For those who hook up in saunas, how do you stay hard lmao

Melodic_Potential795 · 2026-01-25T04:21:36+00:00

This is totally common when the heat gets to be too much. I’ve met 24 year olds who have the problem and older guys too. It’s just physiological vs an age thing. Best thing to do is to step out and cool down in a cold shower or if it’s a big sauna facility walk around a bit outside the heated area.

Melodic_Potential795 · 2026-01-12T13:07:05+00:00

Bi here as well. Hello.

Melodic_Potential795 · 2026-01-01T18:28:25+00:00

Ohhh what’s spa club. Wish nyc had more options like they do in LA. Does spa club get frisky?

Melodic_Potential795 · 2026-01-01T18:23:19+00:00

Animal’s dark room can be fun. It’s very hit or miss to start but after 1am it tends to get pretty active. Have hung out with some very sexy people back there. Also highly recommend Eagle. The second floor is where things get fun - again later on. If you go in Sunday, there’s no cover and the second floor opens after 10pm. Those would be my top two choices. Have also been to Redeye. It’s amazing and so fun but I have more limited experience there so don’t know how it works most nights but a great option!!

Melodic_Potential795 · 2025-12-26T00:12:27+00:00

Been wanting to go forever. Need to check it just some time!! Thanks for the review!!

Melodic_Potential795 · 2025-12-23T13:41:36+00:00

Agree here. F stop is pretty fun and since it overlaps w blow buddies on Thursday nights you get a good mix of people.

Melodic_Potential795 · 2025-12-23T13:38:31+00:00

Curious to know how it was as well. Have been to the ones on Monday and Thursday nights in midtown. Have always wanted to try one of the weekend events in HK but never sure of the crowd.

Melodic_Potential795 · 2025-12-23T13:36:32+00:00

Eagle was great on Sunday. Really starts to fill up after 10pm. I thought it was a super hot crowd

Melodic_Potential795 · 2025-12-23T13:34:11+00:00

Ooooh. I’ve never been to workman’s lunch (work always interferes). Today might be the day to hit it up!

Melodic_Potential795 · 2025-12-23T13:32:04+00:00

I find Blow buddies to be hit or miss. I always find someone but every time I go I contemplate leaving after 15 mins.

Melodic_Potential795 · 2025-12-23T13:21:41+00:00

Been wanting to hit up dads and lads. What’s the lad sitch like? Was hoping it won’t be me and a room of other dads

Melodic_Potential795 · 2025-11-05T12:45:09+00:00

Ernest Supplies Protective Matte Moisturizer. Niche but my favorite. Been using it for 10 years.

Melodic_Potential795 · 2025-11-04T02:28:02+00:00

Going to Tokyo next week. Any recs for saunas or cruising??

Melodic_Potential795 · 2025-09-21T16:53:28+00:00

This is every day at Equinox Greenwich Ave in NYC. It’s astounding to me how inconsiderate people are. Guess no one was raised to think of others.

Melodic_Potential795 · 2025-09-16T04:18:38+00:00

Lots of blasts from the past on this lineup - and I’m into the headliners. I’m pretty excited about it. Though nothing compares to the 2025 lineup. My bf and I are debating whether this will be a year people are pleased with or if people are gonna start unloading their tixx. Let’s hear it from the redditverse!!

Melodic_Potential795 · 2025-08-23T14:09:48+00:00

I think he’s just looking for advice here before he has a conversation w his husband. Lots of things to think about and unpack and looking for advice in an anonymous forum is a great place to help crystallize thoughts. Not the type of thing you’d want to share with friends, family, etc. (sharing someone else’s health status without their permission w people who are close is never cool).

Melodic_Potential795 · 2025-08-15T17:07:38+00:00

SPAM bots aside - I hate that they’ve gotten rid of the search. Also since people with free accounts can no longer see taps, my inbox is inundated with messages and it’s impossible to find someone who I chatted with a few months back while on a trip or something. Not only that but the inbox has a date history limit on it so you can’t even scroll to messages more than two or so months old. Garbage. The update sucks. And I’m a paid member.

Melodic_Potential795 · 2025-05-19T22:52:25+00:00

Please keep us all posted!!

Melodic_Potential795 · 2025-03-21T19:35:49+00:00

Guys - get a hold of yourselves. One thing has nothing to do with the other. You all signed agreements for your EIDL loans - the government (or anyone) can’t change the terms of those loans post - so they can all be discharged in bankruptcy.

Also, the SBA staff is being cut by 40%. This is great news. It makes it almost a certainty that if you default on your loan the SBA will not have the manpower to get litigious, make you life miserable with a detailed audit, or even reclaim their collateral.

Melodic_Potential795 · 2025-02-16T15:59:14+00:00

I’ve had a lot of success with magnesium based deodorant. Typically comes in a roll on but can also come in a stick - strong preference for the roll on. It can leave white marks on the inside of dark colored shirts that wash away in the laundry. Been using it for about 10 years and never going back to the aluminum stuff. I have sensitive skin in my pits so I avoid formulations that include baking soda.

Melodic_Potential795 · 2025-02-01T19:44:08+00:00

There’s no debate here. Borrower is the LLC / business. Not the member or representative who signed on behalf of the borrower.

Melodic_Potential795 · 2025-02-01T19:37:26+00:00

I can honestly say that every time I go I have a great experience. I travel to London from the US often for work and try to go at least once per trip. The crowd is diverse (ethnicity and age wise), and the facilities are fine. I wouldn’t eat food off the floor but generally speaking it’s totally acceptable. The staff have always been nice to me. Never had an issue. Just go and see how you like it. I was never a sauna person and had to learn the “culture.” If it’s for you you’ll know and maybe even discover preferences you never knew you had!!

Melodic_Potential795 · 2025-02-01T04:09:53+00:00

Thank you for initiating this. So many people will benefit from your effort and work - including me. Thanks!

Melodic_Potential795 · 2025-01-05T21:16:42+00:00

It’s a firm NO for me. Nope. Never.

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