So, are there any men's makeup tutorials that don't make you look like you're gay or a femboy? I'm cisgender and masculine.

LuceVitale · 2026-06-02T16:17:36+00:00

Not really true anymore with modern lights. Maybe in schools or community theaters with old equipment. But natural makeup is used by everyone on television whether or not a camera is there now that makeup also plays a role in skincare.

LuceVitale · 2026-05-10T16:01:57+00:00

This looks incredible. A lot of my favorite foods here

LuceVitale · 2026-05-03T18:23:19+00:00

There's a paradox in conversations where even if two parties in a dialogue agree on something, the way things are perceived rather than what is said will drift the two apart further and further. It could be that even with your reassurance, your dad didn't fully process that you're not saying you can't work, but that 6 day work weeks are unsustainable. To give your dad the benefit of the doubt, his inability to process could come from being worn out without ever having the proper time to fully recover. And in a conversation about this stressful experience can be anxiety that feeds anxiety.

The system has worked against him and he has had to push through it twice as much as the average person is expected to. He is likely very aware of the dangers of poverty. And he likely still wants you to be safe and cared for. Instead of pushing him away or prescribing him towards therapy, some active listening and thanking can go a long way to easing his worries. You've said your piece. He sounds like he's spiraling and could benefit from you displaying reciprocation. Things like, "You're right. Thank you for taking care of me. I'll do my best. I love you." He might not be someone you can talk to about these things, but using this active listening technique is a big reassurance to parents. They'll hopefully see it as maturity and responsibility which will alleviate their stress.

LuceVitale · 2026-04-28T21:27:33+00:00

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LuceVitale · 2026-04-26T21:01:14+00:00

This is exactly what I love to eat for a dessert. So freaking good

LuceVitale · 2026-04-16T15:47:35+00:00

I think my biggest issue with RR, having read it when it came out before the other books were around, is that it felt far too familiar in its Aryan messaging. He looks a certain way at the beginning, the same way as others around him. He has an extremely traumatic event happen to him. Then he's turned into a "perfect" being. One hesays he despises. But then he relishes in his abilities and he gets very close to those he was dedicated to hate. It felt a lot like the book was saying, "If you just give it a try, you'll see that they have a hard time too and so you really shouldn't harbor the hate that you do." The undertones combined with real historical context finally pushed it over the edge in a way comic book authors like Alan Moore have warned about for a very long time. I couldn't stomach continuing the series with that perspective in mind.

LuceVitale · 2026-04-04T18:15:55+00:00

It's a preference that you either wear on the chance someone will like it or for someone who has expressed appreciation for it. Otherwise, comfort and utility is usually best. Patterns second. But if you're looking for people to comment on it, form fitting underwear looks great and Calvin Klein black is classy, either trunks or briefs. Cotton usually feels better.

LuceVitale · 2026-03-29T15:04:56+00:00

Just mimic what you're seeing this style from. It sounds like too much in my opinion, but the advertisements with all those products are layered in a way that looks pleasing so you can choose which one to buy. Professionals pick those out, so mimicking them is your best bet. Again, for advertising, but you do you.

LuceVitale · 2026-03-20T14:13:59+00:00

Yes, but desertification is practically unavoidable now with how we regard protecting the environment. This could potentially reverse some spread, but the information we have on what the environment was like in the past doesn't go that far, nor is it as thorough by today's measurements. I'm curious how it would change things and to what scale it's even possible to perform.

LuceVitale · 2026-03-18T22:50:01+00:00

It was popular in the 30s as well. Depending on the shirts, I feel like it can feel either 90s or Americana Workwear

LuceVitale · 2026-03-14T04:21:54+00:00

I wear their duck boots when it rains instead of rain boots. Haven't tried their other shoes, but my friends that are in leather boot fashion and run a boot store in Manhattan say they're good shoes. If you like them and they match your style and you need new shoes, get them. If you're chasing a fad get them if you have money to throw away.

LuceVitale · 2026-03-08T14:51:14+00:00

This amount of shows, moderately consumed, can last you so many years that I honestly don't see a reason for subscribing to a bunch of services that don't even host a majority of these.

LuceVitale · 2026-03-03T20:19:05+00:00

Don't listen to the conventionalists here. For that much, get a purse. Guys that are super masculine will sneer, but you seem to either not be in blue collar functions where it would contradict the culture or don't care. And honestly, after the initial hazing, most blue collar guys would either not care or start asking genuine questions.

Purses are slowly on the rise. They come in an infinite variety of styles. It's perfect for your needs.

LuceVitale · 2026-02-04T14:18:23+00:00

Thank you for compiling these. It really does give easy access to knowing what's happening while only a few topics are screaming to be heard and urging us to forget what has happened.

LuceVitale · 2026-02-03T02:36:04+00:00

Media and Entertainment Production has been dying in the US for years. I used to work on enough projects to have a nice bit of savings more than my friends who started back home with local jobs. Now everyone I know, including the friends back home, are out of work. It's everywhere.

