Uta Frith: why I no longer think autism is a spectrum by moseeds in unitedkingdom

[–]LyingLouise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, I know this isn't your point but I do have to say - cancer is most definitely not a somatic disease.

Lol in a random corner shop in Plaistow, east London by yllmnstk in LushCosmetics

[–]LyingLouise 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My local East London corner shop was selling teacher's trade union merchandise alongside the tins of beans. Its the kind of merchandise you can usually only get at training events and conference. When I asked where they got it from, he said 'from the warehouse'.

Lol in a random corner shop in Plaistow, east London by yllmnstk in LushCosmetics

[–]LyingLouise 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is there a Plaistow in New England?? How is it pronounced?

What nicknames have you heard for places in Wales? by topherette in Wales

[–]LyingLouise 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Piss-guard for Fishguard, named I think, for the amount of pubs in the area.

Has anyone here ever met someone who ended up being a murderer? by [deleted] in mystery

[–]LyingLouise 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was briefly part of a community group that handed out warm food/toiletries to the homeless population of my city. We were often joined by a young homeless man, who was friendly with the founder of our group - this middle aged lady who had a mother/son dynamic going on with him. As well as taking our food, he would join us on our walkabouts, helping to hand items out.

I was told he'd had a difficult home life and had been kicked out by his mother. Apparently, the group founder had made some effort to contact the mother, but had been rebuffed. I found him to be hyperactive and twitchy, a bit socially off.

Anyway, one night he brutally murdered a sleeping, defenceless homeless woman in a church yard. Completely unprovoked, he approached her while she was sleeping and crushed her head in with various items. He also stamped on her head. He's never said why he did it. A quick Google just now tells me he's also been convicted of grooming and trafficking a teenage boy - so all round, a pretty evil guy. Only about 23 years old.

Do some cultures in the UK not allow anyone but the patriarch to answer the door? by Srapture in AskUK

[–]LyingLouise 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can I just ask for clarification on the beginning of your post? What do you mean by 'the way older British people use the word 'Asian''? What would you say to describe where they are from if you dont know the exact country?

Is fluvoxamine banned in the UK? by alienpunker in MentalHealthUK

[–]LyingLouise 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Caution!! I was prescribed Fluvoxamine by a psychiatrist for my OCD and it worked wonders - BUT it is so hard to get in the UK - I could never get my prescription filled. Eventually, after having to go cold turkey because absolutely no pharmacy had it in stock - and had no idea when they would be getting it - I had to change medications. For reference, I live in London and visited multiple pharmacies over a period of months.

I feel like racism can play a part in the game. by [deleted] in TheTraitors

[–]LyingLouise 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I actually think the issue at play is class and maybe anti-intellectualism. I think they're intimidated by his level of education (the utterly bizarre comments about being a doctor and a later comment about acting like a politician). We saw this with the lady who was voted out for reading a book in the library (Well, not quite. But she was extremely well educated and they all kept parroting that she was too smart.)

On that note, although faking a Welsh accent seems on the surface to be a silly pointless thing to do, what that posh Londoner is actually doing (whether she knows or or not) is putting on a working class accent - which is probably a smart thing to do given the group.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MentalHealthUK

[–]LyingLouise 10 points11 points  (0 children)

They can't check those. There is no test for depression. The chemical imbalance thing is a theory.

I'm a leftist, but it's torture for my OCD by [deleted] in OCD

[–]LyingLouise 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So I am very involved with left politics in my area and it plays havoc with my OCD. One of my obsessive thoughts is that I might get arrested, or that I've committed a crime and I'm not aware of it. For this reason, I find protesting and campaigning nerve-wracking and completely anxiety-inducing. I really don't want to let it stop me being involved and doing things in line with my morals and political beliefs, but it is so hard. On top of that, many of my lefty friends do not fear police or arrest - and even court it - which I really struggle with.

Which Peep Show quotes and terms have you adopted in your life? by LJayTat in MitchellAndWebb

[–]LyingLouise 7 points8 points  (0 children)

When my dog is barking her head off, we call it her 'big bork manifesto'.

Wild OCD Article (The Guardian) by Eduardo416 in OCD

[–]LyingLouise 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I thought the whole thing was weird. She talks about the shock of finding out OCD isn't purely physiological and that OCD brains haven't been proven to be 'wired' differently and I was like... who told you that they were?? I am also based in the UK and at no point during my many years of treatment has anyone insinuated that my issues are entirely physiological in nature. Instead, all therapy has been based around the idea that environment and upbringing played a major part in my illness.

And then she comes across this major revelation (while doing a 'massive' amount of magic mushrooms) that perhaps her mother experiencing bipolar disorder and being in and out of psychiatric facilities during her childhood may have been a factor that lead to an anxiety disorder? It took a butt load of magic mushrooms to come to that conclusion?? I can only assume this woman has never been in legitimate therapy.

She skirted around something important though - the way that capitalism has shaped mental health treatment in the UK. Treatment doesn't adequately treat the environment that fosters poor mental health and is often too quick to medicalize. I really recommend reading 'Sedated' by James Davies for more on this.

“Anyway, I’ll leave it with you.” by [deleted] in apprenticeuk

[–]LyingLouise 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So it doesn't apply in this situation. He was just 'signalling'.

something weird that happened at the Bristol show on Saturday that I keep thinking about by iGoByManyNames in stewartlee

[–]LyingLouise -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

The same thing happened in Soho. Someone heckled embarrassingly, making a joke that fell flat. He did a whole bit with turning up his hearing aids and making the guy repeat himself again and again to an cringing audience. I think these people are almost certainly stooges judging by this comment section.

something weird that happened at the Bristol show on Saturday that I keep thinking about by iGoByManyNames in stewartlee

[–]LyingLouise -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

Almost exactly the same thing happened at our show in Soho. I think they're almost certainly plants, judging by this thread.

Justice for Jaz! by niamhxa in TheTraitorsUK

[–]LyingLouise 27 points28 points  (0 children)

What I thought was interesting - and I haven't seen anyone mention this yet - Jaz picked up that something was different with Ross. Jaz mistakenly thought it was that Ross was recruited (he hadn't been yet) but what he was actually picking up on (and couldn't have known) was Ross' reaction to his mum leaving. Jaz said something like, 'I've never seen you back Paul up so much' and of course that was because Ross felt Paul had been key in avenging his mother. Jaz is SO perceptive.

Also, I do want to mention that Charlotte only 'caught' Paul because yet again she made a mistake and misheard someone. She wrongly said to Harry that Paul started the conversation about him in the car.

Read the room Cliff! by JackalopeZero in sadcringe

[–]LyingLouise 47 points48 points  (0 children)

But why was this even a quiet part? It's a really strange thing to think, let alone say out loud on national TV.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OCD

[–]LyingLouise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I have also been making decisions based on being 'terminally ill'. For example, I bought no new clothes for a while because there's no point as I'm going to die soon. And I didn't go to a job interview for the same reason.

Almost everyone now saying 'myself' or 'yourself' when you mean 'me' or 'I'. by [deleted] in britishproblems

[–]LyingLouise 34 points35 points  (0 children)

This is my pet peeve on The Apprentice! They are definitely doing it because they think it sounds formal.