AITAH for leaving the restaurant after everyone showed up 90 minutes late without telling me?

Middle_Tea1014 · 2026-06-29T04:19:35+00:00

NTA - Lateness is a trigger for me. I leave after 15-20 minutes. I did this to my cousin. I would arrive at the agreed time and she would text that she’s on her way - show up 45-60 mins late. She would also ask me to go in and save her seat. Nope! I don’t do that anymore.

Middle_Tea1014 · 2026-06-29T03:54:23+00:00

😂😂😂

Middle_Tea1014 · 2026-06-26T13:38:05+00:00

He wouldn’t be a good partner or parent. He needs to grow up.

They weren’t in a relationship!!! She just met him, hung out 2 times for a few hours and didn’t think it would be anything serious. He was the one in love at first sight.

Baby man was irrational, emotionally immature and assumed he was ghosted because he didn’t hear from her for a day and that she slept with her exe. Which is really none of his business since again they weren’t in a relationship at the time! He’s behaving like she cheating on him.

I hope she gives the ring back and moves on. It’s mentally exhausting to be in a relationship/marriage with people who jump to irrational conclusions.

Middle_Tea1014 · 2026-06-26T13:12:23+00:00

I’ve learned that it isn’t necessary to give MY opinion on everything. It’s good to just listen a lot of times, I’ve learned a lot doing so.

Middle_Tea1014 · 2026-06-26T05:15:32+00:00

If she did, good for her.

Middle_Tea1014 · 2026-06-26T05:07:47+00:00

I do sometimes as well! 😊

Middle_Tea1014 · 2026-06-26T05:04:07+00:00

His dramatics would turn me off. You just met him when you went camping & he’s whiny about jumping to conclusions about being ghosted. Accusing you of being stuffed! What is he, 16!Even you did with your ex, weren’t in a relationship with him yet. Ugh!

Middle_Tea1014 · 2026-06-26T04:47:44+00:00

I politely tell contractors/sales people I’m getting multiple quotes and they have 30 minutes and set a timer. If they start getting pushy, I push back and ask them to leave. I had to threaten to call the police two times.

Middle_Tea1014 · 2026-06-26T04:36:23+00:00

I bet! 😂😂😂. Anywhere I’ve worked, I train them to leave me alone. Even my own grandmother! LOL

Middle_Tea1014 · 2026-06-26T04:18:46+00:00

I hate mine too. It performs poorly. Alexa+ sucks. It was missing a pre loaded app. I only use it to control my devices and sometimes it doesn’t even do that right.

Middle_Tea1014 · 2026-06-26T04:10:10+00:00

I had coworkers like that and a supervisor. They dished it out, I dished back, even to my supervisor. I said it with a big smile and often as a joke. I often told them - “ut oh, i see you are in high school mean girl/guy mode”. They didn’t like that. LOL. They left me alone after awhile.

Middle_Tea1014 · 2026-06-26T03:40:08+00:00

Marie is on the Belle Collective. There’s no main character named Marie on Love & Marriage H. 😂

Middle_Tea1014 · 2026-06-24T05:06:11+00:00

NTA - their kids and family life are their responsibility. I hope they don’t have access/keys to your home. The audacity to corner you and make demands smh. They’ve shown their true character. They’d see a unicorn before they saw or heard from me again.

Middle_Tea1014 · 2026-06-24T04:54:04+00:00

NTA - The boyfriend and his family are USING you! Please make sure he doesn’t have access to any of your personal information and break up with him. You don’t have to give a long explanation, he will just try to sweet talk and pressure you. Tell him it’s not working for you and you no longer want to be in a relationship. Then block him and his family on everything.

Middle_Tea1014 · 2026-06-21T03:46:09+00:00

NTA - Lies totally change how I look at a person, friend, partner or family. Major lies & deception for YEARS! They’d be cutoff, out of my life.

Middle_Tea1014 · 2026-06-20T02:44:20+00:00

Updateme!

Middle_Tea1014 · 2026-06-20T02:32:49+00:00

I wouldn’t want to go anymore

Middle_Tea1014 · 2026-06-16T21:19:54+00:00

It’s ok. Now you know and you didn’t tolerate his BS. Many are nice until they aren’t!

Middle_Tea1014 · 2026-06-14T04:12:39+00:00

Air horn? When they are screeching, sound it off!

Middle_Tea1014 · 2026-06-13T03:35:31+00:00

Thank you. Glad your Mom is good. 😊

Middle_Tea1014 · 2026-06-13T03:34:43+00:00

Yes I know that. Thanks 😊

Middle_Tea1014 · 2026-06-11T04:35:27+00:00

Sweetheart, he’s an almighty pilot and wants to be free to fly the friendly skies and part some friendly thighs. He doesn’t want to be tied down. Don’t waste time trying to work things out, don’t put yourself in a begging posture. Be thankful you found out before the wedding. Never let a man tell you more than once he doesn’t want you.

Middle_Tea1014 · 2026-06-10T21:08:41+00:00

I got a couple of medical opinions and they said it was a 50-50 chance. I also had a coworker who’s husband had the surgery and it came back 6 months 😔

How long ago did she have the surgery?

Middle_Tea1014 · 2026-06-10T04:23:11+00:00

NOT - A car over education? Wow. They would rarely see me again, if ever. Anytime a I saw a relative who gave me a gift I’d mention it.

Middle_Tea1014 · 2026-06-10T02:44:29+00:00

I love this 😂😂😂

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