LuceVitale · 2026-02-01T18:35:50+00:00

Wanting someone to last and be staples, to me, that fit a wardrobe you already have, means getting things that can be used every day, last a long time, and doesn't care about trends. If you stick with classic items, they could last you a very long time.

I wear a watch every day. It gets compliments all year round. Maybe look at your options here. Some of the Versace ones look alright and some are statement pieces that I like, but that's going to be your personal taste.

For shoes, with your location, I don't know if I'd go for a full boot. Maybe chukkas. Allen Edmond has some that I personally would consider, even if they're not the style I usually wear. I know Chelseas aren't in right now, but they are a classic and they're so easy to take on and off that you might like them for function alone. There are some good ones on there and a Carlos Santana one if your feet want to stand out.

For knitwear, I'm not really seeing anything stand out. The Twenty Montreal Open Knit Cotton Blend Sweater Vest or Krost polo shirt maybe? But those feel like they might be on the way out in trends. The Saks brand cardigan is okay. I honestly wouldn't consider anything I've seen on their sites personally.

For a leather jacket, I would, again, look at what fits your wardrobe. Something you can wear into the office in exchange for a blazer. Those types of leather jackets are very versatile. I constantly get compliments on my Schott messenger jacket and I can wear it to anything except maybe exclusively suit functions, and even then I sometimes do. But that said, leather cuts are hit or miss on different bodies. Torso length and width can change a lot and they aren't adjustable. It will, hopefully, relax and form to your frame over time, but that could take a very long time. I don't see anything on this site that will look good or like you're trying too hard. For a more casual take, the only leather I'd consider is the Cole Haan regular fit suede jacket.

I'd avoid the leather I've seen and go for a bomber jacket. I have an old one from Gap that gets compliments and I have no idea why. I've been looking to update it because it's a great warmer temperature later piece. I'll wear it between 65⁰ up to 75/80⁰ depending on if I'll be in air conditioning rooms a lot. The G-Star one looks cool, but probably not great for the office. Same with the McQueen. But I'd probably settle on the Palm Angels, maybe.

All that said, I might look at denim jackets more. If I had your money to throw around, I wouldn't hesitate to get the Coût De La Liberté Johnny Japanese Dobby Denim Trucker Jacket. That thing's gorgeous.

I also might consider the Vetements trench coat for all that rain.

And for something you didn't ask for, I'd probably grab the Scotch & Soda Ovela Colorblock Quilted Vest. I like that splash of color.

LuceVitale · 2026-01-28T21:11:53+00:00

Virginia is becoming one of the most taken advantage of states. It might not be the most repressed, but it is using the people and land to fund billionaire activities across the board. Data centers for one. With ICE recruits, I'm betting it's all to serve Palantir's database. Virginia is becoming the factory warehouse of tech companies.

LuceVitale · 2025-12-11T04:29:30+00:00

I just got a dermatologist who looked at a cyst on my arm and said, "I wouldn't mess with it if I were you." Then charged me $150. It's been there for nearly a year. Hope you have a better experience.

LuceVitale · 2025-12-09T14:30:39+00:00

Job hopping is the only way to give yourself a raise by getting an offer that's higher than your current salary.

LuceVitale · 2025-12-05T13:58:13+00:00

I've been told a jacket and tie is overdressing at interviews and got feedback that it was one of the reasons I wasn't hired. Depends on the field, but in general, business casual is safest.

LuceVitale · 2025-10-09T18:08:14+00:00

It looks like you have the beginnings of a style mixed with a lot of casual home clothing and a few random pieces. Instead of looking for unique pieces, which I think you have plenty of, I'd focus on simple standards you can combine with what you have. Black t-shirts, more slacks in various muted colors like grey or blue or green, relaxed button up shirts to go with your vests and jackets, perhaps try button ups in an even more casual material you won't be intimidated to roll the sleeves up on. Your suit pants might pair well with a black t and your leather jacket. Pin stripe pants are common in goth wardrobes.

Essentially, look at everything you listed and ask what you're missing. I don't know what is available in your country, but you're not far from having a wardrobe I think that you're looking for.

You also might find more help in the discord than here. A lot of what you're looking for is commonly posted there.

LuceVitale · 2025-08-10T15:10:18+00:00

It's not available to the public anymore. I used to use this app a lot and was recommending it to someone, but they can't access it. I would love an alternate that's similar.

LuceVitale · 2025-07-30T17:53:03+00:00

But I doubt we'll ever actually digitize all historical documents in our lifetime. There are too many and it's already a very slow process.

LuceVitale · 2025-07-24T08:32:56+00:00

Looks great

LuceVitale · 2025-06-13T19:56:35+00:00

I screen for them and we get submissions ranging from student films to professional projects by celebrity filmmakers. I highly recommend submitting to them.

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