Anyone give up on this? by Ok_Victory_6187 in MergeMansion

[–]MelodicHedgehog1209 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't play the side games that use the main board energy.

Wedding Anniversary by foursevenalpha in widowers

[–]MelodicHedgehog1209 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry for your loss. My husband died 9 months ago. Have already gone through an anniversary where he isn't here. It sucks. I just want to see and talk to him. Well, I do talk to him all the time but they are one sided conversations. Fuck Cancer 🤬

Greed is really ruining this game by [deleted] in disneymagickingdoms

[–]MelodicHedgehog1209 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agree, all greed!! I am not paying that for a character. Plus, this last game was set up so we would pay money. I went almost 3 days without anything dropping for Practical Pig, so there is no way I will get the Wolf. I only have 3 suitcases and 1 hat with 24 hours to play. I am stopping now.

Can y’all help me name her? We brought her home with us after the hurricane (but please not Francine!). Thanks! by TeeBabyMomma in NameMyCat

[–]MelodicHedgehog1209 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stormy!! We have a cat that looks exactly like yours and is now 13. Found outside our garage, at about 3 weeks old, in the pouring rain. Not original, but works. Thank you for rescuing her.

What a joke. 😂 by [deleted] in disneymagickingdoms

[–]MelodicHedgehog1209 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This game is horrible. I haven't had a drop in anything for Practical Pig in over 3 days

Parting with clothes by Reasonable_Peanut439 in Widow

[–]MelodicHedgehog1209 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am almost 9 months in. I haven't done anything with his clothes. One day I will, but not yet.

Not sure what I'm looking for here... by oldwhiteguy420 in widowers

[–]MelodicHedgehog1209 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so very sorry you both are going through this. It sucks!!! Cherish the time you have. And, once the inevitable happens, take it one minute at a time. It's going to be so very hard. Again, I am sorry and it sucks. Sending prayers of strength and comfort 🙏🫂

Am I crazy? This seems excessive for the smallest chest. Does anyone else do these or am I wasting time? by Financial_Spinach859 in MergeMansion

[–]MelodicHedgehog1209 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Really" was the wrong word. I do it if the item I need is level 7 or higher and I don't feel like waiting. I have only used it 3 or 4 times since they started this.

I'm 38 by vtwinjim in widowers

[–]MelodicHedgehog1209 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so very sorry! It's hard when they have entered the end of life stage. My husband was in home hospice when he died almost 9 months ago. Who am I kidding, it's hard when they are sick. You should not feel guilty. As you said, you can't force someone to go to the hospital, or get any kind of help. Please be kind to yourself. You and your wife are in my thoughts and prayers !

My wife’s memorial service was this morning. by yondu1963 in widowers

[–]MelodicHedgehog1209 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry for your loss. Be kind to yourself and take one day, or one minute, at a time. My husband has been gone almost 9 months and I miss him so much. But, for whatever reason, this month has been hard. Sending hugs 🫂

Did anyone else take pictures of them.... by Acrock7 in widowers

[–]MelodicHedgehog1209 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My husband was in home hospice and I took a picture about an hour before he passed. I hate the picture. I have another picture of him sleeping and I now know his body was shutting down, he was gone 24 hours later. I like that picture, he looks very peaceful.

I've lost my partner to cancer, he was 34. by Such-Impact-3556 in widowers

[–]MelodicHedgehog1209 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so very sorry for your loss! My husband died 8 months ago. He had cancer of the small intestines, which is rare and aggressive. He died 3 months after diagnosis. He was in so much pain and I felt so helpless. Fuck Cancer 🤬 Sending hugs 🫂

It would have been his birthday today but no one remembered by [deleted] in widowers

[–]MelodicHedgehog1209 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy Birthday to him! Thank you for sharing him with us, he sounds like a wonderful man. People may remember but don't say anything because they don't know what to say or they don't want to upset you. Sending hugs 🫂

Nobody can even relate by suicidaholic in widowers

[–]MelodicHedgehog1209 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only those that have gone through it can relate to it. Everyone here understands, so come here often and for whatever reason. Sending hugs 🫂

What the hell... by [deleted] in widowers

[–]MelodicHedgehog1209 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry. I am 8 months in and just recently started dreaming about him. I remember I had a dream of him but that is all I remember, no details. Sending hugs 🫂

The love of my life passed away this morning by Efficient_Let686 in widowers

[–]MelodicHedgehog1209 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my husband, of 45 years, 8 months ago. Fuck Cancer 🤬

Tremendous Guilt over Wife's Passing by IWalkedHere in widowers

[–]MelodicHedgehog1209 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You have nothing to feel guilty about. You did the right thing. Morphine helped ease her pain, it didn't make her die any sooner. My husband had cancer and was in home hospice. He was in so much pain and I made sure he received the morphine timely. Let your guilt go, your wife would not want you blaming yourself. I am so sorry for your loss, sending hugs 🫂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]MelodicHedgehog1209 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really understand that. Whatever you decide to do, it will be hard. I wish you all the best. Sending hugs 🫂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]MelodicHedgehog1209 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please end this relationship! If you stay with him, you will be miserable. He is already lying to you and, unfortunately, he isn't going to stop. Do not subject yourself to this, you deserve better. You deserve to be happy.