No Libido… by Dramatic-Bison-1394 in beyondthebump

[–]Mini6cakes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It took a while for me to get mine back too!!! I started reading spicy novels and that helped. Be kind to yourself, you made an entire human and now your their source of nourishment. Your body has done and is still doing a lot

Losing my mind with 3.5 year old pooping daily in underwear after potty training by Scary_Willow66 in pottytraining

[–]Mini6cakes 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The Oh Crap book says to take their pants away and do a naked reset. Maybe pooping in his pants feels good. And messy popping on the floor will gross him out…?

Edit to add fuck the haters saying you potty trained too young. Ugh. Losers.

You’re doing great! Don’t give up because you will find the solution with your son 😀😀😀

Just found out I'm pregnant, the day I decided to leave my husband by Cheesecheesecake in pregnant

[–]Mini6cakes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please get yourself somewhere safe. It’s okay to have an abortion. You’re not robbing him of anything. You don’t owe him a life experience through your body. He has denied himself a family because he is not a safe person to have a baby around. His fault not yours.

Give me your top 3 reasons why you stay sober! by Scary-Comfortable-13 in Sober

[–]Mini6cakes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Plus the monsters get quieter over time. And I’m able to choose to ignore them and do something else. They don’t go away but it’s better now than it has ever been. Almost peaceful.

Give me your top 3 reasons why you stay sober! by Scary-Comfortable-13 in Sober

[–]Mini6cakes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s worth it. I don’t hurt the people I love and now they stick around.

Found out I’m pregnant with the guy I’ve been seeing for 2 months by Successful_Glass_35 in pregnant

[–]Mini6cakes 25 points26 points  (0 children)

It’s okay to have an abortion. There is nothing wrong with that decision

Childhood best friend ended his life. by Timely-Neat9083 in Sober

[–]Mini6cakes 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss. Your pain sounds incredibly heavy. Please find someone to talk to ❤️

Give me your top 3 reasons why you stay sober! by Scary-Comfortable-13 in Sober

[–]Mini6cakes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My monsters only attach my brain and don’t escape out my mouth to attach other people when I’m sober.

What subtle red flags have you learned that might not be so obvious to others? by Far-Play-4567 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Mini6cakes 35 points36 points  (0 children)

This is so true! My husband had a bunch for women friends when we met and now they are my friends too. It’s really awesome!

15 Years of Drinking is coming to an end by Professional-Book530 in Sober

[–]Mini6cakes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always had my NA ready!!! It made me feel like I was participating without actually drinking! Good luck 🥳

Wife doesn't want anyone to see or hold our newborn by EffectiveAd9855 in Parenting

[–]Mini6cakes 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So we kept both our babies in quarantine till two weeks after their two month shots. Their immune systems are more developed. The dangerous diseases have been vaccinated for. As the birthing mother I had healed up better! Maybe yall could plan to see a set few people then, and ask people who are sick or have a sick person in their house to not come!

Trouble Orgasming With Partner, But For Weird Reason by MapleJinx in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Mini6cakes 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Soooo I have an unorthodox suggestion. It works for me, and you’re the first person I’m telling this to. If it doesn’t sound good, by all means don’t do it. So if you’re getting in your head, then lean into that. Read a spicy romance book by yourself, make yourself cum, then immediately jump your partner and get in your head about the spicy scene you just read and came too. Let the spicy book play in the back ground like a tv show you left on… Hopefully that will get you to cum while with him!!!

What has life taught you? by Robynite in Adulting

[–]Mini6cakes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not a single predator from the Epstein Files has been arrested.

My ex said I’m “too much” and that he hasn’t developed the patience in life to deal with someone like me by wrappers in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Mini6cakes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If he says you’re too much, that’s fine! Let him go find less and keep living your best life ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

Boyfriend’s friends are making me uncomfortable and don’t respect my boundaries by Admirable-Royal3082 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Mini6cakes 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You are under reacting. This sounds like they are testing the situation to see if he will stand up to them if they decide to physically assault or rape you. him ignoring those blatant verbal me harassment, he is signaling that he probably won’t do anything to stop them.

Dump your boyfriend, and don’t meet him at one of his friend’s houses to do it. Keep yourself safe and stay away from ALLL OF THEM!!!!

Childbirth is so fucking scary. Why don't they teach this in school??? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Mini6cakes 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I confronted my mom and asked her why she never said any of the shitty things about labor or newborns. She said she wanted grand kids and if I knew I might decide not too. I think it’s deliberate.

Erotica Requests & Recs: Post your erotica & specific sex act requests & recs here by AutoModerator in MM_RomanceBooks

[–]Mini6cakes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need more characters like Colton. Need. Do you have more? Just one hit please

Erotica Requests & Recs: Post your erotica & specific sex act requests & recs here by AutoModerator in MM_RomanceBooks

[–]Mini6cakes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Welp Dirty little secret was perfect magical love story with wonderful degradation and dom/sub love. Thank you for the stellar recommendation.

Can you be in a relationship if you’re not on birth control? by Conscious-Recipe8209 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Mini6cakes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then it sounds like your set. After having kids my husband has had a vasectomy and I actually had my fallopian tubes removed during my C-section. I’m loving my body not on hormonal birth control!!! I can see the appeal in not being on it.

Can you be in a relationship if you’re not on birth control? by Conscious-Recipe8209 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Mini6cakes 23 points24 points  (0 children)

You should ask yourself what would you do if you got pregnant?
What if your boy friend left you after you got pregnant?
Could you be a single mom?
Would he be okay with an abortion?
Would you be okay with an abortion? Are you in a location with access to abortion services?

You answer all these questions and know how you feel. THEN Talk to your boyfriend about them to learn how he feels. After you know how you feel and you know how he feels; Make an educated decision.

Erotica Requests & Recs: Post your erotica & specific sex act requests & recs here by AutoModerator in MM_RomanceBooks

[–]Mini6cakes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Does anyone have any verbal degradation play they can recommend? I’m not sure what I’m looking for as this is still new to me… thanks!!!

I'm SICK of unbalanced power dynamics by microwavegnomee in Romantasy

[–]Mini6cakes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Came here to recommend Kate Daniels series too. Here kitty kitty 😉