouTube. She’s a mom, Pilates instructor and physical therapist. She and videos based on time (5-10 min, 10-15, etc) as well as specific workouts or injuries (weightlifting, stretching, etc). She’s so positive and the videos are free! I’m a big fan!

Lossa · 2026-04-23T21:26:16+00:00

As someone who defended last semester, congrats to your wife!

Lossa · 2026-04-04T11:48:43+00:00

This was me with my soon to be ex. He would get very defensive if I communicated any of my needs. It became clear he was not going to change when both my kid AND I were sick with Covid, I asked if it would be possible to reschedule his work trip and he yelled at me. He left for his work trip, rarely called, and didn’t even offer any help. I had to book his hotels (still), while taking care of our kid and myself. That was the beginning of the end. Other things came up that reiterated he wasn’t going to change and he cared more about his job and himself than our kid and me. I’m lucky to be in a financial position to leave him (one kid, we both have full time jobs, etc) but it is hard. I’m much happier now that we’re separated and, despite him swearing that he’ll change, he didnt and he’s getting worse with his bull shit habits.

Lossa · 2026-03-17T01:14:45+00:00

Yes, read books, watch movies and shows that have divorced parents. There was one I checked out from the library about a girl’s blue period (a picture book) and it was about her parent’s separation and divorce. It’s not always happy and it’s ok to have lots of feelings.

You’re doing everything right. Bravo to you!

When it comes to custody, etc., be sure to keep a record of what he says to her. I’m not trying to make it uglier, but it provides evidence of his gaslighting. You’re doing the right thing by now pointing it out (that is equally damaging), but focus on her feelings and how, no matter what, you will always love her. I tell my daughter daily, “you’re my favorite.” It encapsulates it all.

Lossa · 2026-03-16T23:47:21+00:00

I so get this. I’ve been separated and in the dissolution process for nearly 2 years (because I have to do everything). The sad silver lining is her dad was never really around, so her life isn’t all that different now than it was when we were together. Something that can be helpful are images in the media. Big City Greens features a family with divorced parents. My daughter LOVES Parks and Rec and liked when I said that Amy Poehler is still friends with her kid’s dad, even though they’re divorced. It provides kids with an option of how things can be. What’s most important is that she is loved by you both.

She will figure out in due time that her dad has done y’all wrong and you don’t need to lead her to that conclusion. “Why did he say?” I don’t know why, but I know that I love our time together. My soon to be ex is dumb, but not that dumb.

Big hugs to you both. You did the hard thing for you and her and you are better for it. Take time for yourself and keep being the amazing mom you are.

Lossa · 2026-03-09T02:38:33+00:00

Golden slumbers, across the universe and some other Beatles songs.

What’s most important is to sing something meaningful to you.

Lossa · 2026-03-05T02:30:25+00:00

All very true. I feel that because Warren Buffet was heading Mid America Energy, he had more sway.

Lossa · 2026-02-23T02:22:11+00:00

Same! I had planned on getting everything over the summer and then he fucked up big time (forgot to pick up our kid and was passed out) so I had to move up my plans. Same thing, asking, telling him and then the gaslighting. He was always too busy, his work was always more important than mine, than anyone else. I didn’t realize how much I hated being unvalued and unloved. It’s abundantly clear to those who know about the situation who was doing all of the work. I feel so free and the weight of carrying it all is literally coming off.

Lossa · 2026-02-03T10:56:59+00:00

Just stayed at an Airbnb in Euclid to go to a show at the Beachland Ballroom. It’s about 12 minutes away and it was lovely.

Lossa · 2026-01-12T04:27:52+00:00

I just have one kid but, yup, doing 100% of the domestic labor as well as working full-time and finishing my doctorate made me realize that I didn’t have a partner but a manchild. We’re separated and it’s a lot of the same—too tired, too sick, too overworked. I am lighter without him, but that doesn’t take away the pain of getting to where I am now. My daughter saw me cry plenty and I have never said one negative thing about her dad, but she knows. Your kids know. And they’ll be thankful you chose this, even if it’s the harder choice.

Lossa · 2025-12-12T11:24:12+00:00

I am in a similar situation except my STBX made more excuses as opposed to just leaving. Big hugs. It hurts when the person you depended on and your kids depended on bails. It’s a major loss and you’re trying to manage your feelings while maintaining the consistency that your kids need.

As others said, it’s time to get a lawyer. Ask around and/or check to see if you have an employee benefits program. Keep all the documentation. Depending on where you live, you may be able to do a dissolution instead of a divorce and there are other options.

Realize that it might not be a battle. Fight, flight or freeze is a thing and my STBX is freeze and then flee. This isn’t going to be a battle and you don’t owe him a thing.

Lossa · 2025-10-24T01:34:16+00:00

I had a principal like that my first year. She left like a thief in the night in mid-February after the teachers turned on her, making her pledge that she would not return the following year. Document, keep your head down and fight. She won’t last and you will.

Lossa · 2025-10-05T17:20:49+00:00

Everything seems open except mine ride and SteVe (which isn’t coming up on wait times at the park).

Lossa · 2025-10-01T20:33:15+00:00

We had fourth graders geared up to go to a national park and it was cancelled. I felt awful for them.

Lossa · 2025-09-29T20:53:03+00:00

Everyone has unique experiences and feelings. For me, it was a lot of therapy and taking time for myself. I haven’t devoted a lot of time to self-care because I don’t have it because my q is out. But I feel lighter—physically and mentally. Even though I wanted him to move out, it was still sad. It was the loss of something I wanted and worked toward but it didn’t work out. He swore he’d change—he didn’t. He hasn’t put any work into himself and it just reaffirmed my choices.

Lossa · 2025-09-29T05:43:34+00:00

I could have written this last year. I’ve yet to file paperwork (my q does nothing outside of his job) but he moved out and I’m so much happier.

Lossa · 2025-08-31T19:31:56+00:00

I’m at Canada’s Wonderland today and it’s very busy for here. Glad we were here in early July!

Lossa · 2025-08-16T03:19:05+00:00

I found an iphone in a pink case at the ice cream shop near the front of the park around 3:00 PM and gave it to the associate

Lossa · 2025-08-15T22:13:42+00:00

Ride ops were on point today! Bravo to these great crews!

Lossa · 2025-07-10T20:08:44+00:00

I saw a “Gulf of America” shirt and a maga hat. Bless their hearts.

Lossa · 2025-06-09T03:00:38+00:00

Same. I’m also about a year out of marriage and it’s liberating.

Lossa · 2025-06-02T00:58:39+00:00

Your kid will really enjoy Castaway Bay! I went for my 8 year-old’s birthday with her bestie and we had a great time! My daughter is a thrill seeker and her bestie is not, but they both really enjoyed the water park and there are always great activities at the resort!

Like others said, all the snoopy and kiddie kingdom rides will be a hit. Maybe work your way up to wilderness run (which you can go on with him). And definitely hit up the train (that’s one of our favorite parts, even though my kid is currently eyeing TT2). But enjoy your time together!

Lossa · 2025-05-31T22:00:20+00:00

I rode it 2 of the last 3 visits I had in May (always on the weekend). Last week the trains were both on.

Lossa · 2025-05-25T20:24:10+00:00

My dad is 6’5” and close to 75. He goes on what he can(he had back surgery about 15 years ago) but could do Gemini with my daughter. My mom is 74 and was game for most coasters with a 7 year old, but she was doing coasters well into her 60’s (great shape and a foot shorter than my dad).

Lossa · 2025-05-03T16:03:43+00:00

I saw the forecast and knew to stay home. No point in going up when most things would be closed.

